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I didn't sign up for this

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Whentheleavesfalldown · 19/03/2020 22:46

I've seen this a lot on a few threads, "Well you're the one who signed up to be a nurse"

But I didn't sign up to be discharging patients home before they are ready, without proper support at home.
I didn't sign up to be sending patients home to likely die because their operation has been cancelled or postponed.
I didn't sign up to be preparing to turn the elderly away in favour of younger patients who are just as sick.
I didn't sign up to not be properly protected at work by not having the right equipment.
I didn't sign up to be given poor training on how to vent a patient and be expected to work outside my competency.
I didn't sign up to leave my patients soaked in urine for too long because we're so short staffed and there are sicker patients to deal with.
I didn't sign up to be not supported by managers.
I didn't sign up to have relatives say their last goodbyes to their loved ones over the phone.
I didn't sign up for this.
I signed up to properly care for my patients safely and competently, and now that's not possible.

Don't tell me I signed up for this.

I don't even know why I'm posting this.
I am tired and I am broken knowing that I am letting my patients and their families down, but I can't leave as it'll just be worse for those patients.

We're doing our best in a stressful situation, please take social distancing and isolation seriously, as it's only going to get worse.

From a very tired and broken nurse Flowers

OP posts:
StealthPolarBear · 19/03/2020 22:47

No, you didn't. This is shit. I'm so grateful for what you're doing.

GrungeBetty · 19/03/2020 22:47

YANBU. I’m so sorry. Thank you for all you are doing. Xxx

peachypetite · 19/03/2020 22:48

You poor thing!! I’m so sorry. You are amazing.

Grasspigeons · 19/03/2020 22:49

Thank you for all you do.
Its awful.

Craftylittlething · 19/03/2020 22:50

None of us signed up for this, please do what you can for who you can. We know that you are only human and incredibly grateful for your efforts and those of everyone within the nhs and caring professions who have no choice but soldier on.

efer · 19/03/2020 22:50

I am so very thankful for everything you are doing although you may not feel it just now you are amazing

Geometricprince · 19/03/2020 22:51

Flowersthere are no words really OP. Thank you for everything you do and I'm so sorry you're having to deal with this. But thank god for people like you, you're not letting anybody down.

GuyFawkesDay · 19/03/2020 22:51

Sending you hugs.

You didn't sign up for this.

It's shite.

But sending you love and support and strength. You are a hero.

OhioOhioOhio · 19/03/2020 22:53

You didn't sign up for this. Each kind action you make it making it better. Thank you.

DamnYouAutoCarrot · 19/03/2020 22:54

Thank you for everything you and your colleagues are doing. It brought me to tears to read that, I can't imagine living it. Stay safe.

LooksLikeImStuckHere · 19/03/2020 22:54

You aren’t letting anyone down; you are doing an amazing and important job no matter the outcomes or the constraints you have to work within.

Thank you for everything you and your colleagues at every level are doing.

Idontkowmyname · 19/03/2020 22:56

Nurses have sadly never got the credit they deserve. I’m so sorry things are incomprehensibly stressful at the moment.
You may not be able to give the gave the care you wish and people deserve but ultimately you are doing your best in uncharted waters. We are grateful, you are valued.

thepeopleversuswork · 19/03/2020 22:58

You are right. You didn’t. Your post should shame those of us not doing enough to support you.

I strongly recommend you share this with your MP.

My respect your you and your colleagues is boundless.

cowfacemonkey · 19/03/2020 22:58

No you didn't but thank fucking god that we have you. Thank you Whentheleavesfalldown thank you Flowers

Goingtogetflamed · 19/03/2020 22:59

Thank you.
Thank you for signing up to the NHS in any capacity. You will help so many people and as a nation, we are grateful Flowers

Rockstar53 · 19/03/2020 22:59

Thank you for all you are doing! ❤️

Mumdiva99 · 19/03/2020 23:00

💐💞🧡

minimummum · 19/03/2020 23:01

You are amazing. Daffodil

JemimaPuddleCat · 19/03/2020 23:02

You signed up to do your very best with what you have. And I'm 100% sure that is what you are doing, and will continue to do.

Thank you.

DPotter · 19/03/2020 23:02

Your words show you have the heart and soul of a poet When.
Thank you and please let your colleagues know we appreciate everything you are doing

Flowers
Disabrie22 · 19/03/2020 23:03

Thank you for everything you are doing - we are so grateful to you xxxxxx

TitsInAbsentia · 19/03/2020 23:05

En serio? For the yabu % bless you and the planet you reside on...

Wetdogloveshubert · 19/03/2020 23:05

Flowers from me, too. You are doing an incredible job under immense pressure.

Please know that the absolute majority of this country thank you.

Gustavo1 · 19/03/2020 23:05

The situation is shit. Worse now due to Covid-19 but let’s be honest, it’s always pretty shit in the NHS at the moment.
You though, are amazing. Your colleagues are amazing. The care and dignity that you afford to people at their very worst of times make you amazing. You may not have signed up for it, but you are doing it to the very best of your ability and I am so grateful for that.
Thank you. Thank you for all that you do and for keeping on going when everything is crumbling. Thank you Flowers

LexMitior · 19/03/2020 23:05

You have my sympathy. Nurses are treated badly.

People are going to be very alarmed when they realise that they will not get healthcare as usual. Guess who is in the front line? Nurses.

It’s an unbelievably tough job and about to get much tougher. A few warmed over words isn’t enough. This country has enough money to pay you properly and not work you into the ground. All of this cheap attitude to health is coming to literally kill people. It won’t be down to nurses or their want of effort. It’s much more to do with the fact that people won’t pay proper tax to fund this stuff. And we are about to understand exactly what that means.