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Roll up Roll up all those on the 2WW who are already checking for symptoms

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Totallyfloaty35 · 15/03/2010 21:12

Hi im now on my 2ww,well only by 2 days and already im a space cadet.How will i get through this? Time was racing by before now its like a snail stuck in a glue pit!

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MrsWajs · 23/03/2010 08:36

Aww yay for you!!!!

I think you can safely say that's a BFP!!!

Congratulations!

And fingers crossed for my "cheapie" this afternoon!

MrsWajs · 23/03/2010 08:37

Oh can I just ask as well are you 'late' as such or was this early testing??

Too lazy to re-read thread!!

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Totallyfloaty35 · 23/03/2010 08:39

Hi all,im so tired been up all night with DD3 her chicken pox driving her mad,so she thought mummy should sleep in her bed, then she could kick me and whack me and we can both feel rubbish all day together.
Did test this morning,was a fr one and a BFN.Still feel like im coming on but no more bleeding since yesterday afternoon.Really dont think its my month now.
Well done Rosie, 3 tests seems pretty definative to me.

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rosieposey · 23/03/2010 09:20

MrsWajs - good luck for this afternoon - will check back in and see how you are doing i really hope your missing AF is in actual fact a BFP. I am not due AF till this Saturday so its super duper early - its always a bit scary finding out this early but hey its supposed to be a happy time so im going to stay happy unless i find out otherwise

The weird thing is is that with DD2 I took ages to get a positive, i was waaaayyy over my due AF time and i had gone to the family planning clinc to talk about getting a coil fitted - they did a 'just in case' test and there it was. Im sure i was about two weeks late and had done shedloads of tests but nothing. I think the hcg was very low in the beginning of that pg as i had a fair bit of bleeding and went for a scan at 7 weeks and they said they could see a fair bit of bleeding around her and to just wait and see - she was a lucky one though and she is nearly 15 now. It just goes to show that even if you are late you just dont know.

Totally, my FR that i took last night was negative too, how late are you?

Cazzr · 23/03/2010 09:20

Congrats Rosie, sounds pretty conclusive. Question for you, where did you get your OPK's from?
Going all out this month with evening primrose/multivits, super healthy diet etc but thought I might try opk's too even tho I usually get ov pains (not last month, maybe that should have been a sign to me?!).
Just not sure if the ov pains are during ov or post ov and think the opk's might help me understand...

Still feeling pretty low and getting annoyed that I can't be rational about this whole ttc lark. Just trying to plan ahead for this cycle in an effort to feel better.

Totally: when are you due?

rosieposey · 23/03/2010 09:52

Well i can recommend them as they tallied exactly with the clearblue smileyface i got last Sunday - the seller is on ebay called fertilityplan (sorry i dont know how to link) and they sell these in packs of 10 for 4.99 plus 2.00 postage just type in '10 midstream ovulation fertility tests' and they should come up. Can i just say get the midstream tests not the strips (you know the ones encased in plastic) because i also used the strips and they were crap - could never get a strong second line even though the CB had a and the midstream ones had a really strong second line.

Also i dont know if you thought about trying preseed too? I did for the first time this month as my ecwm is rubbish, i thought i would try it as i had heard so many good things about it, looks like it might have worked. I think that between the CB digi ovulation tests, the internet opks and the preseed i spent about 37.00 on ebay this month.

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Totallyfloaty35 · 23/03/2010 09:56

Hi all,im not due AF til saturday,but ihave had cramps on and off for days now and had spotting yesterday but not today so far.Feel like AF is beating on my door.
Cazzr,you are doing all the right things for a healthy pg.Ttc makes us all nuts

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Cazzr · 23/03/2010 10:32

Thanks Rosie, did you get preseed from the same ebay seller? Got a 20% off voucher for paypal too in my email so that's got to be good.
Giggling to myself that with evening primrose oil and preseed by EWCM might be so abundant that Dh might slip off my like a pengiun off an ice slope!
LOL, I do think I am going crazy.

