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TTC after a Miscarriage - A Fresh New Start

831 replies

Diddle · 04/07/2005 18:09

Here we go, another new thread for us to fill with our highs and lows.

Lets start off with a good dusting of babydust, think all the rest we had has washed off in the rain

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HellKat · 19/07/2005 17:17

Tabs- Congrats!!!!!! Wonderful news.
Diddle- Not nice are they?
The reason why they're getting it sorted quickly is I'm "At risk" (sound like a social services case eh? ). I've had cancerous cells lazored from my cervix before and plus there's alot of breast cancer in my family.
On a funny note, I'm now regretting buying ds2 an inflatable police car complete with 140 balls! Yep 140!!. Needless to say, every evening, we have to pick them all up plus numerous times during the day! Ohhhh the price we pay for having happy bunny kiddies!

strike1 · 19/07/2005 17:34

Good news tabs! Keep up the good work. Hellkat, good luck with the lump, bummer time to give up, but if you can make through the next week or two it'll be easy after that.

Keeping looking in my diary today to count the dates and make sure I can't test yet Only a week and a half before I can see if all this bding has worked though

HellKat · 19/07/2005 17:43

Thanks Strike!
That's going to feel like an eternity!
It's true regarding smoking. If we can give up now, then we can do it anytime!

HellKat · 19/07/2005 18:18

Ok all off to bathe ds2 and get him to bed.
Have a great night all. xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

maddyd · 19/07/2005 18:22

Things PMS Stands For

  1. Pass My Shotgun
  2. Psychotic Mood Shift
  3. Perpetual Munching Spree
  4. Puffy Midsection
  5. People Make me Sick
  6. Provide Me with Sweets
  7. Pardon My Sobbing
  8. Pimples May Surface
  9. Pass My Sweatpants
  10. Pissy Mood Syndrome
  11. Plainly, Men Suck
  12. Pack My Stuff
  13. And my favourite one...Potential Murder Suspect
Diddle · 19/07/2005 18:25

like that maddyd, very good esp the last one.
how are you today?

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maddyd · 19/07/2005 18:38

Im fine ta already trying to work out when i can test. How about you, has your af appeared yet?

CHOCOLATEPEANUT · 19/07/2005 19:25

Hellkat, my sister had the same last month,turned out to be a cyst.Hope everything ok for you too(I bought dd a boat with loads balls.Never again) xx

Tabs,great news re scan.A little step further.x

Lunarsea,our other halfs can be v difficult at times cant they? I know we are difficult to understand at these times but can you imagine if the situation was reversed? Mine is in sulking mood because he has a sore throat and said he feels like a 'donor'.Ha.Make the most of it pal cos IF i get pregnant its the last leg over he will be getting for quite a while....

In fairly good mood today cos its my birthday. Fairly I say cos I am 38 and think I am too old to be having babies.Anyhow due date this week and think as God took my baby away then I have no choice but to have a go,no matter HOW old I am .

Good though cos got lots chocs for birthday which is helping......mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

LunarSea · 19/07/2005 19:36

Cp -- If you're too old, then I definately am

CHOCOLATEPEANUT · 19/07/2005 19:48

Did you do that test on Sat night on BBC1? Test your real age? I came out as a 36 and would have scoredlower but to the fact lost mum before 75 and to breast cancer

Anyhow,your as young as you feel and after a box of Black Magic I feel 21!!

Diddle · 19/07/2005 19:55

maddyd - no sign of af yet no, not sure if shes coming or not.

CP - Thats positive thinking for you, stay positive, its never too late to try.

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CHOCOLATEPEANUT · 19/07/2005 20:32

Just bought 10 ultra early detection kits.Says can use 7-10 days after conception.

Anyone had any success tesying so early?

Should arrive in next day or two. Guess who is going to use all 10 straight away......

Tabs · 19/07/2005 21:31

Happy Birthday CP!

LunarSea · 19/07/2005 21:39

Just tried that test online here - and it reckons I'm 2 years younger than my chronological age too.

Tabs · 19/07/2005 21:55

I just had a go. It reckons that my 'real age' is 30.8, but says that I'm actually 32 - I've still got nearly 2 weeks before I turn 32, so it can't count!!

Diddle · 19/07/2005 22:28

Cp - is it your birthday or have i missed something??

Just had a lovely evening, where i actually managed to forget about babies and ttc. My best friend since primary school is visiting, she now lives in New Zealand and hasn't been back for 3 years, it was so good to see her, all we've done is talk, loads.
I loved it.

Off to bed now. have not had a drink of anything since 7.00 so I am testing out the theory that if i don't dilute my urine too much i may get a beter result as af still hasn't shown today.

Night night everyone

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Diddle · 20/07/2005 07:04

morning all
bfn again, not impressed, very confused, can't undertsand it. Feel very fat and sick. no pains to say that af is coming, what the hell is going on. Maybe i am pg and my body is getting me past the 7 and 8 weeks that i lost my little ones at. But they are a long way off now.

I don't get it!!!

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HellKat · 20/07/2005 07:15

Morning all.
Diddle- Why don't you try to leave testing until Friday? Then it'll be a week and if no sign of af, make an appt with you dr. Something's got to show eitherway. Love the idea that a little beanie is staying safe until 7/8wks! Ohhhh I so hope it's that for you .
CP- Lol at the ball toys! Why oh why do we do it?
Maddy- at the pms thing!! You missed a good one though. PMS= permenant male stress! Well that's my one lol. As it sooo happens I have two coffee mugs. First one (both retro 50's design) says " I'm having my period therefore can legally kill you", second one says " MENtal anxiety, MENtal breakdown, MENstrual cramps, MENopause.....all problems begin with MEN!".

Diddle · 20/07/2005 07:27

nice mugs Hellkat - might leave it now, fed up of testing, just wanted to try the no drinking before bedtime thing. Can't be arsed now.

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HellKat · 20/07/2005 07:33

{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}} hun!
Awwww. I'm not surprised!

Diddle · 20/07/2005 08:22

right don't any of you let me test now untila t least the weekend. Send me lots of mental messages saying NOOOOO!!!

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spub · 20/07/2005 08:27

Diddle,
Noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo more testing for you for now.
Fingers (but not legs) crossed for you.

HellKat · 20/07/2005 08:27

Diddle-do you watch Little Britain? The hypnotist sketch....."Look into my eyes, my eyes, not all around the eyes but deep into my eyes....you will not test until the weekend!!"

spub · 20/07/2005 08:32

HK - but Diddle's walking around stores looking at OPK's and PT's and going, "I want that one"!!

HellKat · 20/07/2005 08:36

LOL!!!!!!!!!!