This whole thread shows yet again how Israel cannot win.
After October 7th, they had two choices:
(1) Refrain from any significant military action in Gaza and allow Hamas, whose founding charter includes the annihilation of Israel, to celebrate its actions of October 7th, grow in strength, repeat the barbarism it committed on Oct 7th again and again, with increasing lethality, until every last Jew in Israel has died, emigrated, or submitted.
(2) Take significant military actions in order to try to destroy Hamas, accepting that this would involve many civilian deaths because of how Hamas has co-located its military assets among civilians, and suffer the opprobrium of the West, which might lead the West to stop supporting Israel, thus allowing Hamas to achieve its objective of annihilating Israel at any cost.
So Israel had one option that would lead to their certain destruction, and a second option that only might lead to their destruction. I can sort of see why they chose option 2.
At one level you can say, it is not that simple, Netanyahu enabled Hamas in order to avoid having to sign a peace deal, etc. etc. and that is all partly true, but I believe that any other Israeli government, no matter how noble, would have eventually faced the exact same dilemma.