TTC after a Miscarriage - A Fresh New Start

[Diddle]

Here we go, another new thread for us to fill with our highs and lows.

Lets start off with a good dusting of babydust, think all the rest we had has washed off in the rain

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welcome madness, sorry to hear of your loss, I hope that you get back to normal soon, and can join us in the bd and testing. we're quite laid back really,like having a laugh, and keeping each others spirits up.

Evening ladies

What have you done to the weather???

Maddyd- hun-I am so, so sorry to hear your news. Remember that we are all here for you {{{x}}}

Hellkat-lol-AF has sent a postcard from Fiji and is in no rush to come back (been watching too much Celeb Love Island! )

A massive warm welcome to spub and Madness. Sorry to hear about your mc's. Spub, did you have a D&C or let things happen naturally. I did the natural bit 5 weeks ago and bled for 3 weeks then nothing since and I have had the all clear but no sign of my AF. This must be the only time in my life that I am desperate for it. (AF that is )

Hello to Diddle, Lottielou, Xena, LunarSea, Cori, Strike 1, 2GIRLS, wishingchair and apologies to anyone I might have missed.

Sending love, hugs and babydust (can't do it-soz) to all.

Off to watch part 2 of Beneath the Skin-Diddle-don't forget it!

Night night.
{{{xxx}}}

thanks humphreys had forgotten, but just seent he advert in the corrie break too, thanks for reminding me, i'm sure Dh would have tried to avoid watching it if i didn't remind him

maybe my singing started the rain

Redirected here by Maddyd.Thanks

I too am trying to concieve. I did not have a miscarriage but a stillbirth at 24 weeks on 05.04.05. I had a little girl (i had not felt any movements and the scan confirmed the worse)I was induced (it was horrible, my other daughter Lucy 20 mths was a c section so I had always wanted to give birth but not like that)We called her Philippa and we had to register her and then have a funeral.The Post Mortem revealed nothing, she was perfect and our consulatant said that we should try again. Got caught 1st month with both Lucy and Philippa so stupidly thought would again. 1st period seemed to take forever and when it started I thought hey presto but 2nd period arrived end of last week and as I was desperate to be pregnant by due date 24.07 I am a bit low.

Marked off fertile days for this month and everything is crossed..well almost everything

welcome chocolate peanut, think i've seen your other thread, hope you find lots of support here, we are all a wonderful group, everyone has been such a great help.
So sorry for your loss.

humphreys - its keeping me gripped. i wonder if she dies or they get him?

Hi Choclatepeanut.
Welcome to our thread.
I had a missed miscarriage, at 17 weeks. I had to be induced as well, my current DS was also a ceaserean so the experience of birth was completly new too me. So I know how you feel.
I have also been told that I will probably have to have a ceasrean nxt time too, which makes me feel quite sad.
Good luck this month. This my first proper month of trying also.

Good luck to you too Cori.

It makes me feel so much better knowing we are all in this together.

night night everyone, got an early start tomorrow, my first little one comes at 6.50am, need some sleep now

Still getting used to all this especially the abreviations.

Chocolate Peanut (jane, was eating m&ms when logged on originally)38
DH (HUBBY?YES?)37
DD (LUCY 20MTHS)
STILLBORN Philippa 05.04.05
Miscarriage March 1992
working part time as an ASBO officer (someone has to do it)

Ooh Diddle-I really enjoyed that-shiver shiver!!!

Welcome CHOCOLATEPEANUT to our warm and friendly thread {{{x}}} Hope you get your wish very soon hun.

Night again
x

Just wanted to wish you all the very best for this coming month

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twiga - thank you, we need all the luck that we can get, Most of us keep getting AF rather than BFP's.

Humphreyscorner - It was good wasn't it.

Morning everyone - very cloudy here in the midlands, where is the sun!!

Morning all.
Welcome Mad and Chocolate. Ohhh Chocolate. That's my worst fear hun having a stillbirth. Thank goodness you were able to give her a lovely service though.
Humphreys- At least af was considerate enough to send you a postcard. Tell her maybe next time, she can take mine with her.
Maddy- Ohh yes. my dreams were filled with you! Lol. Actually, had rather saucy one about Brad Pitt and dp! MMMMMM
How's everyone?

mmmm brad pitt!!

I'm a Tom Cruise fan there was an interview with him by Jonathan Ross last night, and i can't believe that Tom is 43!!!! Thats the oldest man i've fancied.

In office today. Have a nice day everyone. xxxxx

Oldest one I do has to be Rik Mayall. He's lully!!!
Maddy- have a good day!

Morning to you all!
This thread is so friendly and welcoming. Thanks for the hellos to date and here's hoping we all get the BFP soon.
Hi to the other newbies - chocolatepeanut and madness. Big hugs to you both.
Humphrey's corner re your earlier posting - I didn't have a D&C - they said there was no sac when they did the internal scan and though they thought I might have retained some tissue (hence the higher than normal but not high enough to be properly pregnant HcG levels) they let things alone. I had a small bleed about 2 weeks after they confirmed the miscarriage which may have taken care of anything left (sorry if this is tmi).
Cori, I had the acupuncture last night and hope it does the trick for me like it did for you. It was very strange but relaxing too though I did yelp when he put the needles into one particular point on my calf which corresponded to - yes, you guessed it, my uterus! He thinks 4 sessions over a month should be enough to get me back on track.
Hope you are all having a good day.

Hi everyone, I've been lurking on TTC threads for a bit since mc in Feb.... finally admitting to myself that I do need to join in

My cycle just doesn't seem to have settled down since mc which is a shock, used to be regular as clockwork.

Best of luck to everyone this month! Glad to have found a bunch like you - is it fair to say quite obsessed with ttc, yet with a sense of humour?

Anyone else find themselves staring at pregnancy bumps with envy (and aren't there just so many around) or is that just me?!

madrush - welcome, sorry to hear about you're m/c. Are you actively ttc or just considering it? Yes it is very normal to stare at pregnancy bumps in envy, and we are surrounded by them, although i do think we have a sixth sense about them, and they've always been there really. Everywhere i turn i see one.

Hellkat - Rik Mayall, tell me you're kidding, yuk yuk yuk think i'll stick to Tom Cruise

Madrush - it is apparently normal for our cycles to be all over the place, might take a while to regulate.

For those of you that haven't already we have got a ttc after a m/c stats page so please feel free to add your details

Goodmorning all.
Off to the park today for a 'mumsnet meetup'
Have a good day all!!!

oooohhh that sounds nice Xena, are there many going?

Thanks Diddle, will add stats. Have been actively ttc since month or so after mc. Maybe our lucky month is coming up soon.