Strictly Come Baby Dancing - TTC Waiting Room & Dance Floor!

[MollieMooma]

OK girls, will go and get the list, but have lots of comfy sofa's and chairs, chocolate cake and virtual champagne.

Good luck and positive vibes to us all!

Zen Lovely to "see" you, you are sounding so positive, just remember we are here if you need us
Shayer So glad you have decided to go to the doctors, hope you can get an appointment without too much hassle! No hopefully this cock up won't mean a delayed start for us.
Beanie Loving the new positivity, I've been trying to do the same this year, including not letting work stress me out (not doing too well with that one!) Sorry about BFN
Comma What a lovely doctor! Sounds like you had a chemical pg before, fingers crossed that it's not this time and your HCG levels are rising

Last update was Monday, so I've added 5 - hope that's right but please check!

ShayeraHol CD3 cycle 14 TTC#1
thegreatescape CD9 Cycle 6 TTC#2
MollieMooma CD10 Cycle 3 since m/mc Jan08,Aug08 & CP Sept08
blackrock CD16 Cycle 20 TTC#2
ClaireDeLoon CD16 Cycle 17 TTC#1 (mc Sept 07)
Comma2 CD23 cycle 4 TTC#2
Pinkie08 CD23 cycle 12 TTC#2
beanieb CD24 Cycle 18 TTC#1
WaitingforaSproglettoFall CD26
Glastochick CD29 Cycle 18 TTC #1
herethereandeverywhere CD30 cycle 14 ttc#1
Sparkly CD30 Cycle 3(after m/c Sept08)TTC#2
Theboob CD31 Cycle 1 TTC#4
MollieMooma CD39 Cycle 3 since m/mc Jan08,Aug08 & CP Sept08
Insertsomethingwittyhere CD41 Cycle 8 TTC#1
Jaamy CD44 cycle 17 TTC#3 (mc Mar 08 and Sept 08)
PeaceLily CD56 Cycle 3 TTC#2 (m/c Sept 08)
Sunnyandwild CD61 ttc #1
happyandEiknowit CD67 cycle 14 TTC#2 (cp april 08 & june 08)
IpodMermaid CD72 cycle 1 ttc#1 (m/mc Oct)
loustillwantsaBFPtoo CD74 Cycle16 TTC#1 (M/C July 07)
mummy2t CD75 Cycle 1 TTC #3 M/C June 06
Zen1980 CD80 Cycle 7 TTC#1
bubblebell1 CD90 Cycle 1 TTC#3

TTC GRADUATE LIST* (we WILL be on it)

LittleSquirt BFP 11th May (CD29 cycle 12 TTC #1) MMC July 07
Knax BFP 30th May (CD31 cycle 4 TTC2)
caspercat BFP 11th june (CD ? cycle? TTC?)
Mentalpup BFP 18th June (CD33 cycle 5 TTC#2)
Emma2617 BFP 30th June (CD43 Cycle 1 TTC #1)
Fruity BFP 11th July (Cycle 5,8 months) TTC#2
HopingCat BFP 1st July (CD28 cycle 1 TTC#2)
DaisyJ BFP 24th July (CD41 cycle 1 TTC#1 mc March 08)
mrsfossil bfp 30th july (cd29 ttc for 4 years 1ds)
Moonlit BFP 17th September (CD33 Cycle 21 TTC#2)
Leaky BFP 2nd Oct (CD35 cycle 2 TTC#3)
Saz007 (due May 2009)
Migola BFP 19th Nov(CD? Cycle 8 TTC#2 CP Aug 08)
Babybump2b BFP 30th Nov
VJay BFP 22nd Dec (CD33 cycle mc June08 & Oct08)

just waiting now, woke with a bad back and sore boobs, resisted testing again. Am sure I will get my period today or tomorrow.

beanieb am waiting too, logic is saying test tomorrow see what you think;

Scan was cd11 aqnd told would ov next day so going with that oved cd12. Fertility friend has shown that af arrives 12/13 days after ov cd12 +13 gets me to cd25 (tomorrow) so thinkin good day for a test. Fertility friend says test weds.

Any thoughts anyone ??

