Emmsy's onwards and upwards! xxx

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For all of us who have shared so much, tears, hopes, laughter and dreams. May our friendships stay strong and as healthy as we all our.
Here is to our happy ending...we deserve it
Love Barbie x

4ever still no news???? grrrrrr if i wasnt in dubai i would phone them for you and give the silly bitch a piece of my mind! if i were you i would write a strongly worded email to her explaining that she should pull her finger out of her ass and do her job as it should be done...want me to write it for you?

here goes....

Dear silly bitch of a receptionist

I understand i might not be as important to you as you reapplying your lipstick at your desk but you really should pull your finger out of your ass and keep on top of your work, may i suggest to you to buy a filofax and a pen to write notes and reminders since you have such trouble in remember what and when you said things! Asda do a cheaper version if you perfer....
I want the doctor to call me now, not tomorrow, not in a week but now just like you promised me he would. Now be a dear and get off your fat ass and ask him to call me

any good {grin]

by the way the car isnt like you imagen a barbie to have..,its one of these fj cruiser but ours is all black with glitterry paint work...its my barbiemobile! its even got tv in the back of the seats so i can play barbie music to the passengers...

jools you *are pregnant! i told you and its a boy! i just know these things!!!!

i need advice, +ve on opk stick last tues, last af 19th of march...today lots and lots of cm...tinted slighly brown? lots of strange pulling feelings in belly...i found this after the gym just now just like jools!

had headache for a few days, felt sick while waiting for the car (which we couldnt take away today, back tomorrow grrr)
and felt quesy yesterday, is it too soon for af??? im going bloody mad!!!

Barbie - sounds like you are Pregnant too - just maybe

And - I'm hoping for twins - one of each Am knocking on the door of 40, so want to crack on !!!

Tis going to be a long wait till Sat...

jools dont you just love our positive thoughts???

whoops, big hello to the newbies! i didnt even see your posts! im so angry about 4evers wait! sorry and welcome!!!!

jools was your bleed red or brown?? what are your pains like??

TMI probably coming up but ....

It was like creamy cm but kind of rust coloured - as if it had been coloured by some pinky brown blood ?

Pains - like mild period pains and sometimes a passing stitch like pain. Doing abdominal crunches at the gym seemed to kick it off stronger, with the definite feeling that my tum doesn't want to be squashed - abdomen feels tender and a bit bloated

Last time, I had no cramps - just a poking sensation near the belly button, oh and hot, fizzy boobs !

barbiebattleaxeoutofmywayI'minatank1
they will take notice of us arriving in that!
I think we had better keep our fingers crossed for you on your 2ww, it sounds promising....

bakingqueen hello I think our bodies need at least an af to arrive. The drs say this cos they can date the next little bean but I think emotionally and physically you need that ol af to come and let your body adjust. Its good to get back in the saddle so to speak but mc had a dreadful way of coming up behind us and bopping us on the head. If you are anything like me though you will turn your drawer into a scientific testing station

babyinacorner sticky thoughts and welcomes to you too, I am running out of crossed fingers.x
4ever spect you've stomped gone home. I am so sorry that you have this extra stress and my heels are now killing me, so can we have jelly and ice-cream now, pleassssee?

jools doing abdominal crunches? my god woman I am taking away your white coat and giving you a superduper pumping iron jumpsuit

Mermaid - I've been doing average 6 gym classes per day since the MC (and before the last BFP). I think the frenzy in the last 2 weeks has been the desire to fit in as much diet / exercise / weight loss as possible, just in case I have to tone things down to look after a growing bean

I was going to do another 6 classes over the Easter weekend, but am not sure if I should now Am really really enjoying the effect the diet has on developing a higher level of fitness

Hello and welcome bakingqueen and babyinacorner pull up a bean bag each and get comfy.

4ever I've been meaning to offer to join your Charlies Angels, put it this way, one look at me and you'll get your answers cos they'll be so frightened I might sit on them
barbie will we all fit in your barbiemobile? You may need a trailer on the back for me!

Wow jools you do work hard, you're making me feel even bigger.
Someone asked me today when I was due! I said I was half way today, they couldn't hide their look of suprise quick enough

Hmm mysticbarbie it is! Id just sent an e-mail wierdly enough! Not quite worded like yours but similar! Maybe I may actually gety an answer now?!?!?

So, I think you and Jools maybe preggers! How exciting - how long til AF?

Course you are part of the Charlies Angels militant stylee in the Barbiemobile Vjay! Oh this sounds like so much fun! Mermaid we'll do jelly & ice cream first just for you!

Welcome bakingqueen and babyinthecorner Love your names! Sorry we are all a bit ranting and crazed today (most days actually but its a great distraction from RL misery!)

Going home now so love you all lots & keep the hair flicked and the heels on for when Barbie actually gets the Barbiemobile tomorrow, its a long drive from Dubai! xxxxxxxxxxx

Welcome to the beach hut bakingqueen & babyinacorner - crikey I'm shattered just reading about all that bd'ing girl! I wish my dh was up for it that much!

