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[romilly]

i am very honoured to start the april first thread (thanks george ) for the TTC for the cautious girls! (and not forgetting the blondes, dramaqueen )...and anyone else who like to join us.

please start with quick stats so we know where you're at, thanks

rom 38 yrs old
ttc no. 1
cycle 3 (after m/c end. dec 04)
CD9
uses temps/persona

Morning all ladies.
Thanks for all your lovely words of support, it really helps you know It really helps to hear that it will happen as in my low moments I start wondering if it won't!
Right DH and I have talked it over and we are going to try a different approach this month. We are going to just go for it over 3 days of ovulation and not for the whole week as we have done before. Surely determination has to pay off at some point!!!!!
Bev - any sign of AF ? Have you tested again?

Rom - come on girl....you've got to next this month, keeping everything crossed for you girl!

Hulababy - sorry about AF but as you say right on with the next attempt! Let it be us next month

thanks girls for your support, well still no AF (got my day wrong thou should be here late today or tomorrow) had slight bleeding on the tissue yesterday morning and sunday night. DH is all excited thinking we've made it, did a test this morning but it was a BFN, will wait and see I think i'll try an expensive test on thursday if AF hasn't shown up. still sleeping/eating loads althou i'm not hopeful at all. we'll see, the MIL is v hopeful as well bless her, she's really rooting for us and tellingme not to give up, if we're not PG next cycle is unlikely as well so I think i'll be just BD whenever due to this whole xray thingy.

Good morning ladies
Still no af, but although it was due yesterday according to ov on day 11, I have got some crampy pains and when I went to the toilet earlier today I noticed a spot of blood on the tissue. Not holding out much hope and starting to feel really disappointed already. I just know it hasnt happened. DH doesnt think it will happen without any professional help now so we are doing all we can. Had my blood test, he had his sperm test, although quanity and quality good, motility a little on the low side but not to the extent that it should affect us getting pg. Doctor has written off for me to have my tubes checked, so apart from that, we are just plodding on. I am sure it is the stress with me, I hope I havent stressed too much this month to delay af too much as just want to get on and start trying again.
Bev

Morning Ladies I have still been quietly lurking but not posting on here so much as was feeling really fed up with the whole ttc thing.

I went back to tthe IVF clinic on friday and the surgery I need is apparently too complicated for any of the surgeons to do I need to loose a buit of weight and then have IVF after my wedding in September. Had a complete blowout girls weekend figuring my diet would start today, got really drunk on saturday ate nothing but junk food etc. All my intentions for today were good.

AF was late but as Doctor said on friday it was a miracle you got PG last time it will not be happening again without IVF. Well guess how wrong they all are. My friend made me do a test yesterday in Tesco's toilet I got my first BFP. Have now done five test they are all BFP . Still in a state of shock and am at the doctors at 4pm to do the official test.

Stupid doctors what do they know

Hi All,

busy weekend again - sorry for all those with BFN's and AF

I am on CD13 but no sign of O yet, didn't O til CD17-ish last cycle.

After being all proud of how well I coped with my m/m/c in February, I had a horrible down weekend which totally took me by surprise...MIL doing lots of knitting for SIL who has same due date as I did, plus colleague off on mat leave...jeez! Didn't see it coming at all!

Feel much better today though .

Sorry you had a bad weekend Tuech it's difficult sometimes. The friend I spent the weekend with is eight months pregnant and it was hard going sometimes.

excellent news dyzzidi...see, this thread REALLY works!

WOW Dyzzidi - FANTASTIC NEWS !!!
Bloody doctor - bet you can't wait to show him your BFP !!!!!!!!!!

Dyz, that is amazing news.
Huge congratulations to you.
Hope you have a healthy, happy 8 months ahead of you.
(Still working hard on the orders then Rom??)

Teuch - hang in there love, totally know how you feel, somedays its just overwhelming!
Just part of the rollercoaster I am afraid!

Dyzzidi - can you refresh me of how long you've been TTC. Sorry just kinda helps us girls still waiting in limbo land!

Morning Ladies!
Hope you all had a good bank holiday!
Dyz - Congrats, that great news!
Sorry to you all that AF showed up and BFN.
Still no sign of AF for me yet! Getting really fed up, it should be here by now! Cramps have gone now and no back ache so am wonderin where the hell AF is!

Bella have been ttc for about two and a half years although doctors said impossible without IVF. Have been waiting for surgery since Jan to help IVF but was told on Friday it was too complicated to operate none of the surgeons were able to complete it. I had a m/mc in September at 12 weeks. and a BFP yesterday!

I have been told it was a miracle i concieved last time so don't bother trying without IVF!!!

Just hoping things go OK for this pregnancy as am really anxious already. My GP is brilliant and has asked me to come in today for a chat with him!

Dyzzidi - WOW girl well done then now I've seen your Stats!!
Totally gives us girls the hope and faith that we need!
I am sure the doctor will give you the reassurance you need xx

that is great news dyzz - just great!!!!!!!!!!!

that has cheered me up no end, so you see wendy - it can be done...

bella - hope you are feeling a little brighter today, start that countdown to 0 day hon!

teuch - sorry you had a bad weekend. better week ahead hopefully

munz - everything crossed still for you girl.

hi hula - good to see you back!

spacecadet - i think you should use OPK's - just takes out the guesswork IYKWIM. we'll soon have you converted on this thread, LOL.

yes george - i am most certainly keeping an eye on the orders

Dyzzidi - CONGRATULATIONS. Take care of yourself and I am sure the Dr will be able to give you some reassurance today. You have given me hope!

Catch up with the rest of the fantastic ladies on this thread later on

hmmm fertility friend has now changed its mind since i put todays temp. in. havent had that before! it now agrees with what i thought all along and has moved the O day to a day later. never seen ff being indecisive before!

where can i get fertility friend for and how much?

well done dyzz- got any spare babydust????

fostermum- go to fertilityfriend.com- its FREE and FAB!!! good luck

aww dyzzz am soo delighted for u hun huge hugs...yayyyy

here fostermum

Yeahhhhhh well done dizzidi go girl!

Ok so I have been to the doctors and I saw the Locum who could barely speak english. I am with the midwife on Friday and should be sent for an early scan very soon after.

Still scared to death but things are moving along.

Thanks for all your support and I am counting on you to join me in the January thread.

Babydust to all x x x xx

excuse me my daughter posted on my name im a bit past the whole having baby bit lol so charleepeters use your own name

Dyzz - good news on an earlt scan, so pleased yout time has finaly come!

Rom - how are you feeling? Any imaginary symptoms yet?

LottieLou - mmmmm....no AF yet? Well hope she's round the corner or there is a good reason she's not showing

Well looks like its back to the drawing board for me, think i shall book another reflexology session as thoroughly enjoyed the last one. I think I need it to keep me positive

Hope everyone is having a good evening xx