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Just MC...Long haul, short haul, ranting, weeping, laughing all encouraged. Oldies and newbies very welcome

991 replies

liahgen66 · 22/02/2010 21:46

Ok, feel a bit scared actually starting the new thread but here we are, for however long (or short) our time here may be.

Off you go ladies. Welcome () one and all.

OP posts:
liahgen66 · 12/03/2010 20:47

Gi1da sorry thicko emoticon but what is RTD?

OP posts:
Unbuffy · 12/03/2010 20:58

Lia they know. Everybody knows. My mum got pissed excited over Christmas and told everybody before I was ready for them to know. So she then had to tell them all that it wasn't to be after all. Sounds harsh - but she wanted to know what she could do to help when she found out about the mc - she came to the scan with me so knew even before dh. So yes they are fully aware of the facts but obv i have been keeping that brave face on that for some reason we have to have. it's the easiest way to deal with other people. it lets them off the hook somewhat in awkwardness. may have to stay hideously, horribly sober this w/e to avoid telling them exactly how i feel, and blame horrible cold and mucho paracetamol. My bro's a thoughtless sod at the best of times, could really cause fun 'n' games...

Can't help with the post-erpc period thing, mine was v light and short but totally stop-start for several days. Just what you need after 42 thousand days - vast bloodloss - lots of luck 'n' virtual paddage. At least you're over the '2ww' (!!!)

Happy weekend to all - here's the wine i won't be drinking to share out, and the chocolate and chilli sorbet that's apparently heavenly that i can't taste due to cattarh (sp?)
x

Unbuffy · 12/03/2010 21:00

Lia - Red Tide of Doom, aka aka the awfully tweely named af. Following the success of replacing bd with swi, there's a new campaign out...

Unbuffy · 12/03/2010 21:01

My h key does not seem to be doing all it sould. Sorry if this makes problems, eg names...

liahgen66 · 12/03/2010 21:02

cool, it is too!!

Sorry about your bullish bro, not sure which option i'd go for, pissed and truthful,or quiet and seething. Either way, doesn't sound like much fun for you, is his wife understanding?

OP posts:
Allthe8s · 12/03/2010 21:06

liah mine was heavy lasted 2 weeks.

liahgen66 · 12/03/2010 21:11

what??? allthe8's nooooo, Where exactly do I fit in my swi about day8+ if that happens?

OP posts:
Allthe8s · 12/03/2010 21:17

yep 14 days and I have no idea when I ov'd (can usually tell). Had pains mid week but assume it was period pains not ov pain as I am due on tomorrow or sunday??????

Moofold · 12/03/2010 21:43

Beautiful poem Urd (she said through floods of tears). We have those lanterns too but haven't done anything with them yet so some inspiration from you and Viv. A week or so after ERPC we went to a lovely spot on a bridge over a river and threw some flowers in the river while saying goodbye to our wee one but have wanted to do something with the lanterns too. Just something about them seems really fitting.

Viv your pains could well be OV. Last Wed/ Thurs I was utterly convinced I had OV pains and started getting darkish 2nd line on OPK. However today my friends BFP!!!! Ok, its only on an OPK but that it cause for much celebration at day 54 or whatever it is (stopped keeping track). Thank fuck! My point being if you are day 6 then perhaps you are starting to feel pains a week before OV too?

Liah my post ERPC period was very light and short so can't help there. Hope your RTD buggers off soon.

Unbuffy hope you cope with your family. I have found myself getting enraged with my mother making comments like that but when I reflect I wonder if it is all part of folk not knowing what to say -- then anything that comes out sounds callous or insensitive. I honestly don't believe anyone comes close to understanding MC unless they have been there so I try to give people a break when they say something stupid. Good luck pal!

Hello and waves to everyone else - here's some wine to all that would like some. I'm going back to my real glass x

AlbaDeTamble · 12/03/2010 22:06

Moofold, are you sure it's ov, and you're not pg? OPKs pick up both LH and HCG... Just wondering, since such a long cycle... (apols for so many acronyms)... Am quietly excited for you!

