The Hut of Gl/Doom... Please don't ask about our reproductive plans as a smack round the head with TCOYF often offends

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new thread.

for those who are having problems getting pg

or staying pg

or are simply fed up of being told to relax and having to smile and say "you never know"

lol, i was so sure this month, suppose the first response devil tricked me again.

oh lissie .

Well I am getting resigned for the inevitable now. HCG from 1024 to 842 over 2 days. It is slowly reducing, not at normal rate, just to annoy me further. I have to have another blood test on monday. In the meantime I have major headache and feel sick, and very low generally. So glad I have somewhere to come to here.

rainbows, im so sorry. it must be tortuous.

Rainbows, that slow decrease must be so dreadful
Feeling low because of what's happened
Feeling tired and sick due to bhcg
And just wanting to get back to normal
Support from me

Oh Lissie (()) xx

oh Lissie i am sorry.
I few familar faces here. Hi Rainbow sorry your having a crappy time. Its rubbish isnt it I havent even had any bleeding yet just waiting and waiting and it doing my head. Really know what you mean about getting back to normal. Just wish the last few months hadnt happened at all. To top it all have just noticed my neighbour is pg again and her ds is only just 1.

Cedar - my bleeding stopped a week ago, when I had the scan that showed the sac still there. So I can really empathise how you feel right now too. When are you having another scan/blood tests?

DarrellRivers and all you wonderful people - thank you. It really helps knowing someone understands.

So sorry you going through all this to rainbow. I really hope you can get back to some sort of normality soon.
No more scan etc the clinic said they can refer me for a d&c if I want, but would rather not to many bad memory at the hospital I would have to have it at. Look after your self.

Hey, ladies. Have just pointed a friend who is struggling in the direction of this thread. Hopefully you should see her soon.

Welcome to new Huttees. Hope your stay is not too long. This is the place to be when you need it though.

Sorry about the miscarriage, Rainbow. They really suck.

Lissie, annie, how goes it?

Shrek- am pg, 31 weeks. Complete effing miracle. Still can't get my head round it. Won't believe it till it's here and healthy.

hello all, duchesse - good to see you, 31w!!! thats getting close.

rainbow, cedar silly question, but how are you doing?

well, think period is on its way. am v bummed out. really thought this might be it. just waiting now...

Oh, bad luck, chicken.

How many months' worth of Clomid will they prescribe?

i have 2m worth at 100mg or another 4m worth of 50mg. follow up appointment at clinic in sept and will discuss options then. they only like to prescribe 6m before making IVF sounds, in which instance we are screwed. cant get funding because we have ds and cant afford private.

Lissie - did the old witch make her unwelcome appearance then.

I am all over the place emotionally, mentally and physically. I still feel sooo pregnant and it is not fair. I just want to be able to move on mentally and physically and I can't. Emotionally I am very depressed, I am dragging myself out of bed and functioning, but that is about it. I know I should not be feeling like this, I have 3 wonderful children, and love them to bits, and to many it must seem like pure greed that I feel that I won't be complete without the 4th. But I am sorry it is just the way I feel and after 3 miscarriages in the last year I am running out of time. Ok I am only 41 but I know from the miscarriages that my eggs are now shot to pieces. So all I can do is pull myself together, and try again with the vague hope that there might just be a good egg amongst the bad.

oh rainbow, its totally understandable that you feel all over the place. were you offered a d&c? you are not being selfish and ikwym about being unable to give up x

still no period. pissed off, just want the next month to start so i dont feel so crap. i was so sure that this was the month.

How are you this morning Lissie ?

im ok thanks. no period yet, so have to wait and see. if nothing tomorrow will get another HPT and try again. how are you?

I'm good thanks

Are you feeling like the witch is on her way or still feeling pg ?

not sure. don't feel like my period is coming tbh. i normally feel kind of full right before it starts but none of that. however, your cycle can change on clomid.

When is it due, yesterday way it ?

yes, yesterday. i have definately ovulated and it was around CD14 (i thought 13, but continued getting pangs up to CD17) i had lots of eggs (joke is i was advised not to try this month because there were too many) and i treally thought that one of them had stuck!

Maybe one of them has

Did you test again after the initial bfn ?

How have you felt with the clomid in general ? i have heard it can make you feel a bit shit.

worzel, tested yesterday and bfn, but with FR which has always been a bit funny for me. will wait a few more days then try with a CB. the clomid has been ok(ish) mood swings have been bad. woke dh up to rant about him going to the pub 4y ago and cried at m&s ads 2x had hot flushes from CD4-CD7 and headache CD2-CD5 but got 5 lovely eggs from it, so embraced the crap part.

Lol at cying at M&S adds ! which ones exactly ?