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Raped and have no one

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Youdontbelieve · 28/09/2018 23:32

I was attacked and raped Wednesday night, someone i knew but not well.
I have no family or close friends, police were great to start with all female then soco came yesterday and had 2 males question me over and over, they didn't believe me,.
I went for examination and the doctor was so amazing but got taken home by a police officer who kept asking me if I actually may have be mistaken and agreed to sex but 'not that kind of sex"
I may be wrong but as a woman who's just been raped and abused you don't put them in a car with a man, police officer or not

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HebeMumsnet · 29/09/2018 10:36

Hello OP, we are really sorry to hear you are feeling this way.

We hope you don't mind, but when these threads are flagged up to us we usually add a link to our Mental Health resources. You can also go to the Samaritans website, or email them on [email protected]. We see you have spoken to them already but as you know, they are always happy to talk again at any time.

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OP You might also find some useful support and advice in the Getting Help section of this page on our We Believe You campaign. We're so sorry this has happened to you and wish you all the best. Do pop back and let us know how you're getting on.

nameynamerson2018 · 29/09/2018 17:45

Thinking of you OP. Thanks

stressedwoman · 29/09/2018 21:54

Hi OP. Just to say I woke up this morning thinking of you and to say again what I said last night and what many other posters have said that you are a very special and important person. I wish I could give you a real life hug. You have a whole support network here that wish only the best for you and will support and believe you no matter what.

Lots of love BlushThanks

nameynamerson2018 · 30/09/2018 00:25

How are you doing tonight, @Youdontbelieve?

beanaseireann · 30/09/2018 09:22

OP Have you contacted your nearest Rape Crisis Centre.
You will get support there. Support you need.
Thanks

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