Liah, my was v heavy and few days longer than normal. Should have +ve OPKs by now but all stubbornly -ve

good luck with the rellies unbuffy

happy weekends to all

Moofold · 13/03/2010 00:06

Mmmh Alba you're putting ideas in my head. Like I need encouraging to pee on anymore sticks! I still have an HPT lying about now you mention it..........

I understand your sentiments about your colleagues due same time as you. I think I said in an earlier thread I have 2 friends due within 3 weeks of what would/ should have been my due date plus a relative of DH due same week. Am dreading the end of June start of July.

Anyway, off to bed - can feel DD's cold rubbing off on me. Ho hum, SWI last thing on my mind!

randomimposter · 13/03/2010 07:45

Saturday:
Moofold ttc#2 UCL~33 cycle1 CD53
northlondonchoclover TTC#1 UCL28 cycle WTF CD44
Liahgen66 TTC#6 UCL26 cycle 1 (post mc) CD44
RunForTheHills TTC#1 UCL30 cycle 14 CD40
yogamat TTC#2 UCL? cycle WTF CD40
sunburntats TTC#2 UCL28 cycle 2 CD38
NoShouting TTC#5 UCL? cycle 1 CD34
Curlylox TTC #3 UCL 28 cycle WTF CD32
Slimyak TTC #2 UCL 26 cycle 2 CD31
Gi1da TTC #1 UCL28 cycle WTF CD29
Tigerbear TTC#1 UCL26 cycle 7 CD28
Allthe8s TTC#3 UCL28 cycle1 CD28
dirtgirl TTC#2 UCL28 cycle1 CD24
clareanna TTC#2 UCL35 cycle 1 CD23
sakura TTC#1 UCL28 cycle1 CD23
LucyT66 TTC 1 UCL 33-34 cycle 3 CD20
Underneaththestream TTC#1 UCL ? cycle 1 CD20
Unbuffy TTC#2 UCL? cycle 1 CD19
shinysideup TTC#2 UCL25 cycle1 CD17
icedlemonmuffin TTC#2 UCL24-32 cycle11 CD16
Newcastle16 TTC#1 UCL 26-28 cycle1 CD16
albadetamble TTC#2 UCL25 cycle1 CD13
CCBloom TTC#1 UCL28 cycle1 CD13
Pollyanna TTC#6 UCL27 cycle1 CD11
BunnyBaby TTC #3 UCL28 cycle 1 CD9
Barrenbrook TTC#1 UCL 25-28 cycle 12 CD9
slimyak TTC#2 UCL 26 cycle 3 CD8
Zayja TTC#1 UCL24-26 cycle 12 CD7
vivcliquot TTC#1 UCL27 cycle 4 CD7
Hopefully TTC#2 UCL28 cycle 4 CD7
Goodluckbear TTC#1 UCL28 cycle 2 CD4
LittleMiss72 TTC#1 UCL28 cycle 2 CD4
Tigger15 TTC#2 UCL26 cycle 10 CD4

PENDING STATS
westyorkshiregirl TTC#? UCL? cycle? CD?
Malteser1981 TTC#? UCL28 cycle WTF CD?
sparklyrainbow TTC#1 UCL 28 cycle WTF
hippychick TTC #3 UCL? cycle WTF
lauraloo09 TTC#2 UCL? cycle WTF
Urd TTC#3 UCL28 cycle WTF
Mummy369 TTC#4 UCL 26-30 CD51 cycle WTF for sure
meatntattypie
GinaFB
Newcastle16
Elmmum

WTTC
Muser TTC#1 EP 18/02/10 on 3 month wait
Jollster TTC#2 MMC2 26/02/10

GRADUATES
amyboo
totally
hoops997 BFP 11 July 2009
Stressy BFP 22nd August 2009
becky78 BFP 4th September 2009
LittleOneMum BFP 7th September 2009
Waitingisntfun BFP 19th September 2009
Chamois BFP 7th October 2009
Apples BFP 9th November 2009
Meita BFP 10th December 2009
CakeandFineWine BFP 27th December 2009
boodleboot BFP 2nd January 2010
LeeWT BFP 21st January 2010
TFLS BFP 22nd January 2010
Louisesh BFP 22nd January 2010
MrsRigby BFP 27th January 2010
TheKurgan BFP 30th January 2010
effilump BFP 8th February 2010
Sarahlou8 BFP 10th February 2010
samanthab123 BFP 10th February 2010
Cheepz BFP 16th February 2010
redandyellowandpinkandgreen BFP 6th March 2010
floweringcurrant BFP 8th March 2010

randomimposter · 13/03/2010 07:51

the stats have got in a bit of a mess with a couple of crossed posts missing other updates, and MANY many other snippets lost/maybe lost.

