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9dpo bfn am I out

111 replies

Bex4567 · 31/10/2023 10:06

So currently on month 3 of tcc...really felt positive this month but dod a test this and bfn im 9dpi...

Do u think im out...struggling with this ttc getting me down

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Amy7912 · 06/12/2023 06:30

Hi. I'm 10dpo yesterday I did a test 9dpo with an urine and had a shadow of a line you could only see by literally taking it apart and holding it in a certain light. Last night something told me to do my last test and I got a bfp! Line came up straight away very clear. So fmu wasn't better for me. Fingers crossed for your bfp!

Annonomous29 · 06/12/2023 10:02

Amy7912 · 06/12/2023 06:30

Hi. I'm 10dpo yesterday I did a test 9dpo with an urine and had a shadow of a line you could only see by literally taking it apart and holding it in a certain light. Last night something told me to do my last test and I got a bfp! Line came up straight away very clear. So fmu wasn't better for me. Fingers crossed for your bfp!

@Amy7912
Thank you, you have given me some hope I have used opks this time so very hopeful sorry to be stupid whats does fmu stand for.

Annonomous29 · 07/12/2023 14:34

@Amy7912 I forgot to say a BIG FAT CONGRATULATIONS 🥳

Bex4567 · 07/12/2023 15:14

Congrats how many months and how old are u if u don't mind me asking

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gtx1797h · 26/04/2024 12:45

Im in the same boat now, did you conceive as yet I’ve been trying since nov 23

moosey89 · 26/04/2024 14:32

@Bex4567 are you doing ok? Haven't seen anything from you in a while so wanted to check in. Hope everything is ok x

Annonomous29 · 26/04/2024 16:10

@gtx1797h
hi i have been ttc since Oct 23 no luck as if yet. I didn’t know who you message was intended to sorry but thought i would ans.

gtx1797h · 26/04/2024 16:35

@Annonomous29 it was to the OP but you as well :)
I’m sorry you are having no luck
I’m in the same position since OCT/ NOV 23
it’s so frustrating
I am going to convince my OH to DTD daily next month 😂

Annonomous29 · 26/04/2024 16:49

@gtx1797h
have you got any dc i have 2 dd 1 is 9 1 is 7 i also have been diagnosed with underactive thyroid for which i take meds its a really frustrating process the tww kills and everytime not succeeding really gets me low it just feels so unreal when people get their bfp instantly and i have been unsuccessful for the 6th time. Not that im not happy for them i just can’t help the feeling low.

hahaha 😝

gtx1797h · 26/04/2024 17:34

@Annonomous29 omg same DD1 is 9 DD2 is 7!! (8 in July)
I am desperate for no 3 also (we both are)
i HAttte the tww it’s super depressing I am 9DPO today xx BFN this morning obviously!! It’s winding me right up now 😩

Annonomous29 · 26/04/2024 17:53

@gtx1797h
OMG no way your children are the same age im on the same boat here both of us including the dc are desperate for a little one. But I don’t know how much i can take on mentally the dejection feels too much at times. 😔

gtx1797h · 26/04/2024 21:29

@Annonomous29 it’s mad isn’t it! What stage are you in your cycle
make sure you update on here when you get your BFP! i conceived last year in June so hoping mine is coming soon (we sadly had a MMC / miscarriage at 12 weeks) xx

gtx1797h · 26/04/2024 21:30

I’m thinking this month not to track after I get my period as it’s just too much @Annonomous29

Annonomous29 · 27/04/2024 11:00

gtx1797h · 26/04/2024 21:29

@Annonomous29 it’s mad isn’t it! What stage are you in your cycle
make sure you update on here when you get your BFP! i conceived last year in June so hoping mine is coming soon (we sadly had a MMC / miscarriage at 12 weeks) xx

@gtx1797h
I am currently cycle day 4 its strange really i always had regular cycles 28/29 days with a 5/6 day bleed despite having Coil even after i took it out last July but since march i have been having 25/26 day cycles and 2/3 days bleed which never happened to me before i am having investigations already due to medical condition and really bad pain during ovulation. Everything came back normal and healthy so far therefore im even more confused.

Annonomous29 · 27/04/2024 11:01

gtx1797h · 26/04/2024 21:29

@Annonomous29 it’s mad isn’t it! What stage are you in your cycle
make sure you update on here when you get your BFP! i conceived last year in June so hoping mine is coming soon (we sadly had a MMC / miscarriage at 12 weeks) xx

@gtx1797h
im so sorry to hear that but yh will keep in touch needed a ttc buddy.

Annonomous29 · 27/04/2024 11:01

gtx1797h · 26/04/2024 21:30

I’m thinking this month not to track after I get my period as it’s just too much @Annonomous29

@gtx1797h I don’t track anyway its too much for me

gtx1797h · 27/04/2024 22:57

@Annonomous29 10 DPO for me I’m out this month I reckon. I’ve got 10 ovulation test sticks left will track with the remainder then I’m done tracking. Can’t take the disappointment anymore and the dreaded tww. I’ve had enough!

gtx1797h · 27/04/2024 22:58

@Annonomous29 best of luck for
you for this month xx

Annonomous29 · 28/04/2024 11:30

@gtx1797hyh I know what you mean about tracking i feel the same hence why i stopped. Thanks for the luck although im not hopeful seen as luck is not in my favour atm.

Bex4567 · 30/04/2024 23:26

Hi I'm.ok..had fertility bloods done and come back with high testosterone so that's freaked me out for a while worrying...Still ttc month 9 now

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Annonomous29 · 01/05/2024 08:39

Bex4567 · 30/04/2024 23:26

Hi I'm.ok..had fertility bloods done and come back with high testosterone so that's freaked me out for a while worrying...Still ttc month 9 now

@Bex4567
aww hope we all get our bfps soon what cycle day are you. Its been 6months for me seems like decades im currently cd8

Bex4567 · 01/05/2024 08:50

W dpo according to app but who knows lol

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Annonomous29 · 21/05/2024 16:04

@Bex4567 @gtx1797h
hey ladies how have you been?

gtx1797h · 21/05/2024 16:39

Hey
Frustrated!! currently 7dpo according to my app (8 days since peak reading)
i feel we done everything by the book this month however today i feel im getting that awful progesterone drop headache
How are you @Annonomous29
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Annonomous29 · 21/05/2024 17:07

gtx1797h · 21/05/2024 16:39

Hey
Frustrated!! currently 7dpo according to my app (8 days since peak reading)
i feel we done everything by the book this month however today i feel im getting that awful progesterone drop headache
How are you @Annonomous29
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@gtx1797h
aww bless I am currently CD28 AF was meanto show for the past 3 days but has not Im having symptoms like cramps sore boobs and that but no AF tested this morning got BFN. I am feeling exactly like you frustrated