9dpo bfn am I out

[Bex4567]

So currently on month 3 of tcc...really felt positive this month but dod a test this and bfn im 9dpi...

Do u think im out...struggling with this ttc getting me down

@Annonomous29 hey how are you ?
still nothing my end due on today! So bloody Wish it will happen next year

@gtx1797h
Hey all good thanks still no news on my end… this month i was 6 dsys late and that never happens so had had my hopes up but what can you do.
im having investigations i am due to have a dye xray of my uterus fallopian tubes to see if anything is wrong . Hopefully they can get to thr bottom of why i cant fall pregs at all..

@Annonomous29 it so cruel! Can you let me know how the due xray goes? Is this on the NHS? I think o need this but am petrified of doctors due to a previous bad experience!
im 2 days late now. Body is messing with me as im sure im not pregnant
last month 25 day cycle this month 30 majorly messing with me. So horrible

*dye

Hey sorry forbthe delay

yes its on Nhs and i had to ask to be referred to fertility which my gp did not refer as i have 2 previous children so my Gynae reffered me to fertility.

Gps try their best to not refer nowadays.

I have not done the xray yet when i do i will let u know

Heya Bex.

Just stumbled upon your post when searching about BFN on 9DPO. As that's what I have currently. Read your journey and wondered if you did fall pregnant.

We've been trying for our first baby for 39 cycles (3 years!). Had all the possible tests, all normal, nothing wrong. Just unexplained infertility. I'm now 41 as been trying so long. (Met my husband when I was 37 and we got married after a year and started trying on honeymoon when I was 38).

We did conceive on cycle 16 and I got my BFP early on 8DPO but it ended in a loss at 6+5. :-(

I kinda expect to get a BFP early so getting a BFN on 9DPO tells me I'm out.

Any encouragement would be appreciated. Thanks all.

@gtx1797h hey hope you’re well just wanted to let you know that I had my dye scan yesterday and it turns out that my left tube is blocked however that doesn’t explain the infertility. It’s been about two years right now. I hope you’ve got the used to got your BFP. I’ll let you know the next steps.

@Annonomous29 ok so I was going to get the dye after you said it on your previous post as I did some deep reading as it cleans everything out and it’s very common to conceive in the first few months following the dye test. I was due after you said it also above to get my day 21 cycle blood test on the 3rd of Jan which would have been day 21. I booked these when you said and just as a precaution on day 20 I took a cheap test to discover I am pregnant. I can only put this down to being relaxed that I had the tests booked in. I can’t think of any other reason it would happen. I’m now 10 weeks pregnant
I really hope you get your BFP soon as you kept the hope alive for me

@gtx1797h OMG Im really happy for you Bless you I hope everything goes well……keep me updated hows you pregnancy been so far…

Thank you it reallys means alot….🥰