So have had a go at updating (certainly the cycle days), and re-adding some lost newbies but would encourage people not to be shy, and if posting news that is stats related you can update them yourselves. Much easier that way.

Hope all jolly this morning. tarra for now x

Saturday:
Moofold ttc#2 UCL~33 cycle1 CD53
northlondonchoclover TTC#1 UCL28 cycle WTF CD44
Liahgen66 TTC#6 UCL26 cycle 1 (post mc) CD44
RunForTheHills TTC#1 UCL30 cycle 14 CD40
yogamat TTC#2 UCL? cycle WTF CD40
sunburntats TTC#2 UCL28 cycle 2 CD38
NoShouting TTC#5 UCL? cycle 1 CD34
Curlylox TTC #3 UCL 28 cycle WTF CD32
Slimyak TTC #2 UCL 26 cycle 2 CD31
Gi1da TTC #1 UCL28 cycle WTF CD29
Tigerbear TTC#1 UCL26 cycle 7 CD28
Allthe8s TTC#3 UCL28 cycle1 CD28
dirtgirl TTC#2 UCL28 cycle1 CD24
clareanna TTC#2 UCL35 cycle 1 CD23
sakura TTC#1 UCL28 cycle1 CD23
LucyT66 TTC 1 UCL 33-34 cycle 3 CD20
Underneaththestream TTC#1 UCL ? cycle 1 CD20
Unbuffy TTC#2 UCL? cycle 1 CD19
shinysideup TTC#2 UCL25 cycle1 CD17
icedlemonmuffin TTC#2 UCL24-32 cycle11 CD16
Newcastle16 TTC#1 UCL 26-28 cycle1 CD16
albadetamble TTC#2 UCL25 cycle1 CD13
CCBloom TTC#1 UCL28 cycle1 CD13
Pollyanna TTC#6 UCL27 cycle1 CD11
BunnyBaby TTC #3 UCL28 cycle 1 CD9
Barrenbrook TTC#1 UCL 25-28 cycle 12 CD9
slimyak TTC#2 UCL 26 cycle 3 CD8
Zayja TTC#1 UCL24-26 cycle 12 CD7
vivcliquot TTC#1 UCL27 cycle 4 CD7
Hopefully TTC#2 UCL28 cycle 4 CD7
Goodluckbear TTC#1 UCL28 cycle 2 CD4
LittleMiss72 TTC#1 UCL28 cycle 2 CD4
Tigger15 TTC#2 UCL26 cycle 10 CD4

PENDING STATS
westyorkshiregirl TTC#? UCL? cycle? CD?
Malteser1981 TTC#? UCL28 cycle WTF CD?
sparklyrainbow TTC#1 UCL 28 cycle WTF
hippychick TTC #3 UCL? cycle WTF
lauraloo09 TTC#2 UCL? cycle WTF
Urd TTC#3 UCL28 cycle WTF
Mummy369 TTC#4 UCL 26-30 CD51 cycle WTF for sure
meatntattypie
GinaFB
Newcastle16
Elmmum
cinnamonswirl TTC#? cycle? UCL 23-30 CD22
Spottysox
HappyGirl1

WTTC
Muser TTC#1 EP 18/02/10 on 3 month wait
Jollster TTC#2 MMC2 26/02/10

GRADUATES
amyboo
totally
hoops997 BFP 11 July 2009
Stressy BFP 22nd August 2009
becky78 BFP 4th September 2009
LittleOneMum BFP 7th September 2009
Waitingisntfun BFP 19th September 2009
Chamois BFP 7th October 2009
Apples BFP 9th November 2009
Meita BFP 10th December 2009
CakeandFineWine BFP 27th December 2009
boodleboot BFP 2nd January 2010
LeeWT BFP 21st January 2010
TFLS BFP 22nd January 2010
Louisesh BFP 22nd January 2010
MrsRigby BFP 27th January 2010
TheKurgan BFP 30th January 2010
effilump BFP 8th February 2010
Sarahlou8 BFP 10th February 2010
samanthab123 BFP 10th February 2010
Cheepz BFP 16th February 2010
redandyellowandpinkandgreen BFP 6th March 2010
floweringcurrant BFP 8th March 2010

littlemiss72 · 13/03/2010 09:19

Morning all, hope your keeping well.

