Good to hear from you Zombie and thank you, I'm rather besotted with her she's just lovely. Hope you and DZH have a lovely time away and here's hoping for a fantastic 2013 for you both {{{{{{{{{{ zombie }}}}}}}}}} oh and love the christmas name 
empress those scones sound good!
Lily is great, had a rough first night home but that was mainly down to me, our hospital gives all section patients an electric bed so I had the sides up and built a nest so I could dose whilst I fed her, last night I couldn't get comfy at all and was hurting so it made her feeding seem like it was taking forever, tonight I'm staying downstairs, we have massive sofas, and she's just had a reeeally long feed so she's in the pram and I'm laying down but have built a sitty up nest for if she wants to feed for ages. Dp is down here too despite me saying he can go up if he wants.
Also got very emotional as I adore her so pleased she's here but I'm mourning the pregnancy in a way as I know Lily is my last baby, the surgeon said my womb was dangerously thin and had I gone into labour we would have been in serious trouble, any further babys would need delivering at 36ish weeks which I couldn't do, also fecking hell I hurt don't fancy this again!
I've backed away from the bounty thread I'm too tired and baby brain to deal with a proper debate atm.
shaky hope dp is behaving, mine spent hefty spell on the super twat bench this morning, I'm hoping it was tiredness to blame.