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charleepeters · 06/06/2005 16:49

Well here we are on another thread and im hoping this one is a bit more lucky! welcome girls!!!

take it away!

Im Charlee (duh!)
im 18
i have 1 ds - 9 months
CD - 12

ttc after 9 months of heavy bleeding with ds, waiting for ov now to get the ball rolling!

wanting any kind of beanie colour/size doesnt matter aslon as its/they are healthy!

hugs to all! xxxx

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Hulababy · 13/06/2005 17:33

Not had chance to catch up just yet - been out all morning, and then spent last couple of hours painting the walls!!! Note to everyone - red wine takes a heck of a lot of covering with white paint! I do now have nice white walls round the computer, and the odd other place round the apartment. Thought I would do some touch ups!

And as you have probably realised I have a brand new keyboard, which is working lovely. When I turned my computer on this morning the keyboard wasn't working at all, and just kept squealing at me. When I took it off to replace it, red wine poured out of it. Ooops! Rest of computer is still a bit pink tinged though. Not tried my printer yet which did take full brunt of the spill.

Will go and catch up!

Debbsy · 13/06/2005 18:23

ha ha hula you are funny.Well ive got one for you on cd 7 definetly sure cd 7 been having ovulation pain all day always know as appendics scar starts to ache bee to loo tmi i know and i have alot of ewcm v v stretchy does that mean im ovulating now or coming up to ovulate as on hols after af on weds we have bd every single nite cept last nite as i was still tired from flight any one? as i know you lot are all v wisw and point ome in the right direction xx hi to everyone too

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charleepeters · 13/06/2005 18:57

uh oh starting ing to get cramps again

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Debbsy · 13/06/2005 19:13

dont mean to disappoint charlie does like af could be on its way unless its implantation try not to think aboutit concentrate on something else or you will drive yourself mad trust me been there umpteen times.

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charleepeters · 13/06/2005 19:26

i know Debbsy im not letting myself get my hopes up this month - no more spotting, i think i have a bladder infection so the pain may be from that will go to the dr's tomorrow.

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Debbsy · 13/06/2005 19:42

with a bladder infection you normally have an ache in your lower right side or back go the loo frequently and sometimes it can burn stomach bloat and temperature going up and down bit like fluey symptoms if blood is present it could be a uti that needs treating with antibiotics straight away as it can lead if left to pelvic infection which is v v painful.But if you have been bd v often it could also e that sometimes hope this helps drink lots of water and lemon barley if poss as its acidic and flushes out your system.

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charleepeters · 13/06/2005 19:44

I think its where ive been bding lots this month i am going to the tiolet frequently and sometimes only a dribble is coming out, if i go for a proper wee it hurts towards the end. cistitus (sp?) i think its called that you get if you bd alot.

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milosmum · 13/06/2005 19:47

charlee, if its not one thing its another you you!!!(joke) hope this whole ttc thing isnt getting you down....

i found my doctor impossed non-ttc has really helped me, i know it was a misery what happened but i think everyone could do with a break from it evry now and again....

hope evryone else is ok. i may not post now for about 2 weeks as im getting ready for my hols ( have i mentioned that already????{blush])and leave on friday... so if i dont get to check in with you all- i hope there are a few BFP wheni get back..

hugs & jelly babies to all

munz · 13/06/2005 19:48

evening girls,

charlee - drink loads of water to help flush it thru, if it is an infection, u can get it from rough BD as well. althou it's also a symptom of early PG, or so my mum tells me. fingers crossed for you either way.

hope everyone's ok, still feeling anti social here on the TTC front, and DH is really in the bad books as he's working all weekend again - for a change, so in 3 weeks i'll have seen him for a total of 1.5 days. really miffed given the present climate of our household.

munz · 13/06/2005 19:49

MM- have a nice time u two really deserve it.

((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))) i'll still be here to when u come home, so we can satrt our cautious TTC again - well that is if DH actually manages to get him bum in this house for longer than 2 hours. (when he's awake that is)

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charleepeters · 13/06/2005 19:51

thanks girls - not sure either way but will keep fingers crossed but wont get my hopes up, think its deffo Cystitus i've had it before. never with bleeding but you never know will see my g.p tomorrow.

MM - i know what you mean its the story of my life being ill!

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milosmum · 13/06/2005 19:56

how you doing munz??? not that rushing you or anything but when do you think you want to start again???

we ve decide to start again at begining of july until then just carry on. still find it hard at times as loads of mums at scholl are around 7-8mths pregnant and i have to look at them evry day and think, what if.....

but you cant live like that can you??and neither can my little ds....he actually asked me the other day when his brother was coming . we never told him i was and i think it was a really innocent question (with all the other mums being pregnant and all)it just got to me, he really wants a little play mate....

Munz just seduce dh- men very rarely refuse!!!

munz · 13/06/2005 20:02

I honestly don't know, i'm still doing the poas thing, but it's irrelavant really as I don't even want DH to touch me at the mintue, I can't stand him huggin me incase he wants more, and at the minute all I can think about it if I get PG again what's to stop me having yet another m/c? and when I was feeling favourable towards him this w/e just gone, sent him a text saying get some red bull and what did he do - came in banging about and got into bed freezing cold at 7am saying he was knackered and wanted to go to sleep, so i'm not a happy bunny with him at the mo. besides which today things are just a bad day on this front.

