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Should I prepare for the worse?

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JNicko · 08/04/2024 07:42

Hi ladies. I'm currently 13DPO. AF is due on Wednesday. I got a vv faint positive at 9/10DPO. Iv had 3 consecutive miscarriages so my anxiety is through the roof. Going to call EPAU this morning as I can self refer. These are my latest test (the digi was taken yesterday at 12DPO) just looking for a bit of support, re assurance or for some honesty.

Should I prepare for the worse?
Should I prepare for the worse?
Should I prepare for the worse?
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LW678 · 23/04/2024 17:19

I had a 6 week scan the time I had a missed miscarriage and at 6 weeks all there was was a gestational sac so I should have known really then that it wasn’t progressing so at 5+6 you’ve got the sac and yolk sac. As I said my scan at 5+3 was only the sac and literally the start of the yolk sac, it was just a dot

JNicko · 23/04/2024 17:22

LW678 · 23/04/2024 17:19

I had a 6 week scan the time I had a missed miscarriage and at 6 weeks all there was was a gestational sac so I should have known really then that it wasn’t progressing so at 5+6 you’ve got the sac and yolk sac. As I said my scan at 5+3 was only the sac and literally the start of the yolk sac, it was just a dot

Hopefully it sounds like all is ok. Don't get the dating of less than 5 weeks though?? He didn't even show me the screen either so I didn't actually see it for myself

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LW678 · 23/04/2024 17:24

@JNicko bizarre for him to have dated you less than 5 weeks

SwordToFlamethrower · 23/04/2024 17:47

Ask for a progesterone prescription and take baby aspirin immediately

JNicko · 23/04/2024 17:52

SwordToFlamethrower · 23/04/2024 17:47

Ask for a progesterone prescription and take baby aspirin immediately

They have prescribed me progesterone so I'm getting that tonight. Iv not been told to take aspirin? I asked if there's anything I should take and they just said folic acid and multivitamin

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JNicko · 23/04/2024 17:53

LW678 · 23/04/2024 17:24

@JNicko bizarre for him to have dated you less than 5 weeks

Yes it is bizarre.

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Livingonhope · 23/04/2024 19:05

I went this evening for a scan im only 4 weeks 4 days but I had some spotting They have said its likely to be a etopic pregnancy ( pregnancy of unknown but they think its in my fallopian tube) devasted so will be coming off this forum good luck to everyone

LW678 · 23/04/2024 19:08

@Livingonhope sorry to hear that. 4+4 would be very early to see something anyway surely? I hope things work out for you

JNicko · 24/04/2024 05:36

Well started the progesterone last night. Woke up this morning and wiped and a small spot of blood 😫

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LW678 · 24/04/2024 06:36

@JNicko could be irritation from the progesterone?

JNicko · 24/04/2024 06:41

LW678 · 24/04/2024 06:36

@JNicko could be irritation from the progesterone?

Hope so 😢

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Livingonhope · 24/04/2024 10:01

LW678 · 23/04/2024 19:08

@Livingonhope sorry to hear that. 4+4 would be very early to see something anyway surely? I hope things work out for you

They did see something in my fallopian tube but low and behold hcg had jumped from 140 to 711 in four days so they are bringing me back in tomorrow for another scan and bloods. scared as he'll and really hoping they are wrong:(

TheShellBeach · 24/04/2024 10:49

I'm really sorry @Livingonhope
You must be so anxious.

TheShellBeach · 24/04/2024 10:49

And you, too, @JNicko
Seeing blood is the scariest thing.

JNicko · 24/04/2024 11:12

TheShellBeach · 24/04/2024 10:49

And you, too, @JNicko
Seeing blood is the scariest thing.

I'm hoping it's nothing. It was only very small circle. Iv had nothing more since.

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LW678 · 24/04/2024 13:03

Good luck for tomorrow @Livingonhope

Probablyfinebutworried · 24/04/2024 14:02

JNicko · 24/04/2024 11:12

I'm hoping it's nothing. It was only very small circle. Iv had nothing more since.

If it provides any comfort, I had a bit of blood most days of my first trimester and all was fine. Fingers crossed for you.

JNicko · 24/04/2024 14:40

@Probablyfinebutworried thanks. I had an internal scan yesterday and said all was fine

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SwordToFlamethrower · 24/04/2024 14:43

JNicko · 23/04/2024 17:52

They have prescribed me progesterone so I'm getting that tonight. Iv not been told to take aspirin? I asked if there's anything I should take and they just said folic acid and multivitamin

Google baby aspirin, it can help prevent miscarriage

JNicko · 24/04/2024 15:21

@SwordToFlamethrower 75mg?

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Probablyfinebutworried · 26/04/2024 22:51

How are you getting on @JNicko ?

JNicko · 26/04/2024 23:54

@Probablyfinebutworried I'm doing ok thanks. No more bleeding or spotting. Pregnancy test is still strong. Just on countdown for my scan on 7th x

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JNicko · 29/04/2024 06:18

@LW678 is it your scan this week? X

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LW678 · 29/04/2024 06:40

@JNicko yep Wednesday, really concerned about how normal I’m feeling though. I want these pregnancy symptoms to hit me in full force! X

JNicko · 29/04/2024 06:51

LW678 · 29/04/2024 06:40

@JNicko yep Wednesday, really concerned about how normal I’m feeling though. I want these pregnancy symptoms to hit me in full force! X

Im the same not really got many symptoms. The thing that's getting me is the extreme tiredness. I could sleep for England. I wouldn't worry about symptoms, everyone is different and it's not an indicator or pregnancy doing well/not doing well. How far along will you be on Wednesday? X

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