emmsys room...only a few left...we WILL graduate the final few :-)

[QueenyEisGotTheBall]

hi ladies
here is a nice new thread with some nice brand spanking new bags of baby dust....
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i will bring our list over in a sec after i have linked
COME ON GIRLS WE WILL GET TO THAT ANTENATAL THREAD BEFORE EMMSY POPS!!!!!!!
xx ei xx

Evening ladies!
Between FB and MN I'm getting nothing done these days in the evening! I should warn you though that I don't really use FB all that much and my photos haven't changed since I first set up my page... but perhaps that's all about to change
HTGG Just seen your friend request and accepted it.
Mollie Saw you accepted my friend request and that you'd replied to the crib sheet so hope you're doing as well as possible after today's ordeal We've all been thinking of you.

Hi Mollie. Been thinking of you all day. Glad that it's over for you now. Well, not over as such. But you know what I mean. And very very pleased for you that you have your appt. Sweet dreams lovely lady. As my mother says, tomorrow is another day. xxxxxx

Hey Mollie X-posted. Glad everything went as OK as possible and really pleased you've got a referral. We'll be here in the next few days and weeks to help you through this. Sleep tight and (((hugs))) to you.

Thanks guys means a lot x
Also meant to say Kate thanks for taking me off the list

just a quick one to say mollie im glad today went as well as can be expected and that they are referring you to see a consultant. im so you have had to have a day like today and for the second time aswell {{{{{{hugs}}}}}} im here as is everyone else if you need anything at all am i right in thinking you live near sparkly (cardiff?) just something i remember from a while back if i am thinking of you that is if not ignore me im getting confused as usual
xx ei xx

EI I live just over an hour away from Cardiff so not far.
Just to say morning guys and to let you know that Mum is taking me to her house today which is probably a good thing as I feel very sad and empty today. Have cried buckets already and don't want to post on here all day bringing the thread down. So on my crappy days I'll lurk and post when I'm brighter.
Love you all for your support and kindness to all of you x x x
Oh and thanks for my FB messages too x

mollie please don't worry about bringing the thread down. We are sad for you, but thats because we care about you. Post when ever you feel up to it hun,really wish I could work miracles sometimes xxxxxx

piper don't want to dissapoint you, but it looks to me that AF may be on her way, could be totally wrong though, it could be an unusual implantation dip need to see if it goes back up today, fingers crossed xxx

Morning,
Mollie you sound so strong but please don't feel you have to be in here. That's what we're all here for. {{{hugs}}}

Well DP's taking the laptop into work today again so I thought I'd quickly jump on it while he's in the shower to say hello to my girls

Not sure what I'm going to do with the kiddies today Weather pretty miserable. I'm at a loss really because my Childminder friend who I spend almost everyday with is on maternity leave. Maybe I'll take them for a walk through the park, no doubt it'll p down on our way.
Maybe we'll bake some cakes, any requests?

Piper I'm afraid to say I agree with Emmsy but who knows eh? It's not an exact science is it. Interested to know what your temp is today.
Re the crib sheet, just put your MN name on so everyone knows who you are then press send. Everyone will automatically get it

I have a headache this morning, woke up with it. I had a rather lovely dream about Sawyer from lost though Although he had my DP's name which was odd. Unfortunately no sex was involved (I'm never lucky enough to have dreams like that) but there was a bit of snogging, he's a very good kisser

Have a lovely day everyone, I'll check up on you all tonight

Morning all,
Just a quick one from me...am off to the GP soon.
Mollie Please don't worry about bringing the thread down. We are all here for you and want to help as much as we can. I am so sorry you have to go through this. I hadn't even thought about how close we lived...if you wanted we could do a half way meet for a coffee when you feel up to up. . Sending you lots and lots of love. xxxxx
Piper at your weird chart. How is your temp today?
Fruity Hope the headache sods off - this dull weather isn't helping at all.

I was thinking last night (I didn't sleep very well) that I might ask my friend to join MN when she is out of hospital. I think the support would really help her - esp chatting with people who have been in the same situation. Before I do this though I might have some of my posts withdrawn (where I have talked about her) incase she does a search and realises I've been nattering about her . I'm sure she wouldn't mind but I'm just trying to do everything to make things smoother for her.

Hi to everyone else. Will pop back later.

Morning. Just a quick one from me.

Mollie Second everyone elses thoughts. You're not bringing the thread down. Friends should be with you thru thick and thin. And most of us have been thru m/c's. So never think we're not hear with a big smile and shoulder to cry on.

Fruity Just text me tom morning and we can work out what we're going to do. 07967 646953.

Hi to everyone else. Hope you have a good day. More later xxxxxxx

Mollie as the others have said please don't feel like you shoud only lurk when down - we all have days/periods where we need to vent and we are all here to listen to each other, please feel free to let out whatever you are feeling xx
Sparkly good idea re: MN
Oh dear Fruity is it a PG hormone headache ? They are so rubbish as they just linger all day grrr...
piper I had a look at your chart last night and wondered whether the first dip was a 'fallback and rise' pattern and the 2nd perhaps an imp dip ...? Unless you have a very short LP I'd be surprised if AF on her way already - what's today's temp ?