Lia came 5 weeks post erpc for me, not heavy at all. Tailing off today already so qite the opposite from you. Hold out until MOnday if it's no better I'd think about calling the doc up just to be on the safe side.

Wonderful words urd and viv equally lovely story. Both very touching.

Off to look at houses today, our plans continue despite our loss. I have started to wonder however if I've taken on too much moving and planning a wedding all this year as well as ttc what will be will be.

Have a muslim wedding reception later today, sounds like a wild night without wine. No idea what to wear mind! Google'd: just cover your arms and don't have too much on show so to speak. That's simple considering I'm half a stone heavier and hiding every thing I can.

Hope you all have nice plans for the weekend, I'll try and catch up properly tomorrow as DP is off on his travel's ..

liahgen66 · 13/03/2010 12:46

Moofold ttc#2 UCL~33 cycle1 CD53
northlondonchoclover TTC#1 UCL28 cycle WTF CD44
RunForTheHills TTC#1 UCL30 cycle 14 CD40
yogamat TTC#2 UCL? cycle WTF CD40
sunburntats TTC#2 UCL28 cycle 2 CD38
NoShouting TTC#5 UCL? cycle 1 CD34
Curlylox TTC #3 UCL 28 cycle WTF CD32
Slimyak TTC #2 UCL 26 cycle 2 CD31
Gi1da TTC #1 UCL28 cycle WTF CD29
Tigerbear TTC#1 UCL26 cycle 7 CD28
Allthe8s TTC#3 UCL28 cycle1 CD28
dirtgirl TTC#2 UCL28 cycle1 CD24
clareanna TTC#2 UCL35 cycle 1 CD23
sakura TTC#1 UCL28 cycle1 CD23
LucyT66 TTC 1 UCL 33-34 cycle 3 CD20
Underneaththestream TTC#1 UCL ? cycle 1 CD20
Unbuffy TTC#2 UCL? cycle 1 CD19
shinysideup TTC#2 UCL25 cycle1 CD17
icedlemonmuffin TTC#2 UCL24-32 cycle11 CD16
Newcastle16 TTC#1 UCL 26-28 cycle1 CD16
albadetamble TTC#2 UCL25 cycle1 CD13
CCBloom TTC#1 UCL28 cycle1 CD13
Pollyanna TTC#6 UCL27 cycle1 CD11
BunnyBaby TTC #3 UCL28 cycle 1 CD9
Barrenbrook TTC#1 UCL 25-28 cycle 12 CD9
slimyak TTC#2 UCL 26 cycle 3 CD8
Zayja TTC#1 UCL24-26 cycle 12 CD7
vivcliquot TTC#1 UCL27 cycle 4 CD7
Hopefully TTC#2 UCL28 cycle 4 CD7
Goodluckbear TTC#1 UCL28 cycle 2 CD4
LittleMiss72 TTC#1 UCL28 cycle 2 CD4
Tigger15 TTC#2 UCL26 cycle 10 CD4
Liahgen ttc#6 UCL 26 cycle 1 (post erpc) cd3

PENDING STATS
westyorkshiregirl TTC#? UCL? cycle? CD?
Malteser1981 TTC#? UCL28 cycle WTF CD?
sparklyrainbow TTC#1 UCL 28 cycle WTF
hippychick TTC #3 UCL? cycle WTF
lauraloo09 TTC#2 UCL? cycle WTF
Urd TTC#3 UCL28 cycle WTF
Mummy369 TTC#4 UCL 26-30 CD51 cycle WTF for sure
meatntattypie
GinaFB
Newcastle16
Elmmum
cinnamonswirl TTC#? cycle? UCL 23-30 CD22
Spottysox
HappyGirl1

