Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake, wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting, weeping and most of all, laughing. All welcome (Part3)

[BUnderTheBonnet]

Hi all,

Brand new thread!

I started it so I must get a BFP before the end - them's the rules.

hopefully yes, it was tough not knowing what was happening, lots of tears and 'we can try again' conversations. But suddenly half way through the holiday started developing really strong symptoms - ms, sore boobs which was VERY reassuring.
So, if you're CD31 today and you reckon you might have ov'ed on CD18 (or could it have been the next day?) that makes you potentially 13dpo. Do you know how long your luteal phase is?

Hopefully we might be cycle buddies after all, although I'm hoping for us both we won't be. I tested this morning and BFN, which was totally expected. I don't even know why I bothered because I have been taking ibuprofen for cramp since Tuesday and feel totally PMTd. I'm in agony and convinced RTD has arrived about ten times a day.

There are no pg symptoms Loopy, not even madey up ones like I usually have! Where is RTD though? Is it hanging out somewhere with Hopefully's stupid RTD? I ov'd early this month and it should have been here by now. I don't really feel like finding a positive here but at least I've had a 13 day luteal phase when I normally have 12 days and the last two cycles were 10 and 11 days. Its still fucking shit though, right before my due date as well to add insult to injury

Clare I hope you manage to get some answers and a bit more info. Sure its nothing to worry about but the docs should realise that you are bound to be anxious and should be doing more - in between watching the footie.

That's good news Muser you are getting a scan, that should give you some reassurance. No idea what could be happening to you Jolls - keeping everything crossed its a good sign as Muser says of the beanster settling in!

Hope everything is good for all the others. I've cracked open a rather special bottle of 15 year old rioja to console myself - help yourselves girls

Right, have just checked back through thread (so useful for working out when things happened!) and random EWCM was on CD19, so feasibly I might have OV'd on CD20, which would make me only 11 DPO at the moment. It would be totally unheard of for me to OV so late in my cycle, as I always OV on around CD14, but I suppose everyone has to have the occasional strange cycle. Normal luteal phase for me is around 13-14 days, very occasionally only 12, so assuming OV on CD20 I might not get RTD for another couple of days. Urgh. So frustrating

Have absolutely no PG symptoms whatsoever, which is not helping me keep the spark of hope. At least it looks like I didn't order my fertility monitor (and thermometer. Belt and braces) in vain!

Moo sorry to find you might be joining me in another month. Maybe if we whinge enough our respective RTDs will come back from their holidays and put in an appearance. Still hoping you're wrong and there's no RTD for you though!

Ok, so you would have thought I would have known better but I PO another stick this morning and got a different result - a BFP!! I actually had to go fetch the stick there to check again before typing this to make sure I hadn't imagined it or got it wrong.

It actually feels a bit surreal. You would have thought that being pregnant twice before I might have noticed but I have not had a single symptom - which is my first reason to start fretting that something is wrong! I'm going to try and enjoy this before I get properly neurotic though and its still very early days. Hurrah!!

What news from you this morning Hopefully - this could be a repeat of what happened to Muser and Jolls finding out together? How are you this morning Jollster with your discharge, all cleared up?

God, that sounds dreadful now i read it back - I mean your brown/ pink EWCM. Not sure that sounds any better but I hope all is well in the Jollster house x

Congrats Moo! That's great! Really happy for you. Try to enjoy it for at least a day or two before getting all neurotic

BFN again this morning for me (on a stupidly expensive CBD). Am pissed off, but resigned to not being PG now - even if I OV'd on CD20 I'd expect a +tve by now if I was PG, so just need RTD to show up so we can get on with things. Have absolutely no symptoms - my number one PG symptom both times was (sorry, TMI) constipation and don't have that now. It's so bloody frustrating not having RTD yet, as until it shows up I can't really move onto the next cycle and start feeling positive again.

Moof wooooo hooooooooooo!!!!!

Hi all, hi newbies.
Sorry not to hang about I'm not in the best of places at the moment and just had to congratulate moof.

