Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake, wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting, weeping and most of all, laughing. All welcome (Part3)

[BUnderTheBonnet]

Hi all,

Brand new thread!

I started it so I must get a BFP before the end - them's the rules.

Thanks so much loopy!!! Am getting very excited! Haven't had a holiday since last September when we flew to Cyprus for a friend's wedding. Ds wouldn't settle and it was one of the most exhausting weeks I've ever had. Bringing my mum this time!

Ooooo northern you sneaked that in there, I almost missed it! congrats! I'll refrain from a big whoop whoop until you've had a more positive positive. But a line is a line!!!! X

DG I'm not sure I'd know where to start with my cervix! I've never been able to figure it out

Might risk another silent SWI tonight, just to be on the safe side. Had peak (ON CBFM) Fri and Sat, and then high yesterday and low today, but you never know.

Northern fingers crossed your +tve becomes more +tve!

Wedding planning is in full swing here (well, I've googled lots of dresses. That counts, right?). Am going to be doubly disappointed if no BFP this month, as I'm really hoping not to be hugely fat and either pregnant or immediately post natal at the wedding, and at least if I was PG this cycle I'd have a 3 month old [trying not to think of sleepless puffy face with 3 month old last time emoticon]

Urd TTC#3 CYCLE 2 UCL28 CD62
Magichen TTC#2 WTF CYCLE UCL29 CD61
InchyInchy TTC#1 cycle 1 UCL 30? CD42
SarahMia TTC#2 cycle 2 UCL28 CD40
IvySedai TTC#2 Cycle 1 UCL variable CD39
WildSheepChase TTC#2 cycle 1 UCL 60 CD39
LAF77 TTC#1 Cycle 3 UCL28 CD36
LucySnowe TTC#2 cycle 4 UCL 38ish CD35
TAcrazy TTC#2 cycle 8 UCL 28 CD33
Digitalgirl TTC#2 cycle 1 (postMC#2) ACL 42 CD33
Mummy4610 TTC#4 cycle 4 UCL 26-30 CD33
Magichen TTC#2 cycle UCL 29 CD30
Magic8ballhastheanswers TTC#3 cycle 4 UCL28 CD28
MrsGMack TTC#2 cycle 1 UCL 28 CD28
northerngoldilocks TTC #1 cycle 1 UCL 28-30 CD27
bessie26 TTC#2 cycle 2 UCL31 CD26
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 14 UCL26-9 CD20
Hopefully TTC#2 cycle 8 UCL 28 CD16
Curlylox TTC#3 cycle 5 UCL 28 CD16
batteryhen TTC#1 cycle 1 UCL 28 CD16
Fliesby TTC#1 cycle 1 UCL 35-80 CD15
Littlemiss72 TTC#1 cycle 6 UCL28 CD15
Freezing TTC#2 cycle 1 UCL28 CD15
delilahbelle TTC#1 cycle 1 UCL28 CD14
vivcliquot TTC#1 cycle 8 UCL28 CD13
PrettyVacant1 TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL26(?!) CD13
Hairytriangle TTC#1 MC April/May/June CD11
Loopymumsy TTC#4 cycle 1 UCL 26-28 CD9
saffronbun TTC#1, cycle 1, UCL 28, CD4
Barrenbrook TTC#1 cycle 2 (post MC#3) UCL 28 CD2

WTTC
Cheepz TTC#2 MMC 26/3/10 4th cycle post ERPC self/bastard company making me work notice imposed TTC amnesty
ElmMum TTC#2 MC 28/2-17/3/10 UCL 28/29 on cycle 1 of (self-imposed) 2 or 3 cycle wait
NBelle TTC#1 MC 09/04/10
youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, MMC May 10

