Still here and now hoping for a OCTOBER baby!!! Everyone welcome please join me :)

[bubblebell1]

Af finally arrived so if this was my lucky month then i would be due in Oct.

Bubblebell1 ttc#3 ucl 30 cd1

Please come and join me add yourselves to the list We can try and keep each other sane

Eeyore ttc#1 cycle1 cd47
MintChocAddict ttc#2 cycle 7 CD25
Mensareject ttc#3 cycle1 cd22
dancingqueeen ttc#1 cycle 2 CD20
Mummyto2littleangels ttc#3 cycle 1 cd20
Girlwithacurl ttc#1 cycle 10 CD19
Idreamofbeanie ttc#1 cycle 2 CD18
theboob ttc#4 cycle 1 CD18
earlynite ttc#2 cycle1 CD18
Rubybuckleberry ttc#1 cycle 4 CD 17
WaitingforaSproglettoFall ttc#1 cycle1 CD14
mrsdisorganised ttc#5 cycle 5 CD13
Homeinthesun ttc#2 cycle 4 CD12
FifiOK ttc#3 cycle 7 CD11
JeanieG ttc#4 cycle2 CD11
Hobnobfanatic ttc#2 cycle 2 CD11
pinkie08 ttc#2 cycle12 CD10
Warmseabreeze ttc#? cycle 7 CD10
DevilsAdvocaat ttc#2 cycle? CD10
Bubblebell1 ttc#3 cycle 2 CD8
Amanda12 ttc#4 cycle1 CD8
1littleprincess ttc#2 cycle7 CD8
WizzyWoo ttc#2 cycle 1 CD7
iggypiggy ttc#1 cycle 4 CD6
Fatandiknowit ttc#1 cycle1 CD6
Ralphie0596 ttc#1 cycle1 CD5
Mosschops30 ttc#3 cycle2 cd4
Andi0411 ttc#2 cycle1 cd4
Joy27 ttc#1 cycle6 cd2
Jumpingjellyfish ttc#3 cycle8 cd1

Littlemiss26 ttc#2 cycle 1 CD?
Pavlovthecat ttc#2 cycle? cd?

GRADUATES

StealthPolarBear

Got a bit confused with CD, apparently I'm on CD13 not 8 Updated list.

So... (warning, long post)...I had noticed a slightly strange feeling and more than usual cm (sorry if tmi). So just on the offchance I did an opk test and it came up with a positive smiley face sign. So it seems like I might finally be about to ovulate, on CD48. I had given up on the idea of ovulating this cycle, because I had a positive OPK on CD15 which never materialised into a temp shift or an AF, and I got a BFP when I tested at CD35. But the really annoying news is that I am about to depart on a business trip for the next three days, leaving at 5am tomorrow morning. So I will have to try to get in lots of BD this evening and then cross my fingers. Plus it might end up being another red herring like the one on CD15. Sorry if I've bored you all, just wanted to get it off my chest!

Hi ladies thanks for the welcome. I am on cd4 today but I'm really not even sure if this is a 'proper' af as I had a chemical pg but I'm going to treat it as such. Have been in bed most of week-end as bleeding was quite painful and my af's are normally painless....Bleeding stoppped today so I'm going to aim for pestering my other half every 2 days from cd6 to cd 20- that should cover it for me in a regular 27-28 day cycle. Poor man...
I am also NOT going to test early as this chemical pg has been such a heart-break. I want to be 'late' and then take it from there.
How's everyone else feeling today?

hi andi, i have no experience of a cp. i dont even know what it is. i thought you were either pregnant or not. maybe you should see the dr. i do hope this month has better luck for you.

eeyore, that's so annoying. Definely bd tonight, and any time in the morning?