WTTC
Muser TTC#1 EP 18/02/10 on 3 month wait
Jollster TTC#2 MMC2 26/02/10

GRADUATES
amyboo
totally
hoops997 BFP 11 July 2009
Stressy BFP 22nd August 2009
becky78 BFP 4th September 2009
LittleOneMum BFP 7th September 2009
Waitingisntfun BFP 19th September 2009
Chamois BFP 7th October 2009
Apples BFP 9th November 2009
Meita BFP 10th December 2009
CakeandFineWine BFP 27th December 2009
boodleboot BFP 2nd January 2010
LeeWT BFP 21st January 2010
TFLS BFP 22nd January 2010
Louisesh BFP 22nd January 2010
MrsRigby BFP 27th January 2010
TheKurgan BFP 30th January 2010
effilump BFP 8th February 2010
Sarahlou8 BFP 10th February 2010
samanthab123 BFP 10th February 2010
Cheepz BFP 16th February 2010
redandyellowandpinkandgreen BFP 6th March 2010
floweringcurrant BFP 8th March 2010

OP posts:
Mummy369 · 13/03/2010 14:48

SATURDAY:

Moofold ttc#2 UCL~33 cycle1 CD53
northlondonchoclover TTC#1 UCL28 cycle WTF CD44
RunForTheHills TTC#1 UCL30 cycle 14 CD40
yogamat TTC#2 UCL? cycle WTF CD40
sunburntats TTC#2 UCL28 cycle 2 CD38
NoShouting TTC#5 UCL? cycle 1 CD34
Curlylox TTC #3 UCL 28 cycle WTF CD32
Slimyak TTC #2 UCL 26 cycle 2 CD31
Gi1da TTC #1 UCL28 cycle WTF CD29
Tigerbear TTC#1 UCL26 cycle 7 CD28
Allthe8s TTC#3 UCL28 cycle1 CD28
dirtgirl TTC#2 UCL28 cycle1 CD24
clareanna TTC#2 UCL35 cycle 1 CD23
sakura TTC#1 UCL28 cycle1 CD23
LucyT66 TTC 1 UCL 33-34 cycle 3 CD20
Underneaththestream TTC#1 UCL ? cycle 1 CD20
Unbuffy TTC#2 UCL? cycle 1 CD19
shinysideup TTC#2 UCL25 cycle1 CD17
icedlemonmuffin TTC#2 UCL24-32 cycle11 CD16
Newcastle16 TTC#1 UCL 26-28 cycle1 CD16
albadetamble TTC#2 UCL25 cycle1 CD13
CCBloom TTC#1 UCL28 cycle1 CD13
Pollyanna TTC#6 UCL27 cycle1 CD11
BunnyBaby TTC #3 UCL28 cycle 1 CD9
Barrenbrook TTC#1 UCL 25-28 cycle 12 CD9
slimyak TTC#2 UCL 26 cycle 3 CD8
Zayja TTC#1 UCL24-26 cycle 12 CD7
vivcliquot TTC#1 UCL27 cycle 4 CD7
Hopefully TTC#2 UCL28 cycle 4 CD7
Goodluckbear TTC#1 UCL28 cycle 2 CD4
LittleMiss72 TTC#1 UCL28 cycle 2 CD4
Tigger15 TTC#2 UCL26 cycle 10 CD4
Liahgen ttc#6 UCL 26 cycle 1 (post erpc) cd3

PENDING STATS
westyorkshiregirl TTC#? UCL? cycle? CD?
Malteser1981 TTC#? UCL28 cycle WTF CD?
sparklyrainbow TTC#1 UCL 28 cycle WTF
hippychick TTC #3 UCL? cycle WTF
lauraloo09 TTC#2 UCL? cycle WTF
Urd TTC#3 UCL28 cycle WTF
Mummy369 TTC#4 UCL 26-30 CD54 cycle WTF for sure
meatntattypie
GinaFB
Newcastle16
Elmmum
cinnamonswirl TTC#? cycle? UCL 23-30 CD22
Spottysox
HappyGirl1