Have just popped myself back on the top

beanieb CD1 Cycle 19 TTC#1
ShayeraHol CD4 cycle 14 TTC#1
thegreatescape CD10 Cycle 6 TTC#2
MollieMooma CD11 Cycle 3 since m/mc Jan08,Aug08 & CP Sept08
blackrock CD17 Cycle 20 TTC#2
ClaireDeLoon CD17 Cycle 17 TTC#1 (mc Sept 07)
Comma2 CD24 cycle 4 TTC#2
Pinkie08 CD24 cycle 12 TTC#2
WaitingforaSproglettoFall CD27
Glastochick CD30 Cycle 18 TTC #1
herethereandeverywhere CD31 cycle 14 ttc#1
Sparkly CD31 Cycle 3(after m/c Sept08)TTC#2
Theboob CD32 Cycle 1 TTC#4
MollieMooma CD40 Cycle 3 since m/mc Jan08,Aug08 & CP Sept08
Insertsomethingwittyhere CD42 Cycle 8 TTC#1
Jaamy CD45 cycle 17 TTC#3 (mc Mar 08 and Sept 08)
PeaceLily CD57 Cycle 3 TTC#2 (m/c Sept 08)
Sunnyandwild CD62 ttc #1
happyandEiknowit CD68 cycle 14 TTC#2 (cp april 08 & june 08)
IpodMermaid CD73 cycle 1 ttc#1 (m/mc Oct)
loustillwantsaBFPtoo CD75 Cycle16 TTC#1 (M/C July 07)
mummy2t CD76 Cycle 1 TTC #3 M/C June 06
Zen1980 CD81 Cycle 7 TTC#1
bubblebell1 CD91 Cycle 1 TTC#3

TTC GRADUATE LIST* (we WILL be on it)

LittleSquirt BFP 11th May (CD29 cycle 12 TTC #1) MMC July 07
Knax BFP 30th May (CD31 cycle 4 TTC2)
caspercat BFP 11th june (CD ? cycle? TTC?)
Mentalpup BFP 18th June (CD33 cycle 5 TTC#2)
Emma2617 BFP 30th June (CD43 Cycle 1 TTC #1)
Fruity BFP 11th July (Cycle 5,8 months) TTC#2
HopingCat BFP 1st July (CD28 cycle 1 TTC#2)
DaisyJ BFP 24th July (CD41 cycle 1 TTC#1 mc March 08)
mrsfossil bfp 30th july (cd29 ttc for 4 years 1ds)
Moonlit BFP 17th September (CD33 Cycle 21 TTC#2)
Leaky BFP 2nd Oct (CD35 cycle 2 TTC#3)
Saz007 (due May 2009)
Migola BFP 19th Nov(CD? Cycle 8 TTC#2 CP Aug 08)
Babybump2b BFP 30th Nov
VJay BFP 22nd Dec (CD33 cycle mc June08 & Oct08)

Pinkie, if it was me I'd probably try to wait but end up testing anyway good luck.

Hi everyone,

Just typed a big long post that didn't work

Well the gist of the post was to say....against all the odds this month.....I just got a BFP!!!!!!!!!!!

You must be my lucky cyber friends, I've waited for so long for this.

I'm massively in shock and feel a bit sick (and guilty about the 2x half bottles of wine I had Fri and Sat...ooops!)

So I need some advice as I've just realised I have absolutely no idea what I do now!!!!

COngratulations herethereandeverywhere!

Thanks! I can't be;lieve iot. Just did a different test (boots this time First response last time) still BFP!

BUT - I've already started to scare myself witless as I have lower abdominal cramps (just uncomfy, not too bad) but with a focus on the left and I'm now terrified it might be ectopic - I'm sure it's just a reaction to the good news (it can't REALLY be happening to me can it?) - but still - I really hope it's safely burrowed in my womb (TMI?!!)

On the bright side - the tummy ache might just be the massive Maccy Ds I scoffed to conso;e myself about "not being PG again"...before I peed in a stick and got a shock (a wonderful magical shock!)

OH congratulations herethereandeverywhere!

Hmmm, the BFP seems to have had an adverse effect on my typing skills!!

Can I just add this was the first month of sticking to Deanna (until I wnet away the day after my smiley OPK) and first month of pr-seed use. If you haven't tried it already girls then give it a go!

Congrats herethereandeverywhere how exciting keep us posted

Congratulations herethereaneverywhere I've heard such good stories about pre-seed I may just have to invest for next month. Make sure you chuck a lorry load of baby dust at us
Beanie

BeanieB so sorry - hoping that next month will be your month. Still such early days for me but I'm sending alll the cyber-space baby dust possible to you all - you're all so lovely and kind and deserve your own good luck and BFPs.

BABYDUST*

Pre-seed costs a fortune and comes in the most undignified squirty pipette things which make farty noises but it does make the ladybits nice and squelchy for your man (quite turned him on!) and MUST do something to help those little swimmers to survive....not sure they'll print that recommendation on the side of the box, good job none of you know me and DH in RL (I hope!)!!!!!

