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Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake, wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting, weeping and most of all, laughing. All welcome (Part3)

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BUnderTheBonnet · 08/06/2010 17:19

Hi all,

Brand new thread!

I started it so I must get a BFP before the end - them's the rules.

OP posts:
spottysox · 23/07/2010 08:14

Hello, wondered if you lovely ladies could give me some advice. I've just had my 2nd MC this year and was wondering what to do next. I've read all info ie wait 'til first AF or go for it straight away or wait a month or two. I just wondered what you ladies think as you've all been there. I'm on the wrong side of 40 so don't have time on my side, so feel I should just go for it now(waited for 1st AF last time). Anyone got any thoughts??
Thanks Spotty

Muser · 23/07/2010 08:16

Yaaaaay hopefully that is wonderful news.

PrettyVacant1 · 23/07/2010 08:35

Pregnology wotsit said I could tomorrow.
'Onest Injun.
Freudian slip, noticed I'll be planning to buy more than one.

saffronbun · 23/07/2010 08:44

Helloooo spotty . I waited a month before TTC again but the doc I saw said that was mainly for dating purposes and the best time to try again was when we felt ready. There was some logic in that as I would probably have tried again directly after MC but in retrospect it would have been a daft idea for us as I was still emotionally wobbly.

MrsPV POAS, POAS, POAS! (No pressure, dear)

batteryhen · 23/07/2010 09:12

spotty I tried again immediately - but ended up having one cycle anyway as I don't think I ovulated right away. It really is up to how you feel

pv Please test - then I can fixate on you rather than me

Have done the list - still not graduated anyone - but have put on hopefully for BFP. The list is getting really long - but I don't want to start putting people MIA as I am not sure who is where or doing what!

Urd TTC#3 CYCLE 2 UCL28 CD73
InchyInchy TTC#1 cycle 1 UCL 30? CD48
WildSheepChase TTC#2 cycle 1 UCL 60 CD50
LAF77 TTC#1 Cycle 3 UCL28 CD47
LucySnowe TTC#2 cycle 4 UCL 38ish CD46
TAcrazy TTC#2 cycle 8 UCL 28 CD44
Mummy4610 TTC#4 cycle 4 UCL 26-30 CD44
Magichen TTC#2 cycle UCL 29 CD41
Magic8ballhastheanswers TTC#3 cycle 4 UCL28 BFP
northerngoldilocks TTC #1 cycle 1 UCL 28-30 CD29 --- BFP!
bessie26 TTC#2 cycle 2 UCL31 CD37
Hopefully TTC#2 cycle 8 UCL 28 CD25-BFP!
Curlylox TTC#3 cycle 5 UCL 28 CD27
batteryhen TTC#1 cycle 1 UCL 28 CD27
Fliesby TTC#1 cycle 1 UCL 35-80 CD26
Littlemiss72 TTC#1 cycle 6 UCL28 CD26
Freezing TTC#2 cycle 1 UCL28 CD26
delilahbelle TTC#1 cycle 1 UCL28 CD24
vivcliquot TTC#1 cycle 8 UCL28 CD24
PrettyVacant1 TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL26(?!) CD24
stuffedmk TTC#2 cycle 2 UCL 28ish CD24
Hairytriangle TTC#1 MC April/May/June CD22
Loopymumsy TTC#4 cycle 1 UCL 26-28 CD20
saffronbun TTC#1, cycle 1, UCL 28, CD15
Barrenbrook TTC#1 cycle 2 (post MC#3) UCL 28 CD13
IvySedai TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL 30ish CD13
MrsGMack TTC#2 cycle 1 UCL 28 CD10
Digitalgirl TTC#2 cycle 2 (postMC#2) ACL 42 CD4
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 15 UCL26-9 CD3

WTTC
Cheepz TTC#2 MMC 26/3/10 4th cycle post ERPC self/bastard company making me work notice imposed TTC amnesty
ElmMum TTC#2 MC 28/2-17/3/10 UCL 28/29 on cycle 1 of (self-imposed) 2 or 3 cycle wait
NBelle TTC#1 MC 09/04/10
youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, MMC May 10