Great news Moo
Sorry to hear that hopefully - won't say the obvious about "not over yet" for fear of a big punch on the nose...

vuvu sorry you're not feeling sunny... am assuming you meant that and not that you were posting from a warzone or a very smelly toilet cubicle...

Thanks for all the reassuring messages. CM much reduced and just a bit dark yellow now. Will POAS again on Monday. Otherwise it's just wait and see.

Hi to all. (PS fab news from Alba on the grads thread and 40+ thread about an excellent NF result - makes you feel all gooey)

Sorry, couldn't resist.

... S'ok, I deserved it .

Thanks girls, I don't think its sunk in yet. Me and DH keep grinning at each other though.

Not that I want punched on the nose but remember I got a BFN yesterday Hopefully and if there's doubt about your ov day then its not all over yet. Both times before I had lots of symptoms and none this time - the only reason I kept testing was the absence of RTD.

That's good news Jolls hope that things have settled down now.

Sending lots of hugs to MrsPretty - I appreciate you posting even when you are feeling blue. Take care pal x

Yippee Moofold!

Fingers crossed for you Jolls - good news it's calming down.

I'm sick as a pig this morning - hooray!

Woohoo! congrats Moofold wonderful news x

*Moooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooof!!!

OMG something weird is happening I think I broke the thread????

What thread?
Who are you?
Are those my feet?

Nope, we're still here 'eadtheball

bloody mac.....must have had my hand over the wrong part of the keyboard

PrettyVuv Big Squwiiiisssh! for you hun xxx

Congrats Moo that's lovely news.

oh doll I am sorry to hear about your friend, big squwishes again x

As for your colleague - wont refer to her as friend. WTF! Harsh. Love poor you afterwards. Your turn is coming soon - I have high hopes for me, you and old vivofthecliq this month

Don't be angry with yourself though you are allowed to be bitter, its human nature. Life is too short you are right but if we didn't allow ourselves to feel these emotions we'd go pop.

I need to get off here as DH will bollock me for not finishing my application form and he has just pulled up outside!!

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Sorry prettyv I was posting from my phone and it lost signal so I actually wrote that post before you did yours. It looks like I was ignoring you in a really blatant way and I wasn't.

So sorry to hear about your friend, and that other 'friend' sounds like someone you ought to cut out of your life if at all possible. If you work together I guess that's difficult.

Quick hello from Germany pretty - someone like that does not deserve to be called a friend. You are the better person, and have a lot more going for you overall,(not to mention the BFP that will find its way to you ) in a few years time she will have a kid on her own with a useless t**t of an ex who is nowhere to be seen. xxxx for you .

Moof what lovely news this is a really lucky thread at the moment!

News from my end - felt as sick as dog this morning, DP was very excited and rushed to get a test (left mine at home on purpose) - BFN. I am not surprised really but still had a bit of hope! I feel like I am in no mans land.......no BFN and no RTD. However I really felt like I might have Ovulated last weekend, so we will see again in a week.

I hope everyone is having a fab time in this weather xxx

Saturday's list

Urd TTC#3, CYCLE 2, UCL28, CD46
Magichen TTC#2, WTF CYCLE, UCL29, CD45
BUnderthebonnet TTC#2 Cycle 2, UCL 28-36, CD37 BFP!!!!!!
Muser TTC#1, Cycle 1, UCL 28, CD35 BFP!!!
Jollster TTC#2, Cycle 1 (partIII), UCL 26 CD34 BFP!!
Moofold TTC#2 cycle4 UCL~32 CD32 BFP!
Hopefully TTC#2 cycle 7 UCL 28 CD32
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 13 UCL26-9 CD28
Curlylox TTC#3 cycle 4 UCL 28 CD28
vivcliquot TTC#1 cycle 6 UCL28 CD26
Littlemiss72 TTC#1, cycle 5 UCL28, CD26
InchyInchy TTC#1, cycle 1, UCL 30?, CD26
batteryhen TTC#1 cycle 1 UCL 28, CD26
SarahMia TTC#2, cycle 2, UCL28, CD24
IvySedai TTC#2, Cycle 1, UCL variable, CD23
PrettyV. TTC#1,Cycle 1, UCL26-28 CD23
WildSheepChase TTC#2, cycle 1, UCL 60, CD22
LAF77 TTC #1, Cycle 3 UCL28, CD20
LucySnowe TTC#2, cycle 4, UCL 38ish, CD19
TAcrazy TTC #2, cycle 8, UCL 28, CD17
Digitalgirl TTC#2 cycle 1 (postMC#2), UCL 37+, CD17
Mummy4610 TTC#4 cycle 4 UCL 26-30 CD17
Magichen TTC# cycle UCL 29 CD14
Barrenbrook TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC#3) UCL 28 CD13
Magic8ballhastheanswers TTC#3 cycle 4 UCL28 CD12
MrsGMack TTC#2, cycle 1 UCL 28, CD12
northangoldilocks TTC #1, cycle 1, UCL 28-30, CD11
bessie26 TTC#2 cycle 2 UCL31 CD10

