The Hut of Gl/Doom... Please don't ask about our reproductive plans as a smack round the head with TCOYF often offends

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new thread.

for those who are having problems getting pg

or staying pg

or are simply fed up of being told to relax and having to smile and say "you never know"

Well....LMP EDD is 22/12, MW says 24/12. Whenever near Xmas it is then

It's the hard part isnt it.

congrats scorpio

I'm good thanks Lissie, relieved my exams are over but getting a bit down about this whole conception business. I know we've only been trying for six months but I have a horrible feeling it's just not going to happen. Got my period on Saturday and I was so upset, could have done with camping out in the hut with you guys for a while.

Anyhow, DH is going to the docs tomorrow about a lump on his leg and I'm going to try to persuade him to ask the doc for tests at the same time - because he had a tortion on his testicle when he was younger there is a possibility that it damaged something down there and if that's the case I think I'd rather know now than later on IYSWIM.

Sorry everyone else for butting in again.

wow scorpio, thats fab.

PL, sounds sensible. is your gp sympathetic? ps, you are always welcome in the hut.

Thanks Lissie, I may just come and hang out every now and again.

Lissie - , great to hear you got a BF-WTF!!!! look forward to hearing more soon.

thanks annie, uti's are v common in early pg, any joy with an early scan? may reassure you.

ps, are you on facebook? have asked before i think... if you are please add me. im lissie and surname is well known mountain dwelling family with a son called john boy!

Lissie

Hello Scorpio and Worzel - not seen you for ages.

I have been asked twice today when I will be having children. Think I might just stop going out and speaking to people.

Anniemac - sorry to hear you have a uti to deal with now too. remember to drink loads of cranberry juice..... (yukky though it is!)

Lissie - I have cheekily asked to be a friend on fb!!!! I know the message was not for me, but since I was on there anyway I did!

can i add you to my facebook ?

when you said "mountin dwelling family" my brain scremed YETIS.

Annie sorry to hear you have a UTI too, they are horrible.

Are you nearly 7 weeks now ?

lol anyone can add me!! its nice to be wanted

Oddly i cant find you

I didn't put Lissie Yeti either !

worzel - I found her quite quickly, she looks just like I imagined she would. There is only one of her on fb but perhaps you were thinking of a different mountain family....?????

Sorry I am in a positive frame of mind at the moment. That although logically I know it is only a matter of time before the docs can say I told you so, until then, I am pg and will allow myself to dream of the impossible and live like things will be ok. when the inevitable happens then I will deal with the emotional fallout, but not til then.

worzel, im from the west midlands. am also on the mumsnet fb page.

rainbow, theres nothing wrong with hoping. sometimes its all you can do!

I'm one of Lissie's friends on FB and my initials are CVT - feel free to add me.

Lissie - thank you, hoping is all I can do right now. I have an extra piece of hope for you too.

I just went to my bookshelf to find a trashy novel to distract myself, and found a book I had forgotten was there but has an excellent title that fits just where I am at presently it is called "Pain is inevitable but misery is optional: so, Stick a Geranium in your hat and Be Happy". So that is where I am at!!!

lol red.

rainbow, good title!

i definately feel pg, all the signs are there, but the waiting drives me insane. and i hate the knowledge that even if when i get a proper bfp i can't really relax.

I am lissies friend on FB too - I'm Stephanie C.

hows everyone doing today?

tested today, bfn. oh well, back to the drawing board i suppose (although period not due til mon)

Lissie
although you never know,
it is a strange strange business this TTC (although strange when it happens to others, never to me )