GRADUATES
amyboo - baby boy - Matthew
totally - baby girl - Faith
hoops997 - baby boy - Benjamin
Memorylapse - Baby girl - Olivia
Stressy BFP 22nd August 2009
becky78 BFP 4th September 2009
LittleOneMum BFP 7th September 2009
Waitingisntfun BFP 19th September 2009
Chamois BFP 7th October 2009
Apples BFP 9th November 2009
Meita BFP 10th December 2009
CakeandFineWine BFP 27th December 2009
boodleboot BFP 2nd January 2010
LeeWT BFP 21st January 2010
TFLS BFP 22nd January 2010
Louisesh BFP 22nd January 2010
MrsRigby BFP 27th January 2010
TheKurgan BFP 30th January 2010
effilump BFP 8th February 2010
Sarahlou8 BFP 10th February 2010
samanthab123 BFP 10th February 2010
redandyellowandpinkandgreen BFP 6th March 2010
floweringcurrant BFP 8th March 2010
HappyGirl1 BFP 23rd March 2010
Unbuffy BFP 28th March 2010
Zayja BFP 2nd April 2010
Goodluckbear BFP 10th April 2010
Malteser1981 BFP 11th April 2010
Gilda BFP 19th April 2010
AlbaDeTamble BFP 25th April 2010
sparklyrainbow BFP 25th April 2010
BunnyBaby BFP 27th April 2010
Margie32 BFP 26th April
LucyT66 BFP 30th April
Redheadgal BFP 10th May
Westyorkshiregirl BFP 19 May
dorcas111 BFP 24th May
slimyak BFP
clareanna BFP 1 june 2010
LadyBee BFP 8 June
BUnderthebonnet BFP 20 June
Muser BFP 22 June
Jollster BFP 22 June
Moofold BFP 26 June
SarahMia BFP

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Freezingmyarseoff · 23/07/2010 11:24

Relax everyone, Freezing to the rescue.... after all the excitement of Definately I couldn't help myself but POAS yesterday afternoon
And of course I couldn't see a line (apart from the control line), not even an evaporation line but I'm not calling it a BFN yet.

In my madness I thought I better try again this morning FPOD and all that but guess what... still no line

So I'm ready for some fish slapping

Shouldn't be testing until Monday FFS

Freezingmyarseoff · 23/07/2010 11:38

Spotty welcome, sorry you're here.
You may not want to hear this but this is what happened to me. We TTC'd straight after my first MC and I got pregnant again but then I had another MC. I know that some people go to on to have successful pregnancies (sorry not a very good expression) but I've always wondered now if we should have waited for one period at least. I've waited 3 cycles before TTC this time and I'm really glad I did. I'm much more prepared emotionally. But you need to do what feels right for you.

MrsGMack · 23/07/2010 12:16

Congratulations hopefully great news

batteryhen can you update the list please I'm on cycle 2 I did update but I'm back to cycle 1

thanks

batteryhen · 23/07/2010 12:43

MrsG - Hope this one is right

Urd TTC#3 CYCLE 2 UCL28 CD73
InchyInchy TTC#1 cycle 1 UCL 30? CD48
WildSheepChase TTC#2 cycle 1 UCL 60 CD50
LAF77 TTC#1 Cycle 3 UCL28 CD47
LucySnowe TTC#2 cycle 4 UCL 38ish CD46
TAcrazy TTC#2 cycle 8 UCL 28 CD44
Mummy4610 TTC#4 cycle 4 UCL 26-30 CD44
Magichen TTC#2 cycle UCL 29 CD41
Magic8ballhastheanswers TTC#3 cycle 4 UCL28 BFP
northerngoldilocks TTC #1 cycle 1 UCL 28-30 CD29 --- BFP!
bessie26 TTC#2 cycle 2 UCL31 CD37
Hopefully TTC#2 cycle 8 UCL 28 CD25-BFP!
Curlylox TTC#3 cycle 5 UCL 28 CD27
batteryhen TTC#1 cycle 1 UCL 28 CD27
Fliesby TTC#1 cycle 1 UCL 35-80 CD26
Littlemiss72 TTC#1 cycle 6 UCL28 CD26
Freezing TTC#2 cycle 1 UCL28 CD26
delilahbelle TTC#1 cycle 1 UCL28 CD24
vivcliquot TTC#1 cycle 8 UCL28 CD24
PrettyVacant1 TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL26(?!) CD24
stuffedmk TTC#2 cycle 2 UCL 28ish CD24
Hairytriangle TTC#1 MC April/May/June CD22
Loopymumsy TTC#4 cycle 1 UCL 26-28 CD20
saffronbun TTC#1, cycle 1, UCL 28, CD15
Barrenbrook TTC#1 cycle 2 (post MC#3) UCL 28 CD13
IvySedai TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL 30ish CD13
MrsGMack TTC#2 cycle 2 UCL 28 CD10
Digitalgirl TTC#2 cycle 2 (postMC#2) ACL 42 CD4
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 15 UCL26-9 CD3

WTTC
Cheepz TTC#2 MMC 26/3/10 4th cycle post ERPC self/bastard company making me work notice imposed TTC amnesty
ElmMum TTC#2 MC 28/2-17/3/10 UCL 28/29 on cycle 1 of (self-imposed) 2 or 3 cycle wait
NBelle TTC#1 MC 09/04/10
youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, MMC May 10

