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help make anniversary special.....

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JokersGiggle · 25/03/2014 22:35

Want to know what I can do to make an anniversary special? Any ideas from a mans perspective? what would you like to be surprised with?

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JokersGiggle · 29/03/2014 23:00

Haha my boots are filthy so that's a no, shame as I could have added my spurs into the mix! and he doesn't really like thongs......that's why I have nothing on my bottom half (other than a garter on my left thigh) when I wear a corset. Have ones that come low over my hips and a big bow at the bottom which sort of covers my bum, but nothing covering the front. He quite likes little Brazilian briefs but only if they have a matching bra (and match my nail colour lol)
Could just have chaps and leather bra......
But he likes me to be very feminine and leather isn't very girly...... Maybe black lace bra....but that doesn't have the same effect.

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BreakingDad77 · 30/03/2014 10:08

That's interesting about the leather, I would think people would generally associate it more with women, and it's 'bang on trend' lol at the moment.

How about shiny? Wet look materially

BreakingDad77 · 30/03/2014 10:10

Boots wise was thinking more impractical stiletto etc type!

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JokersGiggle · 30/03/2014 11:20

Haha good point about the boots, got stuck in a horse frame of mind lol. Never tried wet look as its similar to leather.
He's a lace/silk/satin/velvet kinda guy.....he has a thing for the "Courtesan" sort of thing, hence the corsets and leg garters.

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BreakingDad77 · 30/03/2014 11:44

O you got to get one of those big curly wigs!

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JokersGiggle · 30/03/2014 12:18

Haha my own hair is long enough to curl it and do a messy up-do, so no need for a wig lol

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BreakingDad77 · 30/03/2014 12:42

Just a little black dot on your cheek and your done!

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JokersGiggle · 30/03/2014 13:25

Haha yeah, i'm confidant with how I look (nothing like seeing a massive erection aimed at you to boost a girls confidence!) Its my cock sucking techniques that worry me......I've hardly ever done it so not very confidant and I have limited moves Blush and finding new positions is kinda hard, just stick to what we know (though we do do quite a lot of positions but there is always room for more) Blush

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BreakingDad77 · 31/03/2014 07:15

Anecdotally from what I have heard is care with teeth and looking enthusiastic, much the same you could say for guys lol. Would be a harsh man to pull you up on it.

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JokersGiggle · 31/03/2014 07:35

He can be harsh sometimes.
But I guess I'll just have to go for it and hope for the best.

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BreakingDad77 · 31/03/2014 08:27

You are going to some lengths here, hope it's appreciated

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JokersGiggle · 31/03/2014 08:59

I bloody hope so too!
He spends a lot id money on me (diamond jewellery, designer hand bags, holidays ect) but he doesn't like me spending lots on him (apparently its a mans job to look after his women lol)
This is something I can give him that I know he'll want and doesn't cost a thing, just hope he likes my attempts.Confused
Getting worried now, should I acknowledge what happened last year on the day? We talk about it often, but I don't want him to think i'm ignoring it but I also don't want to bring it up and kill the mood Confused

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JokersGiggle · 31/03/2014 10:48

Getting really nervous about the anniversary now Sad and its still a while away

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BreakingDad77 · 31/03/2014 13:49

Sounds like you have an old fashioned (not that that is bad or good - each to their own as long as everyones happy) kinda relationship so guessing hes traditional type of guy and may just want to be left to working it out himself - has he initiated anything to do with the MC? He might want to compartment it and move on or it might want to hold on to it, we men can be complex and we don't always let on how we properly feel.

I know, my mum had a still born before I was born and it still haunted her even when I was in my thirties, my Dad supposedly didn't want to talk about it, and that hurt her a lot, though he wan't generally an emotional sort. Maybe on that day I would guess to keep them a bit seperate, thought the evening could also be taken as a celebration of life?

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JokersGiggle · 31/03/2014 14:04

After each MC we went to our fav spot and scattered rose petals from the bridge. And occasionally he brings them up. And we talk about the other ones. Just not that one so much. I think knowing it was a "he" not an "it" changed things and he's medical so he knew exactly what was going on, all the grim detail. He's good at talking about emotions at other times. Sad Sad Sad he can be so sweet and caring

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BreakingDad77 · 31/03/2014 15:43

He sounds a good guy jokersgiggle, its horrible what you have been through but sounds like you both on the same page.

How much longer till the day?

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JokersGiggle · 31/03/2014 16:47

Its Saturday. But his shift on Saturday is 4am-4pm. and Sunday is 7am-7pm.
So not much time together for us. And lots of sitting at home alone for me Sad

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BreakingDad77 · 31/03/2014 16:56

So when does he sleep exactly?

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JokersGiggle · 31/03/2014 17:15

He doesn't lol. He was in the military so he's used to going without sleep for days. But even when he can sleep he doesn't much, just doesn't need it.

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JokersGiggle · 31/03/2014 17:42

Feel so humiliated Sad was just having a massive girly cry and a bloody post man came to the door (with the bloody love egg) and asked if Mrs x was in. I have mascara all over my face and he just told me "pull yourself together. I've had enough of crying teenagers, where's your mum?"
I'm 25! And I can cry of I want! And I never cry anyway. Wine Wine Wine Wine Wine Wine Wine Wine Wine

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JokersGiggle · 31/03/2014 19:53

And I've burnt the bloody f**cking satay sauce Sad

At lest I've saved myself 600 calories Sad

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JokersGiggle · 31/03/2014 19:53

Feel free to ignore me Sad Wine

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JokersGiggle · 31/03/2014 21:30

I am pist and woulda cuddle pleasee

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BreakingDad77 · 31/03/2014 23:20

Aw giggle x hugs x hope u better

BreakingDad77 · 01/04/2014 06:31

Can I ask what triggered the girly cry? Or would you rather not talk about it?

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