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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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TTC no. 119 - fingers crossed for more BFPs!

658 replies

HunkerMunker · 19/02/2005 23:15

Thought I'd start another thread as the last one was SO successful but is starting to take a while to load and I keep losing my place in it!

A quick update on my stats - on CD39 of third cycle since getting AF back after DS was born in April 2004 (10.5 months old).

Have endometriosis and PCOS so have decided to let nature take its course over the next few months and if I fall pg naturally, then so be it. If I don't, then we'll try clomid again (worked first time for us with DS).

Am still breastfeeding, so have erratic cycles - they were always long (so far have had AF visit twice and had 50 and 42-day cycles).

No idea when I ov - may try OPK's next month if no success this month (and don't think I am pg atm).

Think that's it!

Lots and lots of babydust to all the ttcers and lots and lots of babyglue to those who've just had BFPs (and more congrats!). xxx

OP posts:
cp3 · 28/02/2005 11:17

Twiga, im always on that site. Its great isnt it. Ive already worked out when my baby is due this month and i dont know even if im pregant

popadopalis · 28/02/2005 11:18

Thanks! Your DH is so helpful! I will try the babycentre though and see how it goes. I'm getting so impatient though. You know I hate waiting for anything!! How long did you try the second time before conceiving?

Hulababy · 28/02/2005 11:19

Hi popadopalis. Welcome to the TTC thread!

Twiga · 28/02/2005 11:20

Yup, I really like babycentre, it helped me work out my due dates for this pg well before it was confirmed with my early scan - am expecting my first in Aug! I'm now on a mission to help popadopalis and thought introducing her to you crazy bunch and mumsnet would be useful!!!

cp3 · 28/02/2005 11:22

Ahh Congrats twiga. Im sure your friend will have a fab time with us through the highs and lows. I know i do

Nelli29 · 28/02/2005 11:27

Hi everyone, was 3 days late, got very excited , couldn't help it. AF just arrived, feel miserable stuck at work till 6:30, keep erupting into tears, everyone is looking at me as if I'm mad.

popadopalis · 28/02/2005 11:30

Hey cp3 and hulababy! thanks for welcoming me to the thread. Twiga is a fab friend and I'm sure I'm going to enjoy this. I don't fell quite so isolated now.

fresco · 28/02/2005 11:33

Hi popa (hope u dont mind shortening your name, just easier to remember).how many babies do you have? can we have your details? age,ways of trying ttc....no...only kiding.welcome to the crazy world of conception

AHHHH!!!! phoned my ex surgery and the BASTARDS (sorry for language) had my blooming results.they are find.I AM NORMAL!!! HIHIHIHI!!!!! b/f isnt affecting ttc any longer. well, dp expect lots and lots of bd!!!! hihih!!! he wont be able to walk straight any longer at the end of the month.John Wayne!!! hehehehe!!!! so nice to benormal again init??

sorry ladies, just a minute of craziness.
cati, when doc gave u your results,btw,why did you have to see doc, wasnt it enof on the phone?

Hulababy · 28/02/2005 11:36

Nelli

Popa (hope don't mind it being shortened - I can't spell!) - what are your stats?

I am 32, DH is 31, have one DD (aged 2y 10m) who took a while to concieve, been TTC for #2 for 6 months now, on month 7 as of yesterday. Been temping and using OPKs to try and help.

popadopalis · 28/02/2005 11:39

Hey Fresco, nope, shorten away!! I haven't any babies yet.. Been trying for five months. I'm 26 and very impatient!

Diege · 28/02/2005 11:41

Nelli29,
I know it's the worst feeling, and you feel so stupid that you've read all the signs wrong. I was 6 days late last month and (I can hardly admit it, the shame , but I even went so far as to order maternity clothes off the net arggh - how humiliating!!). You say you'll never trust your instints again, but every month... You will feel better in 3-4 days! (choccie helps).

Hulababy · 28/02/2005 11:42

Nelli - I agree, don't feel bad, I got to CD32 a few months ago and I was convinced I must be pg - never been that late. But alas, no. I wasn't. Makes AF seem so unfair and horrid.

popadopalis · 28/02/2005 11:43

My stats: I'm 26, Dh is 29, no babies as of yet. I was on the pill and cycles went crazy after that. They are settling down now but no two cycles are the same so difficult to tell when I'm ov.