Hello everyone, Have updated the list as I think one of our graduates had dropped off the bottom and I should be on CD12. With 36 of us on the list now I'm buying shares in Mothercare

Eeyore ttc#1 cycle1 cd47
MintChocAddict ttc#2 cycle 7 CD25
Mensareject ttc#3 cycle1 cd22
dancingqueeen ttc#1 cycle 2 CD20
Mummyto2littleangels ttc#3 cycle 1 cd20
Girlwithacurl ttc#1 cycle 10 CD19
Idreamofbeanie ttc#1 cycle 2 CD18
theboob ttc#4 cycle 1 CD18
earlynite ttc#2 cycle1 CD18
Rubybuckleberry ttc#1 cycle 4 CD 17
WaitingforaSproglettoFall ttc#1 cycle1 CD14
mrsdisorganised ttc#5 cycle 5 CD13
Homeinthesun ttc#2 cycle 4 CD12
FifiOK ttc#3 cycle 7 CD12
JeanieG ttc#4 cycle2 CD11
Hobnobfanatic ttc#2 cycle 2 CD11
pinkie08 ttc#2 cycle12 CD10
Warmseabreeze ttc#? cycle 7 CD10
DevilsAdvocaat ttc#2 cycle? CD10
MrsDisorganised ttc#5 cycle 5 CD8
Bubblebell1 ttc#3 cycle 2 CD8
Amanda12 ttc#4 cycle1 CD8
1littleprincess ttc#2 cycle7 CD8
WizzyWoo ttc#2 cycle 1 CD7
iggypiggy ttc#1 cycle 4 CD6
Fatandiknowit ttc#1 cycle1 CD6
Ralphie0596 ttc#1 cycle1 CD5
Mosschops30 ttc#3 cycle2 cd4
Andi0411 ttc#2 cycle1 cd4
Joy27 ttc#1 cycle6 cd2
Jumpingjellyfish ttc#3 cycle8 cd1

Littlemiss26 ttc#2 cycle 1 CD?
Pavlovthecat ttc#2 cycle? cd?

GRADUATES

StealthPolarBear
TrixieVix

Andi sounds like you have had a rough time with the chemical pg. Good luck with the BD marathon. Eeyore your DH has his work cut out before 5am tomorrow
I've been OP testing again today and had a proper line about as dark as the control line. Feeling very reassured that something is actually happening.

hello everyone, congrats stealth and Trixie!
Eeyore, that sounds really confusing, did you have EWCM lsat time? I would see that as a really positive sign!

Thanks girlwithacurl. I had a bit of ewcm last time but not much. It's a bit complicated but I had surgery to have my wisdom teeth out just around the same time as the last time I got a positive OPK, and had to take lots of heavy duty painkillers etc. So I had a feeling that maybe I was ready to ovulate but it didn't actually happen - fertility friend says that a big shock or stress can do that. I'm crossing my fingers that's what happened. Anyway, I'm waiting for dh's best friend to leave the flat (they are watching football oblivious to my drama)and then jump on him tonight, possibly waking him up at 4am tomorrow morning as well!
Andi and Homeinthesun, good luck with your BD marathon and Fifi, great news about the OPK.

Hi everyone, can I join you? I'm moving over from sept board, AF arrived today, am really disappointed as I thought we'd cracked it this time. But onwards and upwards eh? Might not be around much coz I find it makes the month go really slowly, but I'll prob be back with avengence in the 2ww! Plus its dd's 2nd birthday next weekend so will be snowed under by relatives etc. Good luck everyone.

ttc#2 cycle 6 UCL 28-30 CD1

Hi small wanted to say hi. i hope you get your bfp soon. ds2 is 2 at the beg of feb and i too am relying on that to distract me from ttc.

i will add you in xxx

Eeyore ttc#1 cycle1 cd47
MintChocAddict ttc#2 cycle 7 CD25
Mensareject ttc#3 cycle1 cd22
dancingqueeen ttc#1 cycle 2 CD20
Mummyto2littleangels ttc#3 cycle 1 cd20
Girlwithacurl ttc#1 cycle 10 CD19
Idreamofbeanie ttc#1 cycle 2 CD18
theboob ttc#4 cycle 1 CD18
earlynite ttc#2 cycle1 CD18
Rubybuckleberry ttc#1 cycle 4 CD 17
WaitingforaSproglettoFall ttc#1 cycle1 CD14
mrsdisorganised ttc#5 cycle 5 CD13
Homeinthesun ttc#2 cycle 4 CD12
FifiOK ttc#3 cycle 7 CD12
JeanieG ttc#4 cycle2 CD11
Hobnobfanatic ttc#2 cycle 2 CD11
pinkie08 ttc#2 cycle12 CD10
Warmseabreeze ttc#? cycle 7 CD10
DevilsAdvocaat ttc#2 cycle? CD10
Bubblebell1 ttc#3 cycle 2 CD8
Amanda12 ttc#4 cycle1 CD8
1littleprincess ttc#2 cycle7 CD8
WizzyWoo ttc#2 cycle 1 CD7
iggypiggy ttc#1 cycle 4 CD6
Fatandiknowit ttc#1 cycle1 CD6
Ralphie0596 ttc#1 cycle1 CD5
Mosschops30 ttc#3 cycle2 cd4
Andi0411 ttc#2 cycle1 cd4
Joy27 ttc#1 cycle6 cd2
Jumpingjellyfish ttc#3 cycle8 cd1
Smallone ttc#2 cycle6 cd1

