LIGHT up your Life. WHETE!

[BitterAndTwistedGoreDodger]

Sorry for the rubbish title.

Hello, I am Bitter and have 3 or 4 lb to lose.

Whether you have a lot or a little to lose, join in for lots of chat and some healthy eating.

All welcome, as long as you have something to say.

ah now physically I could go with Bette Middler, but I suspect that she doesn't quite capture my personality - personality wise I am thinking more Sandra Bullock in Miss Congeniality.

good night saf and double, hope you both feel less lurgified tomorrow.

it was just that you described bette middler tc.

i hardly look like that girl!

morning all.

woken up to ds in my bed asking more Q's about his father and expressing a wish to find him and kill him

overcame shock mode and went into counsellor mode, it sounds like you feel angry at him etc. he is

all forgotten about again for now.

one way to get me out of bed though - ask me about something that i can't ignore and makes me feel bad and you'll get my full attention!

(squeeze) WIF. now I slip into counsellor mode - but it's great that he has the confidence in you to talk about this, shows the strength of the bond and the trust. far better to process the anger properly than turn it inward.

That is a shame WiF, IS ds OK now?

thanks tc. and yes mittz he's fine. it's just been coming up a lot lately. he's processing.

everyone ok?

Yeas thanks WiF

I am starting to have more and more better days .

DS did a lot of processing. They don't understand that the problem is the adults and not just an outright rejection of them personally.

havent caught up yet, my bloody laptop screen died last night so will catch up now x

cheers - i'll take all three double.

my sis and kids are back from holiday so we're off for a autumn walk at a country park (please lord let their be a pub at the end of it) with them shortly.

hope everyone has a lovely day x

Afternoon lushies.

Well, what a night of dreams I had last night!

I can't tell you, I'd die of embarrassment. But let's just say, the subject matter we discussed last night spilled onto my sleep time!

Been for my flu jab this morning and now my arm is a wee bit sore, also I feel hot. But I know it passess soon enough so no sympathy needed!! Not like Brian!!

Bitter - glad you are better lovely.

SAF - has you post arrived?

Dubs - are you still up and down? How is your headache babes? My flowers look wonderful on the kitchen window in the sunshine.... thank you xx

Desire - how are you?

TC - hung over? Sorry DS is still having ishoos.

Mittz - mwah xx

Brian - are you still illing????

Nemo is much much better

Aww, thanks Dub's DS. Here, have a Mouse hug (((((x)))))

How weird Mouse..... my dreams were interesting also...just shows how susceptible to auto suggestion I am.

Sorry you are not on top form yet Double .

I have worked like as dog! A dog I tell you. Cleaned , polished, beaten the settee, washed,mopped. I am a domestic Goddess.

Ouch on the flu jab Mouse. You are very humble about it,...Isn't she Brian!?
Mini Mexican wave for Nemo xx

Don't do anything Double, films, fluids and friends.
DC's were scrambling my head before they went with their Dad.

i have walked a long way in mud. was pretty though.

think i may have earned a glass of port.

mouse - yes thank you gorgeous, post has been x

SAF - super. And yes to port, tis chilly and grey here. Port is so warming. Yum. xx

Mittz - funny how the mind works eh? Mine has always been filthy but last night! Phew, had me all of a fluster and yes Dubs, you were in it!

As were a few other MNers!

Mittz - now you have worked your butt off, may a cuppa and a treat? A bit of you time as the DCs are out? Does he have them over night?

0right still not caught up, im trying to work

can you do me a favour and have a look at my decorations please? I'll upload the photos in two mins. Any comments very welcome x

right pics are up...

I am sobbing.... an Mner who has had some trauma has just had her baby and she is fine. So good to here she is OK.....

Yes have had a slow down time, But pottering.

DC's Dad is having them overnight. It has been a very child intensive week so a break is welcome.

Love the name Mittz

Will look Brian.

V nice Brian - are they like Babuska (sp?)
dolls in the middle?

they look nice brian. i'm not the person to ask am i?

think they're christmasy enough?

saf - I don't do Christmassy

mouse - yup little Babushka dolls on the fabric. They're all padded, beading on the front and all round the sides and there are about 4 different middle patterns (1 doll, 2 dolls 4 etc)

am just listing brooches then will list them i think. meant to be going out tonight.

dd1 hasnt shut up for the last 7 hours. No exaggeration.

I like them, very me. I don't do red, gold and green, I like lime greens and burnt oranges, burgandy and whites on my tree.

Have a nice night out!