WTTC
Muser TTC#1 EP 18/02/10 on 3 month wait
Jollster TTC#2 MMC2 26/02/10

GRADUATES
amyboo
totally
hoops997 BFP 11 July 2009
Stressy BFP 22nd August 2009
becky78 BFP 4th September 2009
LittleOneMum BFP 7th September 2009
Waitingisntfun BFP 19th September 2009
Chamois BFP 7th October 2009
Apples BFP 9th November 2009
Meita BFP 10th December 2009
CakeandFineWine BFP 27th December 2009
boodleboot BFP 2nd January 2010
LeeWT BFP 21st January 2010
TFLS BFP 22nd January 2010
Louisesh BFP 22nd January 2010
MrsRigby BFP 27th January 2010
TheKurgan BFP 30th January 2010
effilump BFP 8th February 2010
Sarahlou8 BFP 10th February 2010
samanthab123 BFP 10th February 2010
Cheepz BFP 16th February 2010
redandyellowandpinkandgreen BFP 6th March 2010
floweringcurrant BFP 8th March 2010

randomimposter · 13/03/2010 16:42

ooooo, did I come over all schoolmarmy earlier - now there are stats posts with no other comments ....
littlemiss hope the house hunt goes well. Think you have to move on with real life... have been guilty myself of over-focusing on getting/staying (!) pg, and not dealing with other stuff.

Unbuffy · 13/03/2010 18:01

smaaaall rant.

SIL expecting. ARGGGGH!!!

Trying to be nice, smile a bit fixed and gritted-teethy.

Moofold · 13/03/2010 18:45

Oh Unbuffy that's shit. This is happpening to me a lot recently too - every time I think I am getting a little more emotionally stable someone else makes a happy announcement and its like a knife to the heart every time. Obviously I am happy for them but in a purely selfish way I really don't want to be confronted with numerous pregnancies as it brings forth painful memories.

Hang on in there, reach for the wine let it all out if you need to and keep your pecker up

Gi1da · 13/03/2010 18:53

Jollster don't fret! Unbuffy, oh arsewhangknickers! I hope the rest of the weekend is ok. Have faith that it will all come good in the end. Hug.

barrenbrook · 13/03/2010 19:51

Moofold I'm still maintaining that you are updiffed lady!

Unbuffy f*cksticks, hope you are OK, same thing pretty much happened to me last weekend as you all know, so I am feeling your pain honey. Drink your way through it. did!

Liah My post ERPC RTD was about 10 days... Not so frustrating for me though as I was told to abstain or at least have protected sex for three months because of it being a suspected molar. Hope yours ends soon matey.

RANT ALERT!!!!

SIL and her sister (they were both due the same day, how freaky) both gave birth this weekend, one boy and one girl. I am of course over the moon for my brother and his wife but I feel shit, I don't even want to go and see them. How wrong is that?! Plus they all keep saying, when are you two having kids, you're both getting older, clock's ticking, blah, blah, blah. None of them know about the two miscarriages that we've had and I can't face telling them as I can't stand the fuss and sympathy (I have no idea why).

No pleasing some people is there!!

Sorry for the self obsessed post. Where's the wine!

liahgen66 · 13/03/2010 20:00

Oh buffy I'm sorry your sil timing was off for you. Drown your sorrows,

Err, that was me posting stats and no "talk", was just rushing but didn't want my stats to carry on wrong.

I took on a client today that's due when I would have been. I did think about it but they are a really lovely couple and I really want to support them get a positive experience. 1st baby for them.

Bleeding not quite so heavy today so hopefully it'll turn into a normal period for a day or 2 then I can get down to it, (err,I mean we )

Have lovely mothers day everyone.

OP posts:
Moofold · 13/03/2010 20:31

Barrenbrook virtual glass of wine winging its way to you. I feel like I am turning into a total ogre sometimes too. My Mum phoned me the other day to tell me my cousin had her baby and that close family friends' son and his wife are due in September and I couldn't even bring myself to come out with the usual platitudes. Then I got angry with her for phoning to tell me those bits of news in the first place. So don't worry about not wanting to go and see newborns - I went to see my friend's a few weeks back and he was a month old by the time I could muster the strength/ will.

Right - I will test first thing tomorrow and let you know. However, I know I am not - not presenting symptoms and BBT chart only now showing the temp shift. OPK positive today again mind you. Like I said to Alba yesterday, I don't need much persuading to pee on a stick so I'll have a go tomorrow!

