Not pregnant after chemical

[Millie1501]

Hey guys, I believe I had a chemical pregnancy in December. I had several faint positive tests that got more faint over several days. I read so many success stories of people conceiving the month after a chemical so was hoping I would. I am now on day 2 of a new cycle so did not conceive this month. I am feeling really down about it and worried this might never happen for me. Did anyone conceive soon after a chemical but not the month after?

As Millie said definitely don’t lose hope it took me 7 months after chemical and all seems to be going really well I’m so grateful I felt so lost after the chemical and hopeless so I’m delighted that Its going as planned so far this time. Keep us updated and sending all the positive vibes

I'm cycle 15 after our chemical on cycle 2, trying so hard not to lose all hope 😢

@Angelselevenx omg that is really rough hun 😥. I’m so sorry it’s been like this for you. Have you and your partner had any fertility investigations? Xx

@Millie1501 yep, all completely normal 😭. I've got my hycosy tomorrow 😬

@Angelselevenx I’m around the same as you after my chemical, 18 months but missed a couple cycles so probably about 16 cycles. It’s awful. I’m sorry, I really sympathise with you and hope we both get our bfps soon x

@Endomummy sending love and support, here if you want to chat cause I know how hard it is. Watching everyone around you and just being left in the background whilst everyone moves on with life xx

@Angelselevenx @Endomummy I am sorry to hear that you are still trying to conceive after CP and it must be really hard and mentally challenging to see people close to you getting pregnant. I had a CP last month and I am already feeling a bit lost. However I do hope this will be your month! Sending huge virtual hugs to you!

@Angelselevenx thank you, same to you too! Sorry you are in the same situation :( I don’t come on here as regularly anymore as I find it makes me feel even worse when I see people conceiving quickly. Or complaining it’s taking too long when they are still within the normal 12 month timeframe. I really dislike how bitter this has made me and how I feel whenever I see pregnant women or women with loads of kids. Are you going to keep ttc or would you do any fertility treatments? I feel like I’m at a crossroads now trying to decide what to do x

@LucyCL i am really sorry to hear you had a CP too. Since I had mine I don’t feel like the void will heal until I conceive again, which isn’t nice but I’ve accepted it is the way I will feel until I can move beyond this, the only way I can move forward is to conceive again. I really hope you are able to take some time for yourself though. My cycle was messed up for a few months after, thought I would mention it in case it happens to you too x

@Endomummy we qualify for IVF in February so we will go for IVF then. As much as I wanted to believe it would happen naturally, I've lost all hope I just don't think it will now ☹️. What about you? X

I think I am at the end of the second cycle after CP and tomorrow I will get AF so it will be the beginning of the third cycle.
The first and the current cycles have been affected by CP which was expected.
However I wonder if the third cycle is also going to be slightly affected or it will turn out to be a normal one.
My cycles used to last for 27 - 32 days before 2 MCs and now the previous two and the current one have been quite long for me, 34 days.
2 MCs also have delayed my ovulation from CD15 to CD21/22.
I'd appreciate if you could share your experiences or stories.