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You're only being asked to stay home and watch Netflix

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boredbutterfly · 03/03/2021 18:32

I'm so sick and tired of hearing this from naturally more introverted people. As if it's the easiest thing in the world to do this day in day out on end.

Some of us are extroverts. We need social interaction. It's what makes us happy and energises us. On the flip side introverts tend to need alone time to 'recharge' and that absolutely fine to.

But I'm so sick of hearing from introverts that staying home alone all day is so easy. Yes it may be easy for you but we're not all the same.

Imagine if that was some pandemic, or even just a sociological phenomenon, which meant that it was never safe to be alone. Some form of the 'buddy system' had to be introduced. Or some kind of sociological shift where we all had to go out and partake in an activity, even a basic social one like interacting with a cashier or meeting someone for a coffee, every day for days on end for a year. How long do you think it would be before the introverts were breaking and talking about how they 'just need one day for themselves' and they were willing to take the small risk just to get some time alone to recharge because they were going crazy.

I'm just so sick of all the sanctimonious introverts acting like because this is their preferred way of living the rest of us should find it easy to adapt to. And that it's not just asking us to stay home and watch Netflix, but to give up everything that for some is us have life meaning, was our way of recharging or unwinding or energising ourselves.

I probably haven't articulated myself very well. I just need a vent after hearing yet again some variation of 'it's just staying in and watching tv, the rest of us are getting on with it fine, why can't you' and I want to scream 'BECAUSE THAT'S ALL YOU BLOODY DID BEFORE LOCKDOWN TOO, NOTHING HAS CHANGED FOR YOU!'

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loulouljh · 04/03/2021 14:55

Agreed. and whilst some people may be happy to sit and watch TV, others are seeing their livelihoods going down the drain, their kids educations ruined etc etc.

theleafandnotthetree · 04/03/2021 14:59

@MonsterMash2210

I must admit, I finally cracked and yelled at my husband today.

I don’t mind being home all day, but (as an introvert) it has been driving me crazy having everyone else here as well.

So I finally cracked and told my husband I am sick of everyone being home ALL THE TIME!

He was shocked. Still, wanted to add some solidarity and let you know it’s tough for some of us introverts as well.

Now if you don’t mind I am going to see how long I can hide in the cupboard under the stairs for.

Jeez, you've only cracked now. I'd say plenty were saying that after a few weeks. And if you really are an introvert, I am shocked that he was shocked!

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EnoughnowIthink · 04/03/2021 15:35

and whilst some people may be happy to sit and watch TV, others are seeing their livelihoods going down the drain, their kids educations ruined etc etc

  1. the only thing an introverted person has in their life is TV?
  2. Introverts are also seeing their livelihoods going down the drain?
  3. Introverts are also seeing their kids' educations ruined?

What is your point?

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