Despite succumbing to DD's cold we have managed a few SWI sessions over these positive OPKs so fingers crossed!

Glad RTD is calming down Liah.

Have a good evening all x

tigger15 · 13/03/2010 20:41

barren tough news. My recent line to someone at work who is always intrusive and asking when will I have another was with a very serious face "that's not a good question to ask. just think what the possible answers might be." It really worked. It doesn't admit anything (and for all they know the answer might be that I don't want any more children and don't want to discuss it in detail) and if they press for more details just say you don't want to talk about it.

I belong to a very religious community where it is expected that you will have children so where a gap starts to come the automatic assumption is more towards you are having problems than you are deliberately putting it off and people are generally (although not universally) more careful about not sticking their foot in it. I used to belong to a less religious one where it was considered fine to ask if you were expecting and if not why not. A lot of other people seem to assume that 1. if you don't have children it is because of a personal choice which you can be talked out of and 2. nowadays everyone can have children. It can be very distressing and upsetting.

Buffy keep going you will get there. I can think of lots of ways to upset doctors but my response to people distressing me is to usually retaliate by a factor of 10. I like the death comment.

Curlylox · 13/03/2010 22:00

SATURDAY:

Moofold ttc#2 UCL~33 cycle1 CD53
northlondonchoclover TTC#1 UCL28 cycle WTF CD44
RunForTheHills TTC#1 UCL30 cycle 14 CD40
yogamat TTC#2 UCL? cycle WTF CD40
sunburntats TTC#2 UCL28 cycle 2 CD38
NoShouting TTC#5 UCL? cycle 1 CD34
Curlylox TTC #3 UCL 28 cycle 1 CD4
Slimyak TTC #2 UCL 26 cycle 2 CD31
Gi1da TTC #1 UCL28 cycle WTF CD29
Tigerbear TTC#1 UCL26 cycle 7 CD28
Allthe8s TTC#3 UCL28 cycle1 CD28
dirtgirl TTC#2 UCL28 cycle1 CD24
clareanna TTC#2 UCL35 cycle 1 CD23
sakura TTC#1 UCL28 cycle1 CD23
LucyT66 TTC 1 UCL 33-34 cycle 3 CD20
Underneaththestream TTC#1 UCL ? cycle 1 CD20
Unbuffy TTC#2 UCL? cycle 1 CD19
shinysideup TTC#2 UCL25 cycle1 CD17
icedlemonmuffin TTC#2 UCL24-32 cycle11 CD16
Newcastle16 TTC#1 UCL 26-28 cycle1 CD16
albadetamble TTC#2 UCL25 cycle1 CD13
CCBloom TTC#1 UCL28 cycle1 CD13
Pollyanna TTC#6 UCL27 cycle1 CD11
BunnyBaby TTC #3 UCL28 cycle 1 CD9
Barrenbrook TTC#1 UCL 25-28 cycle 12 CD9
slimyak TTC#2 UCL 26 cycle 3 CD8
Zayja TTC#1 UCL24-26 cycle 12 CD7
vivcliquot TTC#1 UCL27 cycle 4 CD7
Hopefully TTC#2 UCL28 cycle 4 CD7
Goodluckbear TTC#1 UCL28 cycle 2 CD4
LittleMiss72 TTC#1 UCL28 cycle 2 CD4
Tigger15 TTC#2 UCL26 cycle 10 CD4
Liahgen ttc#6 UCL 26 cycle 1 (post erpc) cd3

PENDING STATS
westyorkshiregirl TTC#? UCL? cycle? CD?
Malteser1981 TTC#? UCL28 cycle WTF CD?
sparklyrainbow TTC#1 UCL 28 cycle WTF
hippychick TTC #3 UCL? cycle WTF
lauraloo09 TTC#2 UCL? cycle WTF
Urd TTC#3 UCL28 cycle WTF
Mummy369 TTC#4 UCL 26-30 CD54 cycle WTF for sure
meatntattypie
GinaFB
Newcastle16
Elmmum
cinnamonswirl TTC#? cycle? UCL 23-30 CD22
Spottysox
HappyGirl1

WTTC
Muser TTC#1 EP 18/02/10 on 3 month wait
Jollster TTC#2 MMC2 26/02/10

GRADUATES
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