GRADUATES
amyboo - baby boy - Matthew
totally - baby girl - Faith
hoops997 - baby boy - Benjamin
Memorylapse - Baby girl - Olivia
Stressy BFP 22nd August 2009
becky78 BFP 4th September 2009
LittleOneMum BFP 7th September 2009
Waitingisntfun BFP 19th September 2009
Chamois BFP 7th October 2009
Apples BFP 9th November 2009
Meita BFP 10th December 2009
CakeandFineWine BFP 27th December 2009
boodleboot BFP 2nd January 2010
LeeWT BFP 21st January 2010
TFLS BFP 22nd January 2010
Louisesh BFP 22nd January 2010
MrsRigby BFP 27th January 2010
TheKurgan BFP 30th January 2010
effilump BFP 8th February 2010
Sarahlou8 BFP 10th February 2010
samanthab123 BFP 10th February 2010
redandyellowandpinkandgreen BFP 6th March 2010
floweringcurrant BFP 8th March 2010
HappyGirl1 BFP 23rd March 2010
Unbuffy BFP 28th March 2010
Zayja BFP 2nd April 2010
Goodluckbear BFP 10th April 2010
Malteser1981 BFP 11th April 2010
Gilda BFP 19th April 2010
AlbaDeTamble BFP 25th April 2010
sparklyrainbow BFP 25th April 2010
BunnyBaby BFP 27th April 2010
Margie32 BFP 26th April
LucyT66 BFP 30th April
Redheadgal BFP 10th May
Westyorkshiregirl BFP 19 May
dorcas111 BFP 24th May
slimyak BFP
clareanna BFP 1 june 2010
LadyBee BFP 8 June
BUnderthebonnet BFP 20 June
Muser BFP 22 June
Jollster BFP 22 June
Moofold BFP 26 June
SarahMia BFP

youremindmeofthebabe · 23/07/2010 13:18

Hello All!

hopefully Congratulations, excellent news!

prettyv go on, do it. I am encouraging you all cos I'm not really ttc very hardthis month, and am living the highs and lows vicariously through you all!

Have been at a funeral for somebody young (31) on Weds, and it is encouraging me to grab life and do what I want to do. And I want to be pregnant soon. God, I wish Cosmic Ordering really worked. I may even try it anyway. I will include you all in my ordering.

MrsGMack · 23/07/2010 13:47

bateryhen ooh ta

batteryhen · 23/07/2010 14:22

oh god. The shame. Was just day dreaming in a meeting, thinking if I am PG or not, and came to realising I had been unwitingly stroking my nips for signs of soreness .... no one noticed I dont think except my male colleague opposite who had a big on his face. Oh dear lord

digitalgirl · 23/07/2010 14:37

batteryhen that is HILARIOUS!

stuffedmk · 23/07/2010 15:12

Well, after only 3 tests today I am now willing to believe that there is in fact a line albeit rather pale.

Now the worrying begins!!!

northerngoldilocks · 23/07/2010 15:22

sfuttedmk quiet 'congratulations' from over here. Hoping for a clearer line later if it will make you feel calmer.

Battery -that is seriously hillarious - I love it. I've just battled not to fall asleep in a meeting, but there were definitely times when my eyes were shut. V bad form when there were only 4 of us in it, but no where near as good as nipple stroking!

Freezingmyarseoff · 23/07/2010 19:26

battery PMSL

I realised my earlier post might have sounded a bit arrogant or something, just wanted to deflect the pressure of POAS from anyone else (not mentioning any names or anything battery, PV) anyway I'll shut up now

stuffedmk a hushed yay to you

Have a good weekend all x

hairytriangle · 23/07/2010 20:03

woohoo hopefully fab news!

Great news on the hormones digi

battery I am going to poas tomorrow (using an early tester thingy)

I'm very confused. I have had loads of what could be symptoms including KILLER pmt for the last week - AF not due until next Thursday.

I have also had low very mild sort of crampy feelings for a wee, which I only ever had last time I was pregnant.

Trouble is, it was an ectopic, so I have no idea if that was because it was ectopic or just general pg symptoms.

hairytriangle · 23/07/2010 20:04

crampy feelings for a week, not a 'wee' lol

hairytriangle · 23/07/2010 20:36

I'm either completely psycho or pg. I am really desperate to eat a Spanish omlette with spinach in it. Second time I've wanted spanish omlette this week.

Pass the kipper!

Loopymumsy · 23/07/2010 20:47

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hairytriangle · 23/07/2010 20:58

Loopys If I do an early one (can't even remember the name of it - but it's the one you can do six days before AF) then tomorrow morning.

Other symptoms: been completely shattered all week, keep forgetting what I was saying, brain like a sieve, weird taste in mouth, runny nose, slight sicky feeling now and then, off my food, etc etc.

Can't help thinking I'm just making it all up

hairytriangle · 23/07/2010 20:59

PMSL at batteryhen

digitalgirl · 23/07/2010 23:18

congrats stuffed hope to see more grads when I'm back from deepest darkest devon next weekend. X

hairytriangle · 24/07/2010 08:38

Poas. Bfn. So no idea why I've been feeling so strange!

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