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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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charleepeters · 06/06/2005 16:49

Well here we are on another thread and im hoping this one is a bit more lucky! welcome girls!!!

take it away!

Im Charlee (duh!)
im 18
i have 1 ds - 9 months
CD - 12

ttc after 9 months of heavy bleeding with ds, waiting for ov now to get the ball rolling!

wanting any kind of beanie colour/size doesnt matter aslon as its/they are healthy!

hugs to all! xxxx

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milosmum · 13/06/2005 20:36

love & jelly babies to all- going to get ready and watch BB

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charleepeters · 13/06/2005 20:36

aww listen to me whinging about a silly bladder infection when munz your feeling bad i hope you feel better soon, remeber everyday is new and can bring new things and good things happen to good people.

Milosmum its good to here your feeling more positive and that you feel you can try again.

hugs to all xxx

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munz · 13/06/2005 20:39

cp - don't worry bout it suspect tomorrow will bring a better day (least it's DH's last night tomorrow so I won't have to put up with his moods)

MM - have I not taught u any better - BB? now realy extreame makeover home edition is the way forward. talking of which it's on in half hour so just time to get into my jarmies make a cuppa and make my bed up on the sofa to watch it!

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charleepeters · 13/06/2005 20:40

ive been guzzling down water by the pintfull and told dp no bding tonight!

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Debbsy · 13/06/2005 20:44

just dived back in again sorry to ask this but has anyone got any advice for me as im sure this is ovulation pain ive got

munz · 13/06/2005 20:46

deb - yes EWCM strechy between ur fingers is OV is about to occur/ has occured/ get BD for the next 48 hrs at least. not everyone has OV pains thou, EWCM is a sure sign thou. good luck.

Trix1 · 13/06/2005 20:47

Debbsy would you be ov as early as day 7?

Does anyone know if cm is still there after ovulation?

Tabs · 13/06/2005 21:03

Trix - CM should dry up very quickly after ov, although you do get a second oestrogen surge later in your cycle which can cause you to have some more CM then - not usually EW though.

Trix1 · 13/06/2005 21:13

Thanks Tabs that sounds about right without giving tmi its dried up.

Harrizeb · 13/06/2005 21:17

Munz {{{{hugs}}}} I hope things get a little straighter between you and DH when you talk. MM glad to hear that you are feeling brighter.

Charlee - get yourself to the doc's you can do yourself some serious damage with UTI's if they aren't treated properly. cranberry juice is another one that works well. What ever you do drink - just drink pints literally.

Tabs yes I tend to get EWCM around CD6 and asked the question about oving early and was told that you can - Debbsy get to it girl

Take care all and speak soon

H x

Debbsy · 13/06/2005 21:28

thanks munz and trix and harrizeb think im defo ovulating going to ask consultant on thurs if can ovulate early.But when iwas in hospital last year with cyst they told me ovulate v fast as i only had my period mon to weds last week oh well get to it again been bd lots anyway ( hols )

Debbsy · 13/06/2005 21:29

its definetly just like ew v stretchy sorry tmi

munz · 14/06/2005 08:44

lol @deb, thanks for that! well still no BD going on in our hosue, today DH came in from work and had a whine cos I'd asked him to make my lunch, then a whine cos I hadn't tidyed the kitchen up (it was bad but hey I don't give a crap) so then he said he want's it cleaned by tomorrow morning - do I look like his mother???? i'm so right now close to tears again and wish I could go back home to bed curl up and let the world pass me by.

am thinking of asking him to have the w/e off work, but how do u say u have to have time off so we can talk cos u're being a real crappy H right now, and i'm fed up and really depressed without making it sound like a put down as he's v sensitive about these things (i'll say xxx and he says oh right so what u're really saying is i'm xxxxx) then we both get more upset.

Frizbe · 14/06/2005 09:14

Oh Munz honey {{{{BIG HUGS}}}} and have some virtual chocky from me.....
Sounds like your both feeling down, but expressing yourselves in different ways, my guess is your dh is thinking because you've gone back to work, you've pulled yourself together and moved on, when in fact you've just gone back to keep busy and take your mind of things, as us ladies tend to? your right you guys do need to talk, is he at work all weekend? could he maybe just take a day off? or does he have to take the whole shift? Is he too tired to talk at night? had he had a bad day too and was doing the usual taking it out on our nearest n dearest?
I hope you feel a bit better soon? could you bunk off work early and treat yourself to a nice facial/massage or something? you know something nice for you?

