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Help misdee and Peter - NOW

308 replies

hub2dee · 05/07/2005 23:24

Hi all,

I am sure loads of you have followed misdee's posts about her dh, Peter, who needs a heart transplant urgently.

His op tomorrow will buy him some time, but a heart transplant will be needed very soon.

So many people have posted with love and hugs, asking what they could do to help etc. and misdee has previously mentioned carrying donor cards or going on the Organ Donor Register , but I'm sure many of you, like me, feel utterly powerless to assist in any other useful way at all.

Well....

Now there is something you can do.

Harefield Hospital is about 60 miles away from misdee's house and as she is still learning to drive, her folks or her sister, sparklymieow, give her a lift several times a week. The petrol for the trip costs about £10 for the return journey. As you can imagine, doing this every other day soon adds up. If you can, will you sponsor a journey to Harefield ?

Whilst misdee is away from her kids, she also needs baby sitting services, which also add to the cost of each visit. Any sum at all can be used to cover a baby sitter to give misdee a break so she can spend some time with Peter. Could you donate whatever it costs you to hire a babysitter for an hour ?

Peter is facing a pretty major operation tomorrow, and I thought it might be nice to show support by offloading some of this financial burden from misdee, just so life is that little bit easier IYSWIM. She has enough to handle without getting into debt to fund visits to the hospital.

I have run this by MN HQ who have been really supportive of the idea. If more money than needed comes in, misdee can donate it to the Heart Unit at Harefield Hospital, which is under threat of closure.

One of Peter's inspirations in this terrifying journey is a guy called John Fisher. He had his transplant on the 30th July 2000. You can read more at his site here . Accordingly, MN HQ will collect cheques made payable to S Williams until 30th July 2005:

Mumsnet misdee
PO Box 657
Ipswich
IP1 9AE

You can also make a contribution by paypal directly to misdee's paypal address which is djmisdee @ hotmail.nospam.com

(remove the spaces and the .nospam).

misdee, I hope you will allow everyone on MN who cares for you to help you out a little and we hope Peter's heart comes soon.

Please be generous lovely MNers, all of it will help.

Feel free to bump until 30th July !

OP posts:
jessicaandbumpsmummy · 07/07/2005 07:30

i know hun, but be strong, we will be here when you need us. Ill be off to post office today, i know ive been saying it all week but DH has been on crutches so not that easy to get stuff done.

Hope you can get some re-assurance after seeing him, that things will get better xxxx

jessicaandbumpsmummy · 07/07/2005 08:40

another shameless bump x

Springchicken · 07/07/2005 09:06

Only just seen this and am embarrassed to say that i had no idea this was all happening I knew that Misdee's DH wasn't well but didn't realise it was so serious.

Got no pennies til tomorrow but i will be tranferring by paypal as soon as money clears.
Hope Peter is doing OK today misdee.

Jessicaandbumpsmummy - Can you tell me what Misdee needs baby clothes wise - caugt a bit of a thread the other day where you were talking about it and i have a spare room full of DD's old clothes.

Easy · 07/07/2005 09:09

Berolina,

If you have a credit card you should be able to use Paypal. Register with paypal, giving your credit card number, rather than a british switch card number.

jessicaandbumpsmummy · 07/07/2005 09:14

spring chicken.... ive been sending some girls stuff 3-6 summer or 6-9 autumn stuff.

sparklymieow · 07/07/2005 09:54

BUMP!! (Doing my bit for my sister)

spursmum · 07/07/2005 10:04

Bump from me!! friends gotta stick together!!!

sobernow · 07/07/2005 10:23

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Message withdrawn at poster's request.

tiredemma · 07/07/2005 10:28

misdee, sending you and your family lots of love at the mo.

Am totally broke till next monday- will send you a cheque then.

love again to you all- your an amazing strong woman

PeachyClair · 07/07/2005 10:55

bump

mears · 07/07/2005 11:23

bump

PeachyClair · 07/07/2005 11:58

bumpety bump

misdee · 07/07/2005 12:00

i dont think we should bump this today. leave for today please.

sobernow · 07/07/2005 23:36

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Message withdrawn at poster's request.

MrsGordonRamsay · 07/07/2005 23:36

Hear Hear SN

MrsGordonRamsay · 07/07/2005 23:41

Right Girls I am off to bed can we keep this bumped ???

Murky

hunkermunker · 07/07/2005 23:42

Have sent you a little something, Misdee - sorry it's not more, but am far more skint than I thought this month - can't count for toffee

rickman · 07/07/2005 23:54

Message withdrawn

Janh · 07/07/2005 23:56

rickman, please don't feel bad here, this is not what this is about, misdee knows

sparklymieow · 07/07/2005 23:57

rickman, misdee is shocked by how much has been raised already, so don't worry, some of the people haven't left a nickname so she has no idea who has donated. I know it won't worry her

rickman · 08/07/2005 00:07

Message withdrawn

Tortington · 08/07/2005 00:11

only gave you a fiver - thought i would make you walk home

Blackduck · 08/07/2005 06:37

Early morning bump...

misdee · 08/07/2005 07:46

rickman, dont worry. like mieow says i have had donations from people who didnt leave their names. from a couple of pounds to a lot more. i am overwhealmed by the generousity of mumsnet. today i am going to harefield, i will be able to afford the petrol costs, and also be able to grab some lunch whilst i'm there, and not just a cuppa like i usually do. each time i check my email/paypal i'm staggered beyond belief. thank you mumsnet, for making my life a little bit easier. And remeber to sign up to the donor register

Twiglett · 08/07/2005 10:24

BUMP

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