I think we have all tried to get pregnant pretty as much as soon as our mc have finished with varying degrees of success. Oh yeah & a mc does have an effect on opk's, it can give you a false positive. Make sure you have a neg hpt before you start doing the opk's again.

I still have a sense of nervous anticipation about us all for this month - especially for you two Jools & Barbie, arrggg this is so excitng!

I went out & bought two pairs of skinny jeans today but listening all about Jools excercise is making me feel like a fat lazy slug!

Mummylovessadie - that amount of bd'ing was a rare, rare event I can tell you! (it took great reserves of mental strength on my part

bed time for me now girls...i love waking up in the morning knowing i have to catch up! ....

jools mine to the same too, the cm i mean...bit more browny then pink though. Maybe its my af? anyway we will know soon

Night night. hugs from me.

xx

Good night Barbie, hope your nighttime sees you incubating a lovely little baby-bean.

Thank you all for your welcomes and advice maybe I need to wait for af but the wait seems so long esp as hospital were so unhelpful and did not give me any idea how long it would take to come! Maybe it would give my dh a rest as well to wait as since bleeding stopped hes been expected to bd every other night, he now has a wary look on his face everytime I come to bed maybe he needs a few nights rest! Mermaidspurse you were right our bathroom cabinet does look like a science lab with the opk sticks I bulk bought in boots the day I found out about my mc. Hope you get some good news barbie got my fingers crossed for you and all of us trying

bakingqueen I know this bit seems to take forever & all you want to do is move on & try again. Lol at your description of dh with a wary look - I'm imagining him like a little puppy being cornered in the bed while you - the German Shepherd with the wild eyes are getting ready to pounce!

Top tip - buy all of your opk's & hpt's from ebay, that way it won't just be your bathroom cabinet stuffed full of them but your underwear drawer & the space under your bed too!

Thank you for the lovely messages girls
Happy Birthday to Curly & Sabs 4ever I am so at the confusion and stress all this misinformation is causing you, really hope you get some answers although I think you should have sent Barbies email
LBM How is the symptom spotting going?
Jools I am convinced you are pg! All your symptoms sound spot on, I so hope you are going to get a BFP this month too! I agree with the telling who you will need support from me, my bosses know already as they sent me home Monday, 2 of my closest friends at work I've told as I know I will wobble lots over the coming weeks. The only thing I feel bad about is that people get so excited and then so upset when you m/c I feel really guilty getting their hopes up each time
Barbie You made me cry, you witch (dh is not looking forward to hormonal crying Mollie) Thank you so so much for thinking of me and talking to your doctor about me, that was such a kind and thoughtful thing to do and if you were here or I was there you would get such a squeeze Love the idea of the sweepstake MysticBarbie Oh my your symptoms sound extremely hopeful like Jools I am so excited for you both!!!!
Vjay Ouch really hope this one is smaller than your ds! Can't believe we'll find out the flavour in 2 weeks
Neeko That definately put me off
Hello and welcome to Bakingqueen & Babyinacorner so sorry to hear of your experiences but so long as your slightly mad you'll fit right in

Big waves to everyone else

Welcome to Bakingqueen and babyinacorner Sounds like you're in the right place here. I'm also desperately BDing despite still not having AF since miscarriage. It's very frustrating and I wish AF would just come since none of my numerous htps have been positive. I bulk bought from babymad.com and they shout to me from the cupboard!
MLS I really hope you're right. Wouldn't it be crazy if we all got lucky this month? Perhaps you should try taking advantage of DH while hes sleeping?!
Barbie and Jools it sounds to me like you're both already there. Hope I'm right!
4ever I hope tomorrow's your day for news. Doesn't the doctor know theres about 20 of us waiting?! [we really need a foot-stamping impatient emoticon]
Hope everyone else has had a good day.

Meant to say that I read today that both partners need decent levels of selenium to prevent MC. 2 brazil nuts a day cover it and I'm sure chocolate covered ones will count!
Hi Mollie Glad your bean's still hanging in there. Do you have a due date yet?

Neeko if I tried to take advantage of dh in the middle of the night he would freak & complain about how he has to get up early in the morning!

Have you started doing your temps at all? My 1st ov after mc took me by surprise & I wouldn't have known about it if I hadn't be taking my temps.

No haven't started but have been thinking about it. Often have to jump up in the morning when DD cries so don't know if it would work? Do you really find it helps? This whole thing is just so frustrating!!!

Yes I really find it helps, I have the same problem as you with my dd waking up. Dh's alarm goes off at 6 & I sometimes take it then but I'm usually awake before then thinking 'Crap must do my temp before dd or dh wakes up'!

Its a bit of an inconvenience as you have to do it before you do anything, even speak or have a drink but it's so worth it.