Hulababy · 28/02/2005 11:44

popa - even with the temping. looking for EWCM and using OPKs I have found that I OV one different CDs each month, and my cycle length varies too. I am going to forget about the temping for a bit now - stresses me out after OV - and just monitor CM I think.

expatinscotland · 28/02/2005 11:49

Aw, Nelli. . Been there, bought the tshirt. I never keep pregnancy tests in the house or buy them now b/c I think they are ALL evil, especially those digital ones that say 'Not Pregnant' .

At least w/this cycle, I know there was no O, so I'll be ready and waiting for the Witch AF when she shows up.

Hope you get your BFP SOON!

fresco · 28/02/2005 11:51

ok, next BFP? who wants to be? hehehe.what a daft question

popadopalis · 28/02/2005 11:51

hulababy - I did the temping thing for a couple of months but my temp changed so much every day that I couldn't find a dramatic change so gave up.

I might try OPK's and monitor CM. What OPK is the best?

popadopalis · 28/02/2005 12:05

Everyone - gotta go to work now. I'm glad I've discovered this thanks to fab friend Twiga. Speak later. Bye bye!

mummygow · 28/02/2005 13:11

Sparkly (((hugs)))

Hi everyone thank you for you kind congratulations - I feel so honoured that you are all happy for me when I know the torture most of you are going through every month - I feel so guilty that it happened so quickly this time round as I know you all want it just as much as me. As you all know it took me 8 months the first time and I can only thank you all for your support and knowledge this time round, especially HB, MB and JM you really helped me with all my stupid questions.

I wish I could do babydust to you all but I dont know how to do it but you know my best wishes are with you all and I will be popping in and out to check on all your progress.

runtus · 28/02/2005 14:45

I've been prescribed a 7 day course of Provera (to induce a period) and then a second course of Clomid (to induce ovulation). Now last time I had Progestrone tablets I think I came on about 3 days after the course finished and then on day 2 I started the Clomid.

I am now on day 6 of the provera and have started to bleed - should this happen or am I panicking for no reason, just becuase it was different last time????

Help not sure what to do!

romilly · 28/02/2005 15:15

hi all - i'm from ttc m/c thread but check up on how you guys are doing from time to time.

munnzie - i can answer your KY question! DONT use it when ttc'ing - definitely a no-no. kills the little fellows apparently. according to the fabulous toni weschler book (taking charge of your fertility) she says lubricants, such as KY and even saliva (!!) are bad news i'm afraid.

hope that helps. good luck everyone.

marinda · 28/02/2005 17:35

Hi folks popped in to say hi and wish you all good luck. I am very worried - I am just 9 weeks pg now and have belly like monk - wonder if it is twins (aaarggghh !) - more common in us older birds !!! Or maybe just 2nd pg - people are noticing and i am trying tokeep it quiet. Baby dust to you all !!!

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Love to you all especially the old crew !!!

marinda · 28/02/2005 17:36

PS Have scan tomorrow - so scared ......

munnzieb · 28/02/2005 18:09

fresco - i'm soo pleased for u hon! isn't it great to be 'normal' lol.

rantus - can you possibly talk to your gp/ gyno about it if you are worried? I don't know how these things progress.

Pop - hiya and welcome, it won't be long b4 ur barking orders at ur DP/H to get ready for u to pounce cos todays the day! lol, and that will be the only time u'll see him cos the rest of the time u'll be sat here, talking about CM and other bodily functions! lol.

Marinda - good luck hon. hope it all goes well, Hester's booked hers in for thursday (7 weeks) so fingers crossed all will be OK for her, althou she's telling me she's feeling v sick! - god girls - do we really want to do this! lol. (of course we do!) lol.

runtus · 28/02/2005 18:19

Munzie - thanks for responding. I managed to talk to my Consultant finally and he has told me to start the Clomid tomorrow and forget about the last Provera pill. I just didn't know what to make of it really, wasn't expecting to come on so soon espcially as last time it was 3 days after finishing the course!

Glad to have been re-assured!