emmsy's onwards and upwards part 2, more good new please!

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Right here we go again!

So far we have been lucky on this thread so lets stick together for all you oldies! until we all get our precious babies.

Here's to the next chapter in our special journey, onwards and upwards

I'm still trying to catch up but just read blues post and I'm so happy for you, there are a few tears of joy up here, well done girlie. Now back to catch up.......

hey mermaid no this is not a windup. its just that most of the women on my street are now PG and most of them don't deserve kids becos they are drugs ect. and then there's people like me and my DP that have been try for them for what seems like 4eva.
and yes you probably would say that but i am really ready to have a baby and i would rather be a young mum than an older one tbh. i am not a going out person i never have been. and i am acctully ahead of everyone else at my college course.

Mermaid you took the words right out of my mouth. I totally back up what you just said to Kay Blue what very good news, congratulations. It certainly looks like this is a lucky thread, perhaps your words on Sunday to the big man himself helped after all.

Neeko are you around? Have you started (non) symptom spotting yet? Well I have sore boobs & a heavy feeling in my groin - let the 2ww rollercoaster begin!!

look it seems to me like everyone is just being bitchy towards me and i dont think i should put up with it. so what if i am young its my choice to have a baby and i am not going to stop TTC. it just seems like everyone on here hates me when you don't even know me.

Wow, that took ages!!!
blue I am still smiling here
mm hello, welcome back, I have sooooo missed you, glad you are ttc now. We were going to wait an extra month but somehow it felt right when we did it and now I'll be 21 weeks tomorrow
sabs and mermaid I am feeling so much better now, I do think the hormones just highlight what I normally feel after seeing friends and family and make it worse.
sabs first you'll feel little flutters and you won't know if it's baby or wind , but you'll recognise kicks, I got them at 22 weeks with ds and 20 weeks this time for definate.
lion good luck tomorrow, I will be thinking of you.
scorpio glad to see you back and love your pics.
bakingqueen what a hard job you do, you are so very strong, good on ya.
barbie hi your time will come.
vm if you are out there, hello

Well I was back to work today and I got so many comments about how big I am!! Fab aint it

Kay if you are not happy with your choice of thread and aren't getting on well with the people on it then maybe it isn't the thread for you. This is a thread for people recovering from miscarriages and we are mostly about twice your age. Maybe a thread with younger people on it would be more suited to your needs.

As I said Kay - you are not behaving as people expect you to behave on a forum such as this, which is making people suspicious. Nobody is setting out to be nasty - no, we don't know you, but you've joined how many conception threads ? On how many of those threads have you actually bothered to read back, find out what the thread is all about and who the people are ? How many personal messages have you posted rather than just cutting and pasting everywhere as if you really don't care who you are talking to, as long as somebody takes notice of you.

You give aswell as take on this forum. I would STRONGLY advise you to find a thread that contains some younger people and stick to just one or two threads that are appropriate for your circumstances.

This is not said with malice or any intention to upset you

kay what does your own mum think? we are just being maternal. I have nieces your age and if I heard any of them talking like you I would give them the same advice.

&%£$£$^%@~#';

Kay, this is a thread for women after loosing their babies. You don't seem to acknowledge that.

TBH i think your age will go against you on here; you ARE young to be ttc and being on a college course is not enough to provide for a baby.

I had a baby at your age; it is only because of my husband being a wonderful man that i am doing as well as i am. It is a struggle at any age (we all know that) and i think that living a bit of life first, money house and getting married is a brilliant start to ttc.

Hope this comes across OK - trust me, i know.

Mermaid & Jools well done for being straight up to Kay...

Sorry Kay hon but as said us women on this particular thread are in our thirties+ mostly & are supporting each other after mc & for ttc after mc...

I think you should just start your own thread about teenagers ttc, although I do feel you have to live your life first before you can give a new life an educated start! You say you've been ttc for ages, but I have friends & also read about woman that have been trying for 7-10 years, that would of made you between 6 or 9 when they started trying so try and get some perspective! Sorry if we come across a bit harsh, but each one of us our own story....

