We found an open Days useful. Before we went, DS hadn’t really seen a uni and didn’t realise how big they are. We visited 6, with both myself and DH goiing to a couple with him and just one of us to some. Without a doubt it was time consuming and expensive. There were overnight stays in 3 Premier Inns and 2 overnight stays with friends and just one which involved there and back in one day. In one weekend, it was possible to fit 2 in. Most were travelled to by car, but one was by train and for that one with train, overnight accommodation and food, it cost over £500. I can totally see that this isn’t going to be accessible to lots.
The visits were lovely in lots of ways and certainly useful. From seeing DS see places for the first time and hearing him think through what he liked and didn’t like was great. Just having those weekends one-to-one with meals and time together is also a period of time I will remmeber findly and hope he will too.
For him, visiting the places was vital for getting a feel for them…the uni and the city. He knew he didn’t like Warwick even thought the course was good and reputation strong.
Because he was going to put places which might not offer, even though he had high predicted grades, good GCSEs etc, he couldn’t guarantee he would get offers from any of the top 3 or 4 of his choices. He had Oxford down, which he knew he probably wouldn’t get an offer from and then Durham was his next choice, but he knew that lots of strong candidates don’t get offers for the course there either and then he had a popular Scottish one which often turns away top candidates too. So he wanted to be sure he had someone that was good which would more definitely offer to him, but of course it was important to him that he actually liked it and was prepared to go. What they don’t know is if they might get offers from all of these very selective unis, or just one or two. Because of this, he really wanted to visit lots.