Still achy/crampy on and off so I'm not getting my hopes up and burning the always ultra just yet!

I have some pre-seed somewhere, used it onece and I can confirm it makes delightful farty noises!

How you feeling today herethereandeverywhere? Has it sunk in yet?

Had my day 3 blood test (day 2 really) and hve an internal scan booked for next Tuesday. Am really hoping I hear about the HSG this cycle rather than next.

great news here,thereand everywhere.

Fingers crossed for you beanie.

Congratulations Herethere! I am so happy for you!!! Don't worry about the aches and cramps, they are perfectly normal and most likely come from the ligaments that hold the uterus. They do start to stretch just about now. If it's not them, there are a ton of other things that can and will twinge and ache perfectly legitimately. You'll be surprised.

Sorry beanie to see you back on the list.

I have to call my doctor and don't dare to. Just don't want the official no, just rather have AF set in by itself, sort of. Those stupid cheapo-tests are not giving me clear results, but leave me hanging in annoying limbo.

On the good side, I had a bit of bleeding on day 9/10 that went away again, my boobs are bigger than usual (not a usual pms thing with me), I have milk again (sorry, possibly tmi), my mood is TERRIBLE and I spent Sat crying in the corner until DH took pity and me for cake at IKEA.
List all this for the bad side too, though.

Spoke to doc - booked in for Day 21 and assorted bloodwork next Friday (and hubby's going to pick up his little pot tomorrow which I find highly amusing ). Apparently my health insurance only covers the basic tests so they said best to go with NHS - suppose it would be too much to expect that work would provide me with that kind of benefit!

Hope it's all on the good side, Comma! Keeping things crossed

Hope you hear back about HSG soon beanie. Are they good about booking your tests in quickly?

I've also tried preseed, we get on with it quite well (and I've got the knack of non-fartiness!), also tried their non-pipette version which is more pleasant than most of the stuff on offer. Not that that's hard!

I'm going to read up on Deanna now if it worked for herethere!

BTW just worked out that if this month is my month, then due date would be my birthday. This amuses me

ugh, Doctor said negative....besides of being embarrasing cause hysterical on my side, I have PMS from hell....and I have to go give a lecture now and I hate all the students as well as my life....where is my stupid period? Help!

Hi all,

Comma, sorry it wasn't the news you wanted. Whenever I wanted my period to come the stress of it almost always kept it away. I know that being told "try to relax" makes you want to break someones face. So trest yourself to a favourite music/song/bunch of flowers/magazine/TV programme - whatever. I always retreated to a dimly lit bathroom for a bath in a fit of misery which actually always ended up relaxing me. So be kind to yourself, you've got the rest of the world to fight with, try to keep your body on your side (even when you think it's letting you down.)

Well ladies, thanks for the lovely messages and enquiries. I'm still pregnant (I think). I'm completely knackered and tummy still doing twinges - but not as bad today I think. I woke in the night to pee for the first time in living memory!!!! It's such early days I think I'll leave it for a week before seeing the doctor, I feel a bit silly saying my period was due yesterday and I'm pregnant today! We're calling it "the sand" cause it's only as big as a grain of sand at the moment.

Lots of love and luck to you all,

xxxxx

Hi all,

Sorry comma that was not good news but i am sure you will get that gorgeous bean soon.(((hugs)))

I am pretty much out for this month as have started spotting. IVF starts when cycle starts properly although it sounds quite complicated but am sure they talk you through it.

Thanks Herethere and Pinkie.
I was really stressed out about the lecture I had to give yesterday; now its over and I feel fine again (also, period has started and that always blows PMS right away- I am grateful). Bit sad, because I still feel like I should be 2 months pregnant now instead of having to go throuhg ttc-against-time-nightmare but oh well. Nothing much I can do.

Good luck Pinkie. I cross my fingers for you.

Where are we all?

Sorry she got you beanie how are you feeling? I read your posts about your appointment, how are you and DP now? I'm glad he finally understands what it means. Lets hope you get your HSG through soon.

heretherandeverywhere many many congrats I hope all is going well for you!

What about everyone else?

I've not been around much just got to the point where I'm kind of accepting the way things are for us and going back to my thinking before I ever got pregnant, which was, as I said to my DP on the way to a friends DD's 1st birthday party, 'I'm not sure I want to have children anymore'. We hadn't been trying trying and little did I know if I'd tested there and then it would have been positive but I'm kind of evaluating life and our choices and wondering if we could cope without children, bizarrely I think I could cope better than DP. Anyway, ramblings but I hope it explains my absence!

