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help make anniversary special.....

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JokersGiggle · 25/03/2014 22:35

Want to know what I can do to make an anniversary special? Any ideas from a mans perspective? what would you like to be surprised with?

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JokersGiggle · 03/04/2014 08:23

Oh lol. Can't remember now Smile

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BreakingDad77 · 03/04/2014 13:21

Couple days to go now are you all sorted otherwise?

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JokersGiggle · 03/04/2014 15:43

Well waxing is done. I think the girl took her anger out on me! I asked her how she was and she was ranting about her cheating boyfriend.....and doing my bikini line....anger and wax isn't a good mix!
nails and hair being done Saturday morning.
Menu planned and ingredients purchased.
But now worried as "lady time" is yet to appear and could put a downer on the activities that are planned (sorry if tmi!!)

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BreakingDad77 · 03/04/2014 15:52

ooo not good hope you not been left too bloodied and battered!

Fingers crossed mother nature pays her visit later - when would be the expected time?

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JokersGiggle · 03/04/2014 17:21

Haha can hardly walk she was so viscous!
Was expected sunday/Monday.......

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JokersGiggle · 03/04/2014 20:31

I keep testing each day but it always says i'm not pregnant Sad

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JokersGiggle · 04/04/2014 03:22

Been doing a lot of thinking. I've decided what he doesn't know won't hurt him. I'm certain this is going to end badly. If I make it to 12 Weeks I'll tell him cos if anything happens past then it will be impossible to hide.
I don't know what another MC will do to him but i'm not risking it. Don't thick I'll tell the doctor til almost 12 Weeks them avoid dating sans. Can hide my folic acid somewhere.
Hand holding please Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad

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BreakingDad77 · 04/04/2014 05:50

Well that is a little spark, all we can do is hope! I think this needs to be done very carefully as he could turn on you and say you have been keeping from him. But the not saying anything till you have had some confirmation is understandable after the MC etc. Do you need a plausible story for periods etc?

BreakingDad77 · 04/04/2014 06:01

Try to stay positive Giggle

BreakingDad77 · 04/04/2014 06:19

Would it be the end of the world to announce it this weekend?, or get him to buy you a kit as you 'not sure about your date' could it be a bonding moment?

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JokersGiggle · 04/04/2014 07:50

He never notices periods as i'm lucky and they only last 2/3 days so easy to cover up.
If I tell him it'll ruin the weekend.
The only thing that will be difficult is stopping riding without people getting suspicious - I'll have to makeup something......

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JokersGiggle · 04/04/2014 07:53

He always used to be with me doing the test but last time he didn't want to. So doubt he'd want to this time, hence the 2am testing! He'd get it for me then leave.

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JokersGiggle · 04/04/2014 08:23

Actually I might take a risk and keep riding. The positive was weak and the internet says that weak positives are un likely to stick and I don't feel ppregnant. So why should I stop jokers training and risk people finding me out? If he throws me off or somethig then I'll just have to deal with it

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BreakingDad77 · 04/04/2014 09:07

I was guessing the horse riding isn't a problem but getting thrown is, does body armour make a difference?

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JokersGiggle · 04/04/2014 09:35

Not really. And its getting crushed or kicked while on the ground that's a problem too....
Body protectors limit the risk of spinal injuries by keeping everything in line. You can still break stuff but cant cause further damage by moving. also doesn't effect the risks of internal bleeding ect.

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JokersGiggle · 04/04/2014 09:52

and I took a good tumble on Tuesday morning anyway.....
I won't jump but I'll keep riding on the flat.

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BreakingDad77 · 04/04/2014 10:29

Well try to look after yourself giggle, will you go for further test or wait a bit ?

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JokersGiggle · 04/04/2014 10:37

I'm not telling anyone. Before the doctors have never done anything to monitor me. Just said eat right, don't ride, don't do intense yoga, don't run and wait and see.
I usually get pushed into dating scans so I won't tell my doctor til almost 12 Weeks (if I get that far) so I don't have to see it and bond even more.

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BreakingDad77 · 04/04/2014 12:35

I think you can start on folic acid up front? Can you use excuse using some tablets up? Or is that sailing too close to the wind?

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JokersGiggle · 04/04/2014 14:01

I'll just keep it in my locked tack box at the yard. Just have to make sure no one there sees me taking it.

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JokersGiggle · 04/04/2014 14:08

Just read on the internet that if you have a weak positive then if you test everyday you can see if its getting stronger and is likely to stay or if it goes weaker our disappears your likely to MC

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JokersGiggle · 04/04/2014 20:47

Totally dreading tomorrow

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BreakingDad77 · 05/04/2014 06:34

Good luck, try to have fun like you used to?

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JokersGiggle · 06/04/2014 01:58

He's very happy so I must have done everything right

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BreakingDad77 · 06/04/2014 09:19

Woo yay

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