Littlemiss26 ttc#2 cycle 1 CD?
Pavlovthecat ttc#2 cycle? cd?

GRADUATES

StealthPolarBear
Trixievix

just wanted to add in my cycle
stop typing on mn and get bding you lot!

Eeyore ttc#1 cycle1 cd47
MintChocAddict ttc#2 cycle 7 CD25
Mensareject ttc#3 cycle1 cd22
dancingqueeen ttc#1 cycle 2 CD20
Mummyto2littleangels ttc#3 cycle 1 cd20
Girlwithacurl ttc#1 cycle 10 CD19
Idreamofbeanie ttc#1 cycle 2 CD18
theboob ttc#4 cycle 1 CD18
earlynite ttc#2 cycle1 CD18
Rubybuckleberry ttc#1 cycle 4 CD 17
WaitingforaSproglettoFall ttc#1 cycle1 CD14
mrsdisorganised ttc#5 cycle 5 CD13
Homeinthesun ttc#2 cycle 4 CD12
FifiOK ttc#3 cycle 7 CD12
JeanieG ttc#4 cycle2 CD11
Hobnobfanatic ttc#2 cycle 2 CD11
pinkie08 ttc#2 cycle12 CD10
Warmseabreeze ttc#? cycle 7 CD10
DevilsAdvocaat ttc#2 cycle1 CD10
Bubblebell1 ttc#3 cycle 2 CD8
Amanda12 ttc#4 cycle1 CD8
1littleprincess ttc#2 cycle7 CD8
WizzyWoo ttc#2 cycle 1 CD7
iggypiggy ttc#1 cycle 4 CD6
Fatandiknowit ttc#1 cycle1 CD6
Ralphie0596 ttc#1 cycle1 CD5
Mosschops30 ttc#3 cycle2 cd4
Andi0411 ttc#2 cycle1 cd4
Joy27 ttc#1 cycle6 cd2
Jumpingjellyfish ttc#3 cycle8 cd1
Smallone ttc#2 cycle6 cd1
Littlemiss26 ttc#2 cycle 1 CD?
Pavlovthecat ttc#2 cycle? cd?

GRADUATES

StealthPolarBear
Trixievix

Evening Ladies

Wow you have all been very busy, just trying to catch up on things as haven?t been online over the last few days.

Firstly Congratulations Trixie and Stelth on your BFP?s. Lots of sticky baby glue coming your way and let?s hope they are the beginning to a very successful thread.

Welcoe to all the newbies

WizzyWoo Sorry to hear that AF is lurking, hope she has buggered off now. My AF was also taking a while, but I?m all set for beginning BD?ing tomorrow. At last Hopefully it?ll be the last AF we have for a while and that?s why she was hanging around

Ralphie0956 Happy belated birthday

Joy27 Welcome to the thread. So sorry to hear of your mc. I also had a mc last April, is a horrible thing to experience, let?s hope that we get our sticky beans very soon.

Theboob Dancingqueen Fingers crossed that you both managed to catch that egg on the days that you did bed. I know its easy to feel down when you?ve missed those important days (DP works away a lot also), but I always try and think that people get pg after one night stands?In a way that really sucks, but also keep things in perspective a little. Sending baby dust your way

Andi0411 Sorry to hear of your CP and history of mc. Fingers crossed that this is your cycle.

earlynite & devilsA I to cant help myself but look at prams, baby clothes and picking baby names Glad to see that I am not the only one

Looking forward to starting BD?ing tomorrow. Just trying the every other day method, with B6 and Folic acid supplement, and grapefruit juice.

