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9dpo bfn am I out

111 replies

Bex4567 · 31/10/2023 10:06

So currently on month 3 of tcc...really felt positive this month but dod a test this and bfn im 9dpi...

Do u think im out...struggling with this ttc getting me down

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gtx1797h · 29/05/2024 11:11

AF arrived for me today
I had a 28 day cycle so I am actually pretty happy with that and hopeful I will conceive in July!
how are you @Annonomous29 @Bex4567

Annonomous29 · 29/05/2024 11:58

gtx1797h · 29/05/2024 11:11

AF arrived for me today
I had a 28 day cycle so I am actually pretty happy with that and hopeful I will conceive in July!
how are you @Annonomous29 @Bex4567

@gtx1797h
Im good thanks tryinh to be positive for this cycle its soo draining and nit that i am jelous everyone around me is conceiving on the first or second attempt 😔makes me feel like something is wrong with me

gtx1797h · 03/07/2024 11:50

@Annonomous29 nothing is wrong! Just keep at it that’s all you can do
I will keep you updated on my situation but this month I’m trying something which I am hoping will work
will report back in 2 weeks!

Annonomous29 · 03/07/2024 12:17

gtx1797h · 03/07/2024 11:50

@Annonomous29 nothing is wrong! Just keep at it that’s all you can do
I will keep you updated on my situation but this month I’m trying something which I am hoping will work
will report back in 2 weeks!

@gtx1797h hey long time… yes absolutely exactly what i am doing currently cd14 please do let me know if it works. I had a scan recently which showed a 6cm cyst on my right ovary not sure if thats anything to do with no getting pregnant although gynae thinks its not as it is a hemorrhagic cyst

gtx1797h · 03/07/2024 15:20

@Annonomous29 whole situation is a nightmare I how you get that sorted x

Annonomous29 · 03/07/2024 15:35

@gtx1797h
fingers crossed

Annonomous29 · 27/07/2024 10:53

@gtx1797h Hey any luck????

gtx1797h · 27/07/2024 22:16

Ugh no not from me @Annonomous29 I’ve re started my contraceptive to boost my hormones
will report back in a few weeks
how about you??

Annonomous29 · 27/07/2024 23:33

gtx1797h · 27/07/2024 22:16

Ugh no not from me @Annonomous29 I’ve re started my contraceptive to boost my hormones
will report back in a few weeks
how about you??

Same no luck for me either the have done repeat ultrasound which shows the cyst has disappeared so I do not have a clue what is going on its so frustrating what do you mean by contraceptive is that a good thing for ttc

gtx1797h · 28/07/2024 17:34

oh ok well not finding anything is a good thing hopefully
so I think from reading let’s say if someone does IVF they put you on a contraceptive for 7-10 days to regulate your periods and help stimulate follicles with the medication (typically clomid) which is soy isoflavanes

gtx1797h · 28/07/2024 17:37

I’m testing it all for the next 2weeksso I’ll report back if it works @Annonomous29

Annonomous29 · 29/07/2024 10:00

@gtx1797h
Great Good luck

Annonomous29 · 13/10/2024 01:40

@gtx1797h hey how are you???

gtx1797h · 13/10/2024 11:49

Hey same from me still chasing a positive test
nothing
we have not DTD enough this month so I know it’s not worked but I’m taking progesterone and baby aspirin anyway
I did take soy isoflavanes and had VERY strong ovulation but as I say we only DTD 2 days before and 1 day after ovulation so it hasn’t worked
how are you please tell me something has worked for you

Annonomous29 · 13/10/2024 19:54

@gtx1797h
aww same nothings worked yet for me have not tried anything extra heard the lube works will try it had some tests done same with Dp all came back normal so just don’t know where I am going wrong been a year this month since ttc.. getting really upset now… i just hope theres a miracle.

gtx1797h · 14/10/2024 00:58

Mine is now also a year next month! Hoping it’s our time soon x @Annonomous29

Annonomous29 · 14/10/2024 08:16

gtx1797h · 14/10/2024 00:58

Mine is now also a year next month! Hoping it’s our time soon x @Annonomous29

Fingers crossed I just don’t seen to understand where we are going wrong tbh.

gtx1797h · 14/10/2024 13:21

Same it makes no sense, what tests did you have done? As everything with you is clear I would try soy isoflavanes before ovulation to see if that works @Annonomous29

Annonomous29 · 14/10/2024 14:31

gtx1797h · 14/10/2024 13:21

Same it makes no sense, what tests did you have done? As everything with you is clear I would try soy isoflavanes before ovulation to see if that works @Annonomous29

I done the ovulation test had gynaecologist check ultrasound hubby had sperm anylasis all came back positive i might give it a try.

gtx1797h · 16/10/2024 16:13

10DPO today on route home from work and had the sharpest pain for about 30 seconds
was thinking could be implantation pain….@Annonomous29

Annonomous29 · 16/10/2024 23:35

@gtx1797h fingers crossed for you i really hope it is….☺️ keep me updated

Annonomous29 · 31/10/2024 15:38

@gtx1797h
any luck????

gtx1797h · 12/11/2024 22:11

@Annonomous29 afraid not!
giving up hope now
it’s absolutely useless!
how are you getting on?

Annonomous29 · 13/11/2024 00:20

gtx1797h · 12/11/2024 22:11

@Annonomous29 afraid not!
giving up hope now
it’s absolutely useless!
how are you getting on?

@gtx1797h
hey same been over a yr now also giving up feel like i was stupid to have kept my hopes up even the lube didn’t help. Dr say they cannot help as i have 2 kids.

ClaudiaRaff · 17/11/2024 12:34

So frustrated, 12dpo today and AF did not appear. Now it took a bit of photo manipulation to get the faintest of lines on the top two tests to appear but the top is 11 dpo fmu and 2nd down is 12dpo fmu. Surely if I was actually pregnancy they would be unmistakenly visible at this stage and not just the faintest of shadows? Now I'm not looking for false hope from anybody, just maybe someone who has been in a similar situation before and what their outcome was?

9dpo bfn am I out
9dpo bfn am I out