Hi, please could I join?
I was hoping to start a Lent challenge for myself, so encouragement from other people would be amazing 
I'm a SAHM with twins aged 3 - we are lucky enough to be able to manage on one wage (I can't earn enough to cover childcare costs at the moment!) but never seem to save any money or get ahead in our budgeting. This isn't helped by DP who never says 'no' to any requests for toys etc when we're at the supermarket or in town! Today we spent £30 on groceries at Tesco and he let them have toys worth £10 
My Lent challenge will be along the lines of: keeping a very close eye on spending, justifying all money spent, looking for ways of saving etc. I've just switched our gas & electric which will save us about £20 per month, but there's always room for improvement!
ememem84 - my FIL sounds similar - he is firmly stuck in the 1950s when children were seen and not heard (in his opinion!!). Despite having three children and five grandchildren, he is still utterly clueless about looking after little ones...