If I don?t fall this cycle will be trying OPK?s and preseed next cycle so will be interesting to see if it works for those who have been using it. x

Hi all, just wanted to say that Im not going to join in much this month, Ive always concieved really easily in the past and I got so into it last month, totally obsessed that I probably got stressed out and thats why it didnt happen.

Ive decided not to buy any ovulation kits, not 'try' and just see how we go.

I will pop back now and then, and I wish you all the world of luck ttc this month

StealthPo09IsHere I got my preseed from here and it came through the post. They are in pipette like things you squeeze up there - nice!
We are sad so and so's aswell, being not pregnant and thinking of names - its our late night, lights off conversation

What is the green light thing and an opk? I am just using cheap ovulation tests from web - is there something better out there? I have been taking evening primrose in the 1st half of my cycle to increase my cm but no ewcm to date I did have it when I was younger - but now I'm the whole of 31 it seems to have dried up

Going to add myself to the list here

Eeyore ttc#1 cycle1 cd47
MintChocAddict ttc#2 cycle 7 CD25
Mensareject ttc#3 cycle1 cd22
GettingStarted ttc #1 cycle 2 cd 21
dancingqueeen ttc#1 cycle 2 CD20
Mummyto2littleangels ttc#3 cycle 1 cd20
Girlwithacurl ttc#1 cycle 10 CD19
Idreamofbeanie ttc#1 cycle 2 CD18
theboob ttc#4 cycle 1 CD18
earlynite ttc#2 cycle1 CD18
Rubybuckleberry ttc#1 cycle 4 CD 17
WaitingforaSproglettoFall ttc#1 cycle1 CD14
mrsdisorganised ttc#5 cycle 5 CD13
Homeinthesun ttc#2 cycle 4 CD12
FifiOK ttc#3 cycle 7 CD12
JeanieG ttc#4 cycle2 CD11
Hobnobfanatic ttc#2 cycle 2 CD11
pinkie08 ttc#2 cycle12 CD10
Warmseabreeze ttc#? cycle 7 CD10
DevilsAdvocaat ttc#2 cycle1 CD10
Bubblebell1 ttc#3 cycle 2 CD8
Amanda12 ttc#4 cycle1 CD8
1littleprincess ttc#2 cycle7 CD8
WizzyWoo ttc#2 cycle 1 CD7
iggypiggy ttc#1 cycle 4 CD6
Fatandiknowit ttc#1 cycle1 CD6
Ralphie0596 ttc#1 cycle1 CD5
Mosschops30 ttc#3 cycle2 cd4
Andi0411 ttc#2 cycle1 cd4
Joy27 ttc#1 cycle6 cd2
Jumpingjellyfish ttc#3 cycle8 cd1
Smallone ttc#2 cycle6 cd1
Littlemiss26 ttc#2 cycle 1 CD?
Pavlovthecat ttc#2 cycle? cd?

GRADUATES

StealthPolarBear
Trixievix

warmseabreeze sorry to hear about your mc. It's quite a coincidence that we had such a similar experience. And it would be great if we had another more positive coincidence this month eh?

smallone sorry to see you got your period. We were supposed to get bfps tomorrow weren't we... bah.

I wonder whether anyone can help with a question I asked on another thread which got "lost": I started bleeding very lightly at 7.30pm ish on Fri night, with full af starting Sat morning. So is Fri my CD1, or Saturday? Any answers appreciated.

Hi LittlePrincess, AF has finally departed so BD'd tonight just for practice, hooray!

Glad to be finally able to "try" although part of me is terrified about getting pg again - we've got no family support around us and all our friends' work full-time. With DD 15 months, wonder how I'll cope being pg with a toddler and then being on maternity leave with her and "future baby". I also suffered from PND last time, so really hope I don't end up the same this time... still, at least now I know the signs to look out for (all assuming I get pg in the first place of course).

I'm sure we're doing the right thing, just feeling a bit unsettled now that we're actually BDing rather than just having sex, IYSWIM.