I was hoping to have one normaly cycle then start again (last m/c my cycles carried on as it it never happened which was odd) MRI scan on thursday so we'll see what that shows up - i'm miffed that i've got to take my tounge bar out for it bloomin cheek!

anyhow now i've depressed u all, I think i'd best tidy my dump of a house up - and that's another thing he's not bothered to tidy the house eityher has he?? aarrrrrggghh men. feeling v unloved and v taken for granted at the minute.

Trix1 · 13/06/2005 20:08

Good evening everyone, welcome to all the new comers - I feel like a real oldie now.

I have not posted for a few days had a very busy weekend - trying hard (but failing miserably) not to think so much about ttc. Its so hard. Currently on day 16 so now on to the two weeks waiting.

Congratulations to Rachelrog and Spacecadet

Sorry about the BFN to Rom, Bella & Harrizeb.

Piffle I hope you get a BFP

Debbsy · 13/06/2005 20:09

munzy if you read back to my posts when i had my mc i was the same with my dh we didnt sleep in the same bed but dare i say this its no good blaming him its not his fault and is probably v worried about you but it sounds like your not letting him in like ididnt with mine but you need each other as its happened to both of you andi felt so much better when dh gave me a kiss and hug and told me everything would be alright im here if you want to talk and i know just how you feel milos mum same for you irf you want to talk i know what you mean you feel everyones pg except you i hope you have a fab hols and hope you feel 100% better when you get back.xx

milosmum · 13/06/2005 20:10

oh munz darling ....i d love to be able to give you a huge hug and tell you it will all work out eventually.....

but you are right nothing can stop it happening again but you have to try, especially if you want all 6 of those beanies, right?????

i ll email you babes......

Trix1 · 13/06/2005 20:12

Munz - I know its so hard and it sounds like you are really going through the montions right now. Try not push dh away as I am sure he feels the same hurt that you do. Thinking of you and hope you feel better about things soon but it is so hard I know.

munz · 13/06/2005 20:15

thing is thou debs he isn't intrested any more, he was when it all happened - oh actually correction he went to work on the saturday when I really needed him and said well if the pain doesn't go away go to A&E (I waited till the monday b4 going) and now it's as if it never happened, he's back at work, we're not really talking thatmuch and generally skirting around the issues. i'm just really fed up at teh minute. the thing is as well his bosses allowed him two weeks leave at home and he said no cos I was back in work and besides which it's being jack on someone else and rueinin their w/e - WTF??? what about me? I know he does care and I know he's upset and all, but it's like ok then 2 days of comfort and now back to normal. I don't knwo - UURRRGHHHH bloody men, I wouldn't sleep in the spare room either! he can, lol, althou at the minute as I get up he goes to bed, and when I come in from work he goes out to work.

munz · 13/06/2005 20:15

girls - u started me off again!

Debbsy · 13/06/2005 20:16

((((( MUNZY MILOSMUM))))) HUGE HUGS

milosmum · 13/06/2005 20:21

munz- men are all meanies!!! they just hide their feelings, he probably feels thats the only way he can deal with it! i can really talk i went back to work while i was still miscarrying as i just could bare being at home and having to deal with it, and as i work in a call centre it gave me 4 hrs each day where i did nt have to.

maybe he feels the same......

big hugs babe!

munz · 13/06/2005 20:24

I know hon i'm the same I was workin on the friday when it all started then went in on the monday b4 my DR's apt's, it's how we seem to deal with things best, i'm sure he'd be really upset if he knew how I was feeling deep down cos he can't make things better for me. I guess we'll ahve to have a chat on thursday/ Friday evening

how r things ur end?

Hulababy · 13/06/2005 20:25

So sorry for you both munz and milosmum Wish there was more we could do to help right now.

milosmum · 13/06/2005 20:30

im doing well, ive sent you an email- hopefully that will make you smile!.

just got to carry on havent you... hubby "gently" asked lst night if i was "ready" as he didnt want to push... not sure what ready is???on the one hand i want to as i aint gonna get pregnant any other way but on the other worried sick if i get pregnant its gonna happen again- but they do say 3rd time lucky, so who knows- fell asleep after Big Brother anyhow.....

in some ways i dont think the men feel t as much as its not real for them really until the baby arrives, whereas we feel it from virtually day one...i love having you guys though, it is a real comfort having people who are going through the same thing..

munz · 13/06/2005 20:34

backatcha hon. it's good you're all here, well we're all here for each other, i'd go mad if it wasn't for you lot! ((((((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))) to everyone.

that's it really isn't it how do u know u're ready again? I want to start back on the wheel as u say no other way to get pg - and also you're suppost to fall quickly again straight after. I was once told that it's written when we're born when we're going to have children and nothing we can do about it, just have to wait and leave it upto fate. not sure if I believe that or not?

anyhow the little kiddies of the estate have just been knocking on the door for their cakes for the open day up at camp on sat/sun so it's safe for me to go back down now (no cakes to eat so it's ok!) lol.

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