I wonder if someone could give me some advice on mh wrt applications
A very dear friend's dd whom I've known since birth and am very fond of is applying to C. She (dd not friend) is asking me for a lot of reassurance around this purely on the basis i went to O a million years ago, though I did a totally different subject and know nothing about hers at all. Nor - apart from what I pick up on here, and there seems a lot of conflicting advice - do I know anything about the wider Oxbridge admissions process.
She has had anorexia since the pandemic, been in and out of EDUs and is still in a terrible state, if there was enough provision she'd be back in a unit. She's had to drop down a year because of all the school she missed.
She is absolutely fixated on C, obsessively following her cohort's progress and who did and didn't get in, to the point where she alienated some schoolfriends who got annoyed with her constant demand for updates. She has been telling me for the past couple of years she stands a brilliant chance because her subject is niche (it's not one of the big subjects but still has a 1/4 success rate). She also tells me her mh issues will give her bonus points and make her a shoo in.
She attends a state school but it's a "posh" one so not sure there will be much added value in that. Her postcode may give her contextual points (don't know, I haven't checked) but her mum is a super high-flyer and earns over £1m a year and is university educated. Her GCSEs were good, all 8s and 9s I think but they were pandemic GCSEs, so count for less I imagine. I haven't dared ask what her predicted grades are and the fact she hasn't told me may be significant ... She's asked me to read her personal statement, which appears great to me, lots of relevant summer schools etc - but it's not a subject I know anything about so I can't really judge.
ANYWAY, I am nervous that she is kidding herself that she will get in purely because of her terrible mental health and obviously concerned she'll go even further backwards if she is rejected. TBH, I'm not sure such a pressurised environment would be ideal for her either but that is not my business so I am keeping out of it. Does mh make a difference either way? Would she be prioritised? Or would it be held against her? I feel very sad just writing this so please be gentle