I'm also thinking of baby names even though I keep trying not to. Find myself scanning credits at end of TV progs and trying out different names that catch my eye to see how they fit with our surname. Have to say, "Future Baby" is starting to have quite a ring to it although can't really see him/her thanking me for a name like that!!

moringing girls!

have to say this month is goin sooooooo slow!!

cd9 today and started bding last night... tmi do you think i would be better off goin every other night rather than every night??

here is todays list... so many ladies got to have some bfps soon

Eeyore ttc#1 cycle1 cd48
MintChocAddict ttc#2 cycle 7 CD26
Mensareject ttc#3 cycle1 cd23
GettingStarted ttc #1 cycle 2 cd 22
dancingqueeen ttc#1 cycle 2 CD21
Mummyto2littleangels ttc#3 cycle 1 cd21
Girlwithacurl ttc#1 cycle 10 CD20
Idreamofbeanie ttc#1 cycle 2 CD19
theboob ttc#4 cycle 1 CD19
earlynite ttc#2 cycle1 CD9
Rubybuckleberry ttc#1 cycle 4 CD 18
WaitingforaSproglettoFall ttc#1 cycle1 CD15
mrsdisorganised ttc#5 cycle 5 CD14
Homeinthesun ttc#2 cycle 4 CD13
FifiOK ttc#3 cycle 7 CD13
JeanieG ttc#4 cycle2 CD12
Hobnobfanatic ttc#2 cycle 2 CD12
pinkie08 ttc#2 cycle12 CD11
Warmseabreeze ttc#? cycle 7 CD11
DevilsAdvocaat ttc#2 cycle1 CD11
Bubblebell1 ttc#3 cycle 2 CD9
Amanda12 ttc#4 cycle1 CD9
1littleprincess ttc#2 cycle7 CD9
WizzyWoo ttc#2 cycle 1 CD8
iggypiggy ttc#1 cycle 4 CD7
Fatandiknowit ttc#1 cycle1 CD7
Ralphie0596 ttc#1 cycle1 CD6
Mosschops30 ttc#3 cycle2 cd5
Andi0411 ttc#2 cycle1 cd5
Joy27 ttc#1 cycle6 cd3
Jumpingjellyfish ttc#3 cycle8 cd2
Smallone ttc#2 cycle6 cd2
Littlemiss26 ttc#2 cycle 1 CD?
Pavlovthecat ttc#2 cycle? cd?

GRADUATES

StealthPolarBear
Trixievix

Hi joy I don't think today was a good day for testing was it? At least I didn't waste another test. I was thinking today how strange it is that I spend 24hrs gutted about AF and then I just spring back into action. Suppose you've got to with this ttc lark tho.

I've heard some people count af in the morning as that day and af in afternoon as the next day, also some have a cut off time of 6pm. I, however, count from the first spotting at whatever time it is as that day. Coz I'm using the persona tho, you can only reset it in the morning so I have to count the first morning of af as cd1. (I still keep my actual cd in my head tho!) I don't think it matters all that much as long as you always do the same.

bubble Don't think I'd have the stamina to do every day! Are you using anything to pinpoint ov? Maybe you could do daily for a few days around ov and every other day either side of that just to make sure? Or you could aim for everyday so it doesn't matter so much if you miss the odd day here or there?

I've got my own question. How long does everyone keep bding after ov?

Morning ladies,

wizzywoo - glad AF has packed up and left, hopefully this will be the last visit for a while! Sorry to hear about the PND and your concerns this time around. We have recently moved to a new city so I'm also worried about the lack of support but am hoping to meet other mums through antenatal classes or mother and baby group - did you try any of that last time?

moss - that sounds very sensible. Good luck for this month and I hope you will be popping back with good news.

Hi to everyone else - this thread is so busy now it's hard to keep up so sorry for missing anyone out.

I can't believe I am only on CD19 - this month just seems to be dragging by. I know I would be better off trying not too think about it too much but I am soooo excited about having a baby I can't stop . It's my birthday next week so hopefully that will be a good distraction. I love this thread for letting me know other people feel the same so if I am going crazy at least I am not alone . I am also thinking about names I like, and DP and I spent a lot of time at the weekend talking about what kind of house/area we want to raise our kids in (recently moved to a new city and renting somewhere small until we decide where we want to rent or buy long-term). Oh come on BFP!

smallone i keep going until FF tells me I have deinitly ov'd, so after 3 higher temps. If you're not temping this would be 3 days after ov. the Deanna plan suggests day of ov, next 2 days, one day off then once more. I always worry that if I have managed to fertilise then all the romping will dislodge, but I know I am being silly and DP gives me a good talking to.

smallone, in answer to your question, here's my rather longwinded philosophy:

I am trying to keep things as normal as poss in terms of when/how often, ie fairly often (2-3 times/week) throughout entire cycle. This is because I really don't want it to become prescriptive and "functional". Admittedly I'm a bit more militant about keeping it every other day around middle of cycle. So I would say just continue going for it after ov.

