hiya, re what i said on the phone, i think aloha put it very well, as i said you see your solicitor as soon as she/he returns from hoiday and tell them that he is threatening to hide hissavings, get any assets he has frozen, his money is half yours im afraid and as aloha says that goes for his pension too, he cannot throw you out of the house as you are the main carer and have residency of the children, he cannot just take his name off the mortgage, you could if you wanted screw this £$^&& for everything he has, and he knows it and is trying to frighten you, sod mediation, go for what you are owed.