WTTC
Cheepz TTC#2 MMC 26/3/10 3rd cycle post ERPC self/bastard company making me work notice imposed TTC amnesty
ElmMum TTC#2 MC 28/2-17/3/10 UCL 28/29 on cycle 1 of (self-imposed) 2 or 3 cycle wait
Freezing TTC#2 MC 28/3/10 on cycle 2 of 2 cycle wait
NBelle TTC#1 MC 09/04/10
Hairytriangle TTC#1, MC /May/June/10
Fliesby TTC#1, MMC May 10
youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, MMC May 10
saffronbun TTC#1, MC 4/6/10

MIA
JulesAbs TTC#1 UCL30 last seen cycle 2
dirtgirl TTC#2 UCL28 last seen cycle 2
Scotchontherocks TTC#1 UCL28 last seen cycle 5
Gonnabe TTC#1 UCL28 last seen Cycle 2
Pollyanna TTC#6, UCL27, last seen cycle 3

GRADUATES
amyboo - baby boy - Matthew
totally - baby girl - Faith
hoops997 - baby boy - Benjamin
Memorylapse - Baby girl - Olivia
Stressy BFP 22nd August 2009
becky78 BFP 4th September 2009
LittleOneMum BFP 7th September 2009
Waitingisntfun BFP 19th September 2009
Chamois BFP 7th October 2009
Apples BFP 9th November 2009
Meita BFP 10th December 2009
CakeandFineWine BFP 27th December 2009
boodleboot BFP 2nd January 2010
LeeWT BFP 21st January 2010
TFLS BFP 22nd January 2010
Louisesh BFP 22nd January 2010
MrsRigby BFP 27th January 2010
TheKurgan BFP 30th January 2010
effilump BFP 8th February 2010
Sarahlou8 BFP 10th February 2010
samanthab123 BFP 10th February 2010
redandyellowandpinkandgreen BFP 6th March 2010
floweringcurrant BFP 8th March 2010
HappyGirl1 BFP 23rd March 2010
Unbuffy BFP 28th March 2010
Zayja BFP 2nd April 2010
Goodluckbear BFP 10th April 2010
Malteser1981 BFP 11th April 2010
Gilda BFP 19th April 2010
AlbaDeTamble BFP 25th April 2010
sparklyrainbow BFP 25th April 2010
BunnyBaby BFP 27th April 2010
Margie32 BFP 26th April
LucyT66 BFP 30th April
Redheadgal BFP 10th May
Westyorkshiregirl BFP 19 May
dorcas111 BFP 24th May
slimyak BFP
clareanna BFP 1 june 2010
LadyBee BFP 8 June

PrettyV - stick a couple of prawns in a pocket of her handbag when she's not looking, she sounds like she deserves it!!

Hoorah for Moof - this is clearly the list to be on.

Am very bored now of waiting for WTF cycle to end. Question to those who know (which is probably most of you) - did you get PMT like normal first time round after MC?

Am slightly unnerved by the randomness as my cycle is normally so regular you can set your watch by it so this is uncharted territory.

just running in as on way to work, wanted to say congrats to moo bloody marvellous news! Congrats chicken. Hopefully hopefully is next in line! FX. We are doing well on this thread, everyone's leaving