This is very possibly much tmi, but this weekend with af, I even thought "what the hell" and we did it anyway. I wouldn't normally do this (feel a bit embarassed about "ew" factor even after all these years!), but there was something about doing it when it's virtually impossible to conceive, that keeps the ttc crazies at bay.

Also, continuing to have sex after ov keeps mind off 2ww!

bubble, I reckon I'd run out of steam doing it every single day!

smallone I tend to agree with joy although as DP works away just now there is also a lot of 'making the most of the nights we have together' going into that decision. We don't have bubble's stamina (I am in awe ) but generally BD 2-4 times a week and maybe a bit more in middle of cycle depending on how often he is home.

Hi Everyone - I'm movign from September as the witch got me last night.

Hello to everyone from the Sept threads - can't believe there are 2 BFP's on this thread already - congratulations Stealth and Trixievix

I've added myself to teh list - here's hoping this month is the one.

Eeyore ttc#1 cycle1 cd48
MintChocAddict ttc#2 cycle 7 CD26
Mensareject ttc#3 cycle1 cd23
GettingStarted ttc #1 cycle 2 cd 22
dancingqueeen ttc#1 cycle 2 CD21
Mummyto2littleangels ttc#3 cycle 1 cd21
Girlwithacurl ttc#1 cycle 10 CD20
Idreamofbeanie ttc#1 cycle 2 CD19
theboob ttc#4 cycle 1 CD19
earlynite ttc#2 cycle1 CD9
Rubybuckleberry ttc#1 cycle 4 CD 18
WaitingforaSproglettoFall ttc#1 cycle1 CD15
mrsdisorganised ttc#5 cycle 5 CD14
Homeinthesun ttc#2 cycle 4 CD13
FifiOK ttc#3 cycle 7 CD13
JeanieG ttc#4 cycle2 CD12
Hobnobfanatic ttc#2 cycle 2 CD12
pinkie08 ttc#2 cycle12 CD11
Warmseabreeze ttc#? cycle 7 CD11
DevilsAdvocaat ttc#2 cycle1 CD11
Bubblebell1 ttc#3 cycle 2 CD9
Amanda12 ttc#4 cycle1 CD9
1littleprincess ttc#2 cycle7 CD9
WizzyWoo ttc#2 cycle 1 CD8
iggypiggy ttc#1 cycle 4 CD7
Fatandiknowit ttc#1 cycle1 CD7
Ralphie0596 ttc#1 cycle1 CD6
Mosschops30 ttc#3 cycle2 cd5
Andi0411 ttc#2 cycle1 cd5
Joy27 ttc#1 cycle6 cd3
Jumpingjellyfish ttc#3 cycle8 cd2
Smallone ttc#2 cycle6 cd2
irishmumwannabe ttc#1 cycle 5 cd1
Littlemiss26 ttc#2 cycle 1 CD?
Pavlovthecat ttc#2 cycle? cd?

GRADUATES

StealthPolarBear
Trixievix

wizzy i had pnd with both my dc. after ds2 it was particularly bad i wouldnt let anyone hold him and still to this day i only let my mil baby sit. didnt leave the house for weeks on end. not getting dressed etc but worse than that was scary thoughts that something was going to happen to me and noone would be able to look after dc. i didnt want to go anywhere or see anyone because i thought they all knew or could tell i was a crap mum. i know, i know, im a nutter. all of that put dh off having anymore. (cant say i blame him) but i managed to convince him that everything will be ok... im hoping! gp and health visitor have suggested various ways of coping after any future babies and im sure if you spoke to yours then they will help you.

hth and not bore u half to death xxx

Hi irish sorry that AF got you. hope this month is your lucky 1. xxx