Totally: thanks. Oh and eating nuts too! LOL
Trundles off to ebay.

rosieposey · 23/03/2010 10:41

Cazzr i got mine on ebay from babydays_2007 they did a tube of preseed for 12.99 and 2.95 for postage - it was the cheapest i could find. Got to say i kept forgetting to put it in when DH and i were 'getting it on' but nipped off to the loo did the deed and if you use it internally it isnt too er 'luby'

Last month i didnt get a positive opk or use the preseed at all and it was our first month trying, but we stopped even SWI'ing at about day 15 tbh as i ran out of opk sticks (had begun testing too early) and hadnt gotten a postive. This month left nothing to chance and got DH to let the boys out of the barracks once a day, used the opks and used the preseed - it was all a pain in the arse (not to mention extreme boredom with SWI by day five of it) but worth attacking on all angles when your an old bint like me

Lorelai · 23/03/2010 13:14

Afternoon all. Still no sign of AF, have just bought some tests, let's see how long I can hold out before I use one!

Cazzr · 23/03/2010 13:15

lorelai, if you are late and haven't had a pee for a while I'd do one now...

Lorelai · 23/03/2010 13:43

Well, AF was due either yesterday or today, plus I am at work, so maybe not the best time to test! Will prob do it when I get home, although holding my wee is difficult coz I keep checking to see if AF has started!

MrsWajs · 23/03/2010 16:32

Did my cheapie test this avo - another BFN.

I am totally confused

Beginning to think maybe I just ov'd REALLY late so AF will be ages away yet, which is even more annoying

digitalgirl · 23/03/2010 16:50

mrswaj perhaps you're actually ovulating right now. You said you had copious amounts of ewcm at the mo. I have often mistaken cramping to mean implantation or period due but then when my period has turned up two weeks after cramping (with many bfn's in between) I've realised that I misread the signs. Now I always swi whenever I get ewcm just in case.

digitalgirl · 23/03/2010 16:54

I say this after getting cramps on cd27 & cd28 this cycle thinking it might be implantation. I'm now cd43, approx 14dpo. Just glad we swi over those days.

MrsWajs · 23/03/2010 16:56

I have just come to that conclusion myself digitalgirl and feel really silly that I didn't think it before!! CM now has gone more creamy so think I might have ovulated over the weekend sometime and am truly pissed off at the fact that there was no BD'ing

Lorelai · 23/03/2010 19:48

I just tested.

And got a BFP!

RaceyLacey · 23/03/2010 20:03

Congratulations Rosie & Lorelai {smile]

I think this month's going to be out for me, loads of spots have come up today which is a surefire sign that af will be putting in an appearance in a week - 10 days.

What is preseed?

rosieposey · 23/03/2010 20:41

Lorelai congratulations! I am so pleased for you - just goes to show that its worth waiting to test (i really really should follow my own advice) i did get another very faint line on an internet cheapy test half an hour ago but i reckon its still too early to use FR as these are supposed to be 10miu and they are still very faint.

RaceyLacey im really spotty at the moment too i dont think that it matters - i have AF twinges too but it was the same in all my pgs tbh.

Preseed is vaginal lubricant that is supposed to be sperm friendly. I read about it a while ago and lots of people have said how quickly they got pg using it. Basically i dont need lubricant but also dont seem to get significant ewcm either so i was worried that perhaps even if i was ovulating that the swimmers wouldnt be able to get to where they needed to if the environment wasnt friendly enough for them iyswim? Anyway it comes in a tube with applicators to insert pre having sex and you cant really tell when you are using it (maybe a bit more smooth shall we say though have a look into it online there is loads of info.

rosieposey · 23/03/2010 20:43

Sorry meant to say that internet cheapy is meant to be 10 miu and FR is supposed to be 25

Lorelai · 23/03/2010 21:06

thanks guys. I have to say, the line was a bit faint, but was def a line. Will try again in the morning with FMU to be sure, but only because I have another test still

digitalgirl · 23/03/2010 21:50

Congrats lorelai! Fab news!

Cazzr · 24/03/2010 09:34

Congrats Lorelai, I will be exercising more restraint with testing next month I promise. ;)

Lorelai · 24/03/2010 09:56

thanks guys. Good luck to everyone waiting to test

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Totallyfloaty35 · 24/03/2010 10:30

Thats great Lorelai,so pleased for you.
Well i tested again this morning and still bfn so im not testing til saturday now as thats when im due.
Also im still spotting,just when i wipe though,so i want to see if it turns into AF before i waste anymore tests.

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