Hula glad to see they keyboard is sorted hope your not too high on those paint fumes...

CP have you been to the docs?

Hi to all, dpo 5 or 8 here so?

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charleepeters · 14/06/2005 09:25

no not yet im finding it hard to get an appointment - but im drinking bucketfullf and feelling alot better thanks

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Frizbe · 14/06/2005 10:01

and now I have a picture in my mind of you with your head in a bucket of cranberry juice

wendy11 · 14/06/2005 10:27

Hello everyone

Having some teething problems with by BB connection so finding it hard to post

wendy11 · 14/06/2005 10:34

OK, so that worked

Munz - I am so sorry you are having such a horrible time of it. Grief hits is all in different ways and mybe your DH is just reacting to what has happened although that is no real exuse for him being horrible to you. Try and sit daown and have a good chat.

Charleepeters - hows the temps this morning. Have they gone back up again after the dip yeserday. Keep drinking the cranberry juice!

Piffle - keeping everything crossed for you

Rom - good to see you are in good form again. Keep thinking those positive thoughts and you will get there!!!

Not really sure how I feel these days. Have had lots of cramps which is probably not surprising considering all the poking and proding I have had and also feeling quite tired but I think alot of that is to do with all the lying around and resting I have been doing and therefore just needing more rest. Trying to keep positive but every now and again the doubts creep in. Deep down I don't think it has worked as I have no symptoms at all and I am now 9 days post transfer but trying desperately to banish those sort of thoughts and keep a positive frame of mind.

Really glad to be back in contac with you guys as have missed the reassurance you give

Have a good day everyone. There are too many on here now to name you all individually

munz · 14/06/2005 12:19

wend - put ur feet up and rest that's al u're to do!

Harrizeb · 14/06/2005 13:01

Hello ladies,

I got half way through posting a message and then had to go and do some work terrible really. Munz I'm so sorry things are hard for you, I like Frizbe's suggestion bunk off and do something really nice just for you. DH/DP's do think so differently to us it's hard to work them out sometimes and it might just be that he's assumed that cause your keeping busy to cope that 'you're ok'. Hope you can get to talk soon and sort things out - you need each other. xx

Wendy - there you are, I was just wondering today how you were doing and if your BB connection was giving you problems.

Hi to everyone else and fingers crossed for no AF's and lots of BFP's in the next few days. Friz fingers crossed for you.

Charlee I'm glad you're feeling a bit better, keep trying for the doc's appointment even if it's just to make sure that you're properly cleared up .

I've got myself in such a stew today over DS - so OTT emotional it's really silly, all because nursery have decided to move him to a bigger room. I need to get this off my chest but will post somewhere else.

Take care and speak soon

H x

Trix1 · 14/06/2005 13:29

Hello everyone, you might notice that I am posting much earlier in the day than usual logged on at work. Would get in serious trouble if I were to get caught but just wanted to see how you were all getting on.

Ladies those of you who know how many dpo you are how do you know is it because you are charting your temp or is it you estimating I am on day 17 so how many dpo am I - three?

Sorry if I am asking very silly questions. This is now sixth month since mc in Dec and I am now getting really fed up with waiting for a bfp.

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charleepeters · 14/06/2005 14:18

Hi ladies im v.confused i have started bleeding, not heavy but not light enough for and implantation bleed, i have no pain or anything which i always do wit af usually, so its either come 9 days easrly of something else anyone know???

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Diddle · 14/06/2005 14:21

charleepeters - have you done a pg test? very odd, maybe it will get heavier, is it fresh blood?

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charleepeters · 14/06/2005 14:22

no i havent done a pg test as im only 7 dpo, its kind of pinkish/brown not like a period at all. imnot sure what it is, i had 2 tiny spots of blood yeasterday, thats it now just seen a small bleed not alsot dont know what it is

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Frizbe · 14/06/2005 14:31

sounds like your cycles are all over the place charle? tis rather odd as you say? could well be an early af.....I reckon you should go back to the docs again.

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