GRADUATES
amyboo - baby boy - Matthew
totally - baby girl - Faith
hoops997 - baby boy - Benjamin
Memorylapse - Baby girl - Olivia
Stressy BFP 22nd August 2009
becky78 BFP 4th September 2009
LittleOneMum BFP 7th September 2009
Waitingisntfun BFP 19th September 2009
Chamois BFP 7th October 2009
Apples BFP 9th November 2009
Meita BFP 10th December 2009
CakeandFineWine BFP 27th December 2009
boodleboot BFP 2nd January 2010
LeeWT BFP 21st January 2010
TFLS BFP 22nd January 2010
Louisesh BFP 22nd January 2010
MrsRigby BFP 27th January 2010
TheKurgan BFP 30th January 2010
effilump BFP 8th February 2010
Sarahlou8 BFP 10th February 2010
samanthab123 BFP 10th February 2010
redandyellowandpinkandgreen BFP 6th March 2010
floweringcurrant BFP 8th March 2010
HappyGirl1 BFP 23rd March 2010
Unbuffy BFP 28th March 2010
Zayja BFP 2nd April 2010
Goodluckbear BFP 10th April 2010
Malteser1981 BFP 11th April 2010
Gilda BFP 19th April 2010
AlbaDeTamble BFP 25th April 2010
sparklyrainbow BFP 25th April 2010
BunnyBaby BFP 27th April 2010
Margie32 BFP 26th April
LucyT66 BFP 30th April
Redheadgal BFP 10th May
Westyorkshiregirl BFP 19 May
dorcas111 BFP 24th May
slimyak BFP
clareanna BFP 1 june 2010
LadyBee BFP 8 June
BUnderthebonnet BFP 20 June
Muser BFP 22 June
Jollster BFP 22 June
Moofold BFP 26 June

When are you testing magic8?

Sod it, I'm gonna hop on....have stopped myself up til now but having a bad day, doing the "it's never gonna happen" thing so need to be where others know what I'm on about.

stuffedmk TTC#2 cycle 2 UCL 28ish CD13

Dunno what brought on the bad day and I'm sure I'll be fine tomorrow but just feeling low.
I just keep thinking I should be blooming now not just blooming sore from SWI

Digi I am being a proper chicken, gonna hold out for a few days .............self preservation thing..........

Hi stuffedmk welcome aboard - I have added you on. I hope your day gets better Feel free to vent all angry and frustration here

Urd TTC#3 CYCLE 2 UCL28 CD62
Magichen TTC#2 WTF CYCLE UCL29 CD61
InchyInchy TTC#1 cycle 1 UCL 30? CD42
SarahMia TTC#2 cycle 2 UCL28 CD40
IvySedai TTC#2 Cycle 1 UCL variable CD39
WildSheepChase TTC#2 cycle 1 UCL 60 CD39
LAF77 TTC#1 Cycle 3 UCL28 CD36
LucySnowe TTC#2 cycle 4 UCL 38ish CD35
TAcrazy TTC#2 cycle 8 UCL 28 CD33
Digitalgirl TTC#2 cycle 1 (postMC#2) ACL 42 CD33
Mummy4610 TTC#4 cycle 4 UCL 26-30 CD33
Magichen TTC#2 cycle UCL 29 CD30
Magic8ballhastheanswers TTC#3 cycle 4 UCL28 CD28
MrsGMack TTC#2 cycle 1 UCL 28 CD28
northerngoldilocks TTC #1 cycle 1 UCL 28-30 CD27
bessie26 TTC#2 cycle 2 UCL31 CD26
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 14 UCL26-9 CD20
Hopefully TTC#2 cycle 8 UCL 28 CD16
Curlylox TTC#3 cycle 5 UCL 28 CD16
batteryhen TTC#1 cycle 1 UCL 28 CD16
Fliesby TTC#1 cycle 1 UCL 35-80 CD15
Littlemiss72 TTC#1 cycle 6 UCL28 CD15
Freezing TTC#2 cycle 1 UCL28 CD15
delilahbelle TTC#1 cycle 1 UCL28 CD14
vivcliquot TTC#1 cycle 8 UCL28 CD13
PrettyVacant1 TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL26(?!) CD13
stuffedmk TTC#2 cycle 2 UCL 28ish CD13
Hairytriangle TTC#1 MC April/May/June CD11
Loopymumsy TTC#4 cycle 1 UCL 26-28 CD9
saffronbun TTC#1, cycle 1, UCL 28, CD4
Barrenbrook TTC#1 cycle 2 (post MC#3) UCL 28 CD2

