Thanks everyone.
The dc savings is a fund thing I don't really understand but I don't think I can stop it? If I do I don't think I can restart it? Could double check though.
Have cancelled now TV movies (not told dh yet) will cancel amazon.
My phone is on contract I can't do anything until it's up in August. It's actually £56 for both (bad maths!) dh's is £16 mine is £40
will go sim only once it's up, am already on the lowest tariff for calls etc
Dh won't be getting an extra £200 a month. He might get it a year but I don't think he will as the married tax allowance is ending.
What happens with the car is that with the lease car I get 10p a mile but if it was my own I'd get 45p a mile. So last month I got £30 but it would have been £150 if I had my own car. The lease car included EVERYTHING. Tax, mot, insurance, recovery. That's why we went with it as there's no stress and it's all done in one payment
Sorry I feel like I'm derailing the thread!