Hello ladies

just a quick me me me post

on lunch break,

thanks for all the advice re chart. I was thinking along the same lines that AF was on her way, but a nice high temp for me today 36.67, so i guess i will have to wait and see
Its an awful pity that clearblue would not invent a crysal ball that could let us all know

I have withdrawn a message didnt know i could do that

Mollie please dont worry about bringing the thread down, we are here for you whenever you need support ((((((HUGS)))))))

my chart

just reposting a link to my chart, i seem to have withdrawn the other one

hi ladies
mollie please dont feel as if you are bringing us down. we are here for support in whatever way you need it. whether that be a good rant or a good laugh and joke we are here for you
piper i agree with mibbes looks like implantation to me i hope so you deserve a nice sticky bean after all you have had to go through
sparkly hope you are ok, and your friend has been as well as she could be during this awful day for her
i hope everyone had a nice day today despite the rain
nothing to report from me
xx ei xx

piper glad your temp has gone back up, lets hope it stays that way. A crystal ball would come in very handy at times, probably too handy though x
Yarnie hope all is ok with you, haven't heard from you in a while?xx
(does anyone know if yarnie is on holiday?)
fruity have you sent everyone a copy of that sheet you were talking about. The facebook one. I am still getting a bit confused re: who is who
P.S hope hitler has sorted his neglect problem out!

Girls I found Facebook very irritating last night, it kept cutting me off when I was trying to chat with sparkly.(maybe it was a one off ) If anyone is on msn and would like to chat via that,it does seem to be alot easier. let me know your thoughts and we can all exchange msn names & emails etc... if anyone is interested that is!

emmsy you have my email address already dont you? if not mine is [email protected] im on msn pretty much every night too i do have a life just not a very exciting one
xx ei xx

Evening girls

DP only just back home so I whipped the laptop from his bare hands and here I am at last

Emmsy lol re hitler . I was trying to work out how to forward the list on to you but I don't think it's possible. I think I'll start a new one. I agree about the instant messaging on FB. It's crap basically and too small. I much prefer chatting on MSN.

Georgie I'll text you in the morning . I'm going out check the weather report now... h crappola, HEAVY SHOWERS grrr Oh well, see what it looks like in the morning

Well I woke up with a headache but then I made matters worse when in my bathroom I was trying to get ready and had the cabinet door open. Suddenly the kitten ran in (she likes to escape out the window so I had to grab her) she was hiding behind the toilet, I grabbed her and stood up very fast and CRACK headache much much worse My original headache seems to have gone but I have a nice big lump on the side of my head which is quite sore

Evening ladies!

Mollie please don't stay away when you feel down unless you want to. Sometimes those are the most important times to post imo - and certainly don't feel guilty about it or like you're dragging us down, we're all here for you and I know we all want to do anything we can to help, and if listening is the best we can do, then that's what we'll do! Besides, some of my previous posts have been proper slit your wrists stuff, and you lot still let me post
Am so and about that first nurse though!!!!! I thought the one who asked me what my "presenting complaint" was when I was in the ward waiting to be taken down for my erpc was bad enough... [stupid-bint-emoticon]

Sparkly really good plan about asking your friend to join mn, helped me through some really dark times, honestly don't know what I would have done without you all . Totally understand what you're saying about deleting posts, let me know if you want me to delete some of mine too (for the same reason!) - if you could let me know which ones that would be helpful!

Just been lurking over on knicker checkers, full of heavily pg ladies swapping stories about being over-due and having enormous bumps

sorry for posting here - but i wasn't sure if mollie was checking knicker checkers right now and i just learned of what's happened. i hope you ladies don't mind (tho i recognise most of you from the avengers thread back in the day - - hello!)

this is what i posted...
mollie i am so sorry to hear what has happened!! i can't believe this - it's so unfair esp after seeing a hb in early scan. i know nothing i say now will really help - it's crappy that us ladies have to go through this. it really is. i hope you know that we are all here to chat and to support you - am sending you big hugs. i remember my first mc it was a big blow, but my second mc really knocked me and my confidence. it was a dark time and spent a lot of time crying randomly, but looking back i needed to go through that to come out of the other side - do cry when you feel like it and allow yourself to grieve. i wish you peace and future happiness mollie. big hugs xx...

just also wanted to add to please treat yourself with all the comforts and rest lots in the next few days and weeks a- erpc really takes a lot out of your body and also it's such an emotionally trying time - i totally know what you mean by saying that you feel so empty. that's completely normal to feel that. i hope your doctor will help you find some answers in the future. post lots here - mn saved my sanity in my dark days and the ladies here have all been so supportive. take care bunny

OK OK I get the hint, I won't stay away when I'm feeling blue!
Bunny Will post to you on knicker checkers just in case you check on here x
Sparkly Definately a good idea to introduce MN to your friend, I know not everyone gets it, some of my friends in RL think its downright wierd but she might appreciate the support and being able to talk to people in similar situations is a godsend.
Fruity How is the head?

MSN question, will I have to have a hotmail account to do this?

Can't you tell I'm not sleepy and trying to distract myself! I've now created a hotmail address (well it's live.co.uk now apparently) I think that I can now ask you from FB to join me on messenger, is that right? Well I'm going to give it a go as I can't sleep, hope you all have a good night x

Still can't sleep and nobody is up

Morning

Oh mollie I hope you managed to get to sleep ok?

Well, from 3am I couldn't keep my legs still. I think they wanted to party so I've been tossing and turning since then. I'm now wide awake before my alarm is due to go off which is a bit of a pita when I get to sleep an extra half an hour on a Thursday. Ah well.
Georgie I don't trust this weather one bit so I think Eddies Catz might be our best option. I'm gonna try to get the 9 year old in free. I'm sure she's too old for the equipment anyway. Just gonna check the opening times. I think it's 10am, best to get there as early as possible to bag a seat.
Kate Stay away from that thread! You'll be in there soon enough
Sparkly I'm so crap I completely forgot to text you about your GP appointment.
Just read on the BFP thread that she wouldn't let you have an early scan and What a bitch. Couldn't she see you were concerned? I wonder if you go and see someone else, they might book you in. Maybe give it a week and say it's no use, you can't relax until you have a scan?