WTTC
Cheepz TTC#2 MMC 26/3/10 4th cycle post ERPC self/bastard company making me work notice imposed TTC amnesty
ElmMum TTC#2 MC 28/2-17/3/10 UCL 28/29 on cycle 1 of (self-imposed) 2 or 3 cycle wait
NBelle TTC#1 MC 09/04/10
youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, MMC May 10

GRADUATES
amyboo - baby boy - Matthew
totally - baby girl - Faith
hoops997 - baby boy - Benjamin
Memorylapse - Baby girl - Olivia
Stressy BFP 22nd August 2009
becky78 BFP 4th September 2009
LittleOneMum BFP 7th September 2009
Waitingisntfun BFP 19th September 2009
Chamois BFP 7th October 2009
Apples BFP 9th November 2009
Meita BFP 10th December 2009
CakeandFineWine BFP 27th December 2009
boodleboot BFP 2nd January 2010
LeeWT BFP 21st January 2010
TFLS BFP 22nd January 2010
Louisesh BFP 22nd January 2010
MrsRigby BFP 27th January 2010
TheKurgan BFP 30th January 2010
effilump BFP 8th February 2010
Sarahlou8 BFP 10th February 2010
samanthab123 BFP 10th February 2010
redandyellowandpinkandgreen BFP 6th March 2010
floweringcurrant BFP 8th March 2010
HappyGirl1 BFP 23rd March 2010
Unbuffy BFP 28th March 2010
Zayja BFP 2nd April 2010
Goodluckbear BFP 10th April 2010
Malteser1981 BFP 11th April 2010
Gilda BFP 19th April 2010
AlbaDeTamble BFP 25th April 2010
sparklyrainbow BFP 25th April 2010
BunnyBaby BFP 27th April 2010
Margie32 BFP 26th April
LucyT66 BFP 30th April
Redheadgal BFP 10th May
Westyorkshiregirl BFP 19 May
dorcas111 BFP 24th May
slimyak BFP
clareanna BFP 1 june 2010
LadyBee BFP 8 June
BUnderthebonnet BFP 20 June
Muser BFP 22 June
Jollster BFP 22 June
Moofold BFP 26 June

I mean anger........I can't bloody type today and I posted the list on another thread earlier.........

stuffedmk - sorry you're having a bad day, some really are for no obvious reason!

Hello to everyone else - quick message as am at work.

Tested again this morning (mainly as I have no willpower whatsoever - RTD not due until Wed!), used a clearblue digital and got pregnant 1-2 weeks . Obviously I'm really happy - but also really terrified, am trying not to get too excited as its really really early days. Plus I don't feel pregnant, whereas last time I did. Keep telling myself that I didn't test until about 10 days later last time and that might be why - also as I'm really really hoping I don't have a repeat of previous experience, anything that is different is good.

Fab news Northerng : )

I think it was the JWs that came to the door earlier that started me off. I had real trouble not asking them why god would make me lose a baby...I shouldn't answer the door really, but I think they got wise to me hiding from a couple of women that normally come round, and sent someone else, throwing me off lol. I actually don't normally mind lengthy discussions with them but since the MC I just don't want to think about the god question (no offence intended to anyone )

OOOOHHHH congrats northern

woop! woop! big congrats northern ! it is totally terrifying and if it's any help, I didn't have any symptoms either, whereas with MMC I was symptoms a go go - every pg is different i guess. Hope to see you on the grads thread soon?!

big waves and hugs/haddock slapping to everyone else x

congrats northern hope things continue to go well for you.

stuffed hi - seen you on the April bus too I know what you mean about sore - and I am flipping fed up of pretending I am up for it, as otherwise DH gets all grumpy that I only want him for his man juice (too right)

hopefully wedding dresses, mm. Have you decided on the stype you want?

magic8 keeping everything crossed...

AFM - still getting OV cramps and EWCM today, going to have to head for more SWI.

Loopy think you might be right.....oh well, tomorrow is another day and all that.

Hey northern! Congrats, that's great news. Like Clare I've had virtually no symptoms this time either.

8s your resolve! I even sneaked a peek at MN at work to see if there was any news. Sorry RTD got you Barren. Hello Hippy, sorry to see there's been more sad news for you but glad to see you got a BFP, I'm sure you will again x

Fab timing battery, good luck for the TWW! Pretty in my experience i got major EWCM a few daysbefore OV. Welcome to Stuffedmk, sorry you are going through this but am sure the thread will help.