Good luck in wherever life takes you hon... Enjoy being 16!

speak for yourselves ladies I'm 24

Kay - your response is just proving our point.

I am tempted to say bothered...
I think what we are missing is that kay did lose a baby hence she needs like we all have the need to replace it, we all know that feeling.

Vjay I'm really pleased to hear you are feeling brighter today. We still want to see a bump picture!!

Lion I've got a spare hand if you want to hold it tomorrow.

Kate how was the wedding dress fitting??

MLS I'm thinking I might start doing the temperature thingy next month, where did you post the link to the chart?

Thanks gracie my camera isn't working at the moment I think the size of me broke it

Am off to the gym soon (after having done NO work today cos of MNet

So, just wanted to make sure I wished Lionstar good luck for tomorrow - will be thinking of you x x x

Vjay

take it easy jools like you said, listen to your body xxxxx

come on vjay before that bump wont fit in the camera screen I can't believe you are 21 weeks, I'll be saying daft auntiemermaid anectdotes(sp) right up to your edd! Glad you are feeling better.x

gracie I got sent a chart with mine, but I guess you have a cupboard of them, squeezed in beside the booze

mls have you got those symptons already? ohh here comes the 2ww worry.

4ever it must be weird this month for you? But weird with a big happy ending

Well my body is trying to tell me it needs to eat every hour on the hour and it has to be food that contains choc !!

I'm not sure I believe it

Am trying to resist today as am sure it is all in my head. Might start a thread in pregnancy re healthy diet / calories etc cos I'm so used to dieting, I'm struggling to eat real food - keep thinking I'm eating too much - around 800 calories so far today I think and I have leftover chinese takeaway at home !

yes you did all miss it.
i have lost 2 babys.
the first was when i was forced to have an abortion in 2007.
the second was when i had a MC this january.

thankQ for all your kind words.

jools you must eat everything your body is telling you too! With my ds I just had to eat a coconut everyday, place was littered with shells. Can't touch one since.
your baby, I think I am right will take what it needs from you regardless.
still grinning for all you big pants and nearly big pants ladies.x

Yea go easy Jools! I'd stick to CV & toning only, no weights or anything!!!

Yes Vjay we wants a picture!

...and militantmermaid is back!

Wheres Barbie today - asleep on that sunlounger after an early cocktail or are you just enjoying your new liquor licence?! Wah hey!

Lion sweetheart, holding your hand for tomorrow - is it another 2 week wait for results once its done? God we all so need a tardis for all this hellish waiting we have to do!

MM really is good to have you back, you nttc naughty lady!

Nice to see you again too Scorpio thanks agai for being a sweetheart the other day...

Gracie will be joining you on Dr MLS flowchart thingy cos we will have 3 months ttc after treatment just as my cycles gone from a clockwork 28 to 30 to 32 to who knows?!?!?

Have to say another very excited YYAAAAAAAAAAAAY to Blue, Jools and Mollie!

Big waves to MLS Sabs Annie Bakingqueen Babyinthecorner Neeko and anyone else I've not got to say a proper hi too today! Gosh 4 days off & another 4 to catch up! PHEW! Have a good evening all! xxxxxxxxxxxx

im here girls....just taking a step back because like you all i was thinking troll with regards to kay only because i had seen all the other messages on the other forums, i kind of made me uneasy

Also v v v pissed off, just been on facebook and one of the girls i had working for me told me she had a mc in sept so i gave her time off from work, it was unplanned and she was happy she didnt HAVE to have a baby a month later she tells me she is pregnant again....a week later after turing up for work late a few times she claims another mc, again unplanned pregnancy. Well now she is on facebook saying she is 4 months pregnant im angry because she most be the most fertile person ever and also she lied to me in the last month i was her boss claiming to be devestated about mc and needing time off etc etc i even let her go to the carribean for 2 weeks at xmas while we all picked up the extra shifts!