Thanks Claire I am still feeling positive and trying not to think of how many cycles I have been trying for. Have the internal scan booked for next Tuesday but am still waiting to hear from the hospital about the HSG. Might not get to have it this cycle.

Hello Lovely ladies!

Herethere - CONGRATULATIONS! I am so happy that you've finally got your BFP. The pains are normal - little bean is making itself all comfy in there. Try to take it easy and enjoy a bit of spoiling.

Zen - so for you. You sound very positive, though. Just wasn't meant to be this time round, hun. We've got a whole new year in which to get up the duff!

Sorry not been around much - been sulking! I was so sure we'd got it right over Christmas so when AF arrived the first week in Jan I wasn't best pleased. Still, on 2WW now so am trying to be positive again.

Have just kind of scanned the thread so feel free to shout at me if I've got the wrong end of the stick...
Beanie and Shayera - hope the tests show something tha will give you optimism.

lovley to hear that migola and bean are doing well.

Comma - glad to hear the students survived! It would be so easy to go and hide every month when we don't get the news we want. Sometimes it's a good thing that we have to carry on with the day-to-day things to give us a little bit of distraction. Hopefully won't be too long before you're asking one of your students to help you and your bump with your bags!

Mollie - roll on Feb for a lovely Christmas baby!

Blackrock - how are you?

So Claire - It's good to hear your ramblings - that's what we're here for. Sounds like you've decided to take it easy for a while? You don't sound too sure. Did you ever go back for your blood test results? Did I miss that?

pinkie - good luck with the IVF - how exciting. I'm sure they'll be able to answer all your questions and get you through it.

Ei - where are you sweetie?????

Have updated stats - hope they are ok, just added 3 days since sunday post. Herethere will leave you to graduate yourself and Zen - please add yourslef back on when you're ready to rejoin the madness.

beanieb CD4 Cycle 19 TTC#1
ShayeraHol CD7 cycle 14 TTC#1
thegreatescape CD13 Cycle 6 TTC#2
MollieMooma CD14 Cycle 3 since m/mc Jan08,Aug08 & CP Sept08
blackrock CD20 Cycle 20 TTC#2
ClaireDeLoon CD20 Cycle 17 TTC#1 (mc Sept 07)
Jaamy CD21 cycle 18 TTC#3 (mc Mar 08 and Sept 08)
Comma2 CD27 cycle 4 TTC#2
Pinkie08 CD27 cycle 12 TTC#2
WaitingforaSproglettoFall CD30
Glastochick CD33 Cycle 18 TTC #1
herethereandeverywhere CD34 cycle 14 ttc#1
Sparkly CD34 Cycle 3(after m/c Sept08)TTC#2
Theboob CD35 Cycle 1 TTC#4
MollieMooma CD43 Cycle 3 since m/mc Jan08,Aug08 & CP Sept08
Insertsomethingwittyhere CD45 Cycle 8 TTC#1
PeaceLily CD60 Cycle 3 TTC#2 (m/c Sept 08)
Sunnyandwild CD65 ttc #1
happyandEiknowit CD71 cycle 14 TTC#2 (cp april 08 & june 08)
IpodMermaid CD76 cycle 1 ttc#1 (m/mc Oct)
loustillwantsaBFPtoo CD78 Cycle16 TTC#1 (M/C July 07)
mummy2t CD779 Cycle 1 TTC #3 M/C June 06
bubblebell1 CD94 Cycle 1 TTC#3

TTC GRADUATE LIST* (we WILL be on it)

LittleSquirt BFP 11th May (CD29 cycle 12 TTC #1) MMC July 07
Knax BFP 30th May (CD31 cycle 4 TTC2)
caspercat BFP 11th june (CD ? cycle? TTC?)
Mentalpup BFP 18th June (CD33 cycle 5 TTC#2)
Emma2617 BFP 30th June (CD43 Cycle 1 TTC #1)
Fruity BFP 11th July (Cycle 5,8 months) TTC#2
HopingCat BFP 1st July (CD28 cycle 1 TTC#2)
DaisyJ BFP 24th July (CD41 cycle 1 TTC#1 mc March 08)
mrsfossil bfp 30th july (cd29 ttc for 4 years 1ds)
Moonlit BFP 17th September (CD33 Cycle 21 TTC#2)
Leaky BFP 2nd Oct (CD35 cycle 2 TTC#3)
Saz007 (due May 2009)
Migola BFP 19th Nov(CD? Cycle 8 TTC#2 CP Aug 08)
Babybump2b BFP 30th Nov
VJay BFP 22nd Dec (CD33 cycle mc June08 & Oct08)