No news here. Still daily episodes of convincing myself something or other is a sure sign of not being pregnant enough. Although I may have felt a wee bit sick this morning but its probably all in my tiny mind! Terrible lower back ache, no idea what that is about....

Hello Hopefully, Ivy, Digi, Loopy, Cheepz, Deliliah and anyone else knocking about - hope you are all well x

Wonderful news northern. Of course you're nervous, but here's hoping you have velcro womb this time.

stuffedmk welcome to the thread!

ooh Northern wowzer great news!!!!

and hello to everyone else!

Had reflexology - it was great. So relaxing and she focussed on my tubes had more visions this time (last time was during my WTF after three day bleed, and I had a strong voice in my head saying 'you are still pregnant' it was odd, but I was as it turned out! the following day my body bled again - so something worked.

this time I visualised healthy lady bits, and then I got a strong, strong sensation of me, other half and two kids smiling

I know I sound nuts, but I find it really relaxing and I really do believe in positive thinking.

Still not ovulation signs for me - except one great big solitary zit, and mild 'heavy' feeling in my abdomen - but only day 11 so not too concerned.

Am still peeing on sticks and have ordered a clear blue fertility monitor.

delialahbelle - i know exactly what you mean. My DH said - this time let's not be so precise and only do it like made in the fertile window - lets just do it every few days and see if we hit the right date - yeah lets do that i said

So now I have to put on a low cuttop when i think it's the right time to ensure that we casually do it!!!!

It's so difficult to act like you don't mind too much whether you do it or not when really your thinking in your head, "This is the one that could do it."

I do understand how they don't want to feel used - but it is hard to keep a casual face on it. Plus of course when he suggests it at an unimportant time you have to look just as keen - yawn yawn - the joys of TTC sex!!

hippychick Exactly! I have been pretending post-mc I have a magically increased sex drive... mostly DH is thanking his lucky stars
Must admit I sometimes wish I could just say that it was my fertile window, and every 6 hours for the next few days would be ideal... can imagine DHs freak out though!
At least if it doesn't work next month we will be on holiday for the crucial time next month.

hairytriangle positive thinking is good! I, despite originally being very scientific have now started to believe in just about anything that will get me a baby... cosmic ordering anyone?!

Deli I may be taking it to extremes. Wearing orange, positive thinking, cosmic ordering, affirmations etc etc! But it can do no harm I guess!

I'm glad not to be the only one doing the 'up for it' dance....ever so casually of course
Took a night off last night, thought it would make every other night look less obvious lol

Mornin' all

8's what c'ha doin' to me I'm in suspenders here!!!
No pressure but I'm thinking of you more than is positively normal in a non stalkerish way.
You POAS now please when your ready luvverly

Fab news Northern made up for you and your DP.

Stuffedmk welcome to the thread.
Sorry you're going through this, hope your time with us is short. x

Hippy I know what you mean when you're lying there thinking " this could be the one"
(does that count as positive thinking?)
I do try not to be counting cycle days at the crucial moment it kinda takes the romance out of it.

I'm allowed to be menkul this month for various reasons, I just hope there's a result and it's bleedin' worth it.

It's a hell of a lot of pressure our poor boys are under innit!

I may have to go with the relax and see route but hey ho lets try other routes first.

Update on VacantFuntions;
Still no EWCM, pulling twinge on and off yesterday on right side, right breasticle achey and heavy feeling in inside lady garden area.
Hit me with the haddock and call me Shirley.

I'll be mighty pissed orf if my body decided to skip Ov this month with all the effort and maths and stalking I've been doing.

I really must skidaddle, my alarm has gone off twice now and I need to go worky.

Laters xx

Hi all, hope all is well and congrats northern! Forgive me for skimreading other posts, have a gazillion emails to go through this morning after a week off :-) anyway forgot my chart -and- lubricant (VITAL EQUIPMENT) on hols so was a bit rubbish but had a couple of days of EWCM then it stopped so had a go anyway. On return had a low temp but no EWCM but the next day they were high so erm.... think I might be on 2ww now. But no symptoms, which I'm kind of pleased about after last cycle's craziness, so will have to see how it goes. Have a nice day ladies!