help make anniversary special.....

[JokersGiggle]

Want to know what I can do to make an anniversary special? Any ideas from a mans perspective? what would you like to be surprised with?

Haha your right! Oh well, its all for a good cause!

By losing concentration because it's good or bad? You not so liking the sticky stuff?

I must admit I don't like the smell of it lol.

Re the egg, the remore control ones? Not personally but fun I have heard for teasing in say a public area, restaurants etc

Loose focus cos what he does to me (he loves giving me oral) but i'm not that keen on doing it to him anyway. So a mix of mind blowing orgasms coupled with not much desire for it result in me just kinda screaming and not much else lol.
Have to find something un-sexy to think of!

You got a good one there! Well you could finish him with your hand and mouth to avoid it. Two hands sliding need lube maybe can be pleasurable for the guy.

He's not really into me using my hands ...... 69 is a good idea, just don't know how to make it work.

Also flavoured condoms are out. I'm allergic. Makes me look like I've had lip fillers lol

I know its difficult but try to channel that enthusiasm into working the end tongue flicking with two hands on shaft? I guess you don't want him getting to completion at this point anyway? Just keep him going?

Prefer to just keep him going as honestly I don't want a mouth full lol.
Giving him oral has never been my strong point always run out of ideas

But your suggestion sound good, thanks

This may or may not apply to you but some women make the mistake of being bit limp wristed when handling men, and they can hold bit tighter than they think. Men can often be gripping quite tight when masturbating.

U can be a bit cautious of holding too tight...I'll be firmer any other mouth techniques I should know about? Most the time I can't use my hands, he likes to tie them behind my back

I not u lol. On my phone and didn't proof read .

I think thats why men go wrong sometimes as they apply the same kind of force to themselves as to a women say when rubbing their clit which will kill the mood instantly lol!

There is always a bit of ball sucking, sometimes men like that, though obviously these you do have to be sensitive about! Not sure much else you could do, does humming work while you do it, obviously don't be like humming a Buble song or something

If your tied up he could possibly use you more, using your bust or butt checks to rub himself between?

Looking into his eyes, appreciative noises when he's working on you should spur him on more.

Think your getting there? maybe think about a waspie or something in future so doesn't have to be unpicked necessarily, though I thought some have side fasteners instead of ribbons, don't forget the heels and seamed stocking lol

He should be pretty appreciative of this !

Yeah he likes to rub himself on my bum, defo be doing that.
Whats humming?

He likes the look of corsets the most with just a garter around my leg and stiletto heels. So unfortunately I get the tricky task of getting into the corset, and get the time consuming task of getting out!

And unfortunately he only likes ribbons, preferably at the back , not easy zips or eye and hook.......

Never got him to rib himself on my bust....will try and direct him there.
He's always saying he loves them but has never rubbed between them. What sized bust is best? I'm 28 DD, is that to small?

You know humming when you make that mmmmmmmm sound with your mouth?

There are some corsets that have a ribbon back but eyelets down the side.
That bust size is fine, he can cup and push together and slide between.

What material is the corset? Been thinking maybe accesorise with a choker and elbow length gloves?

Dress him up as laydee. Give him a good spanking blindfolded. Make him lick your shoes clean....that sort of thing

Wouldn't really be disappointed if my toys were too small, but I would like to know as nothing kills the mood more than trying something and size being the problem!
Could get some gloves, he likes me to wear one of the necklaces he's got for me so choker wouldn't really go.
And I do occasionally wear my stilettos to London so who knows what he would catch if he licked them clean!
Never "mmmmmmmed ",( just the occasional gag lol) so I'll try that.

And he'd prob give me a bloody good beating if I dressed him up lol.
And if I ask him what he'll want he'll know somethings coming, want to surprise him with me new skills

How about you getting a riding crop and maybe put him on a leash for pulling him between your legs that he is so good at so doesn't break the momentum?

You could lead him in dominating you so you can guide him as to how firm you want him to be. Maybe a bit of crop to guide him lol Then he won't have to worry so much as will get a feel for boundaries you wish to go to. Practice your speech a bit too as to begin with can sound silly and you can drop out of character, "mistress needs ... Etc

Haha I don't think my horse would like sharing his crop! Its prob got poo on it! And its sparkly blue lol. Could get a new one though.....
I don't know how he'll be if I get too dominant. He normally lets me for a bit, occasionally, but its on his terms.....he's the more dominant one. He knows all he has to do is give me 2 big orgasms and then he can do anything he likes as I just want more and don't care how I get them!
Plus being twice my weight and the massive height difference means he can just take over when ever he wants.

I do have new chaps I could wear! Don't think joker would mind me using them outside the yard lol. But they wouldn't go with the corset......
I know he loves corsets, don't know about the chaps though.......

Chaps would have to be boots, thong and maybe waistcoat? Stetson lol ?