9dpo bfn am I out

[Bex4567]

So currently on month 3 of tcc...really felt positive this month but dod a test this and bfn im 9dpi...

Do u think im out...struggling with this ttc getting me down

Sorry to here this do u have an children my youngest is nearly 13..im due on today only had a small bit of brown earlier nothing since probably come full force tomorrow
Sending baby dust

I do I have 3 children which I'm greatful for. I got told in march I was pre menapausal which set me back quite abit as I didn't expect it. This is the first month I've got a positive opk and cm and spotting on ovulation day. Then 6 days later red spotting when I wiped and now I'm waiting but the brown discharge has slightly started today, still bfn I feel like I'm out this month. What test are you using?

I used a easy @home one...im sure it will come on tomorrow..how old are u do you mind me asking ..im 37 and so worried its not going to happen.. we've only been trying for 3 months but it's so disheartening when people are catching early.

I'm 32. Luckily in the past I have never needed to try I could have almost planned every time I wanted to get pregnant. I've donated my eggs 6 times I'm not sure if this has affected me for conceiving now. But don't be disheartened by it yet you've only been TTC for 3months that's nothing compared to some people, I've been looking at these tablets there called concieve plus people have swore by them helping them to conceive maybe have a look at them and see if they help you. I ordered some yesterday

I will do thankyou

Hi
can I join pls?
Im ttc but it is such a draining process I have 2 children and they were both suprise pregnancys so have never ttc before. I have had symptoms but it followed with af 12dpo 😔. I just need to speak to someone who is on a similar ship.

Welcome how long have u been trying for..I also have 2 children youngest 13 in Dec...trying to concievee now but 37 on month 4 of actively trying.. I no it hasn't been long but so stressful each month when uve done everything you can each month..

Thank you.
I have only been actively trying for 1 month but already getting stressed as I got diagnosed with underactive thyroid after my last Dd and was told it is difficult to get pregnant with the condition.
I am 28 so doctors have said it shouldn’t have a big effect but still really scared😳.
Hats off to everyone who has been ttc for a long time this 1 month made me an emotional wreck. Thinking of using OPKs next time.

Yeah its def stressful...I used opks last month and month before hit peaks but still didn't happen 😪I would say def do them as my spp was saying I was ovulating earlier than I was ..u can get like 20 easy at homeones for like 9 pound

Yes Definitely will do. I do not understand how you lovely ladies have this much strength and patience.

I hope you get your BFP soon I pray for you.

I dont have any lol..going into month 4 fertile week now...im trying to be more relaxed about thing now it will happen when it happens we'll in the back of my mind it's still there 😪a women I work with had a child at 41 so that gives me hope

Awww bless her.
yh I read about people havings babies at 40-45 plus and get a boost.
I said this time im going to be chill about it but i know i am saying this now when time comes i am just going to be soo obsessed but fingers crossed i will try to keep chill like you said it will happen when it happens.
My fertile week is next week.
Fingers crossed for you tho.

And u...my fertile week is from Thursday I thjnk with ovulation on 17th but I'll confirm that with opks...its so stressful hopefully someone will get there bfp

My fertile week is from Sunday with Ovulation on Friday going to do the same as you and check with opks.

@Bex4567
Hiya… I thought to just check in see how your doing Im currently cd11 started using the opks for the first time haven’t got a peak just yet lets see how it goes

I'm ok thanks didn't concieve that month on month 4 now just going into the 2ww again 😪

@Bex4567 Aww i hope it works this month

@Bex4567
Hey how you doing?
how many day you got left until your tww is over?

Hey..im currently 4dpo I think so a way to go yet 🤦‍♀️how about u,how are u doing...the weird thing about this month is I don't seem to feel any symptoms..previous months I've had cramps, bloating ect and had bfn and this month don't feel any symptoms bar slightly sore boobs weird

@Bex4567
Oh hopefully time will pass soon.
I good thank you currently cd13 but still no positive opks have ewcm so no idea what’s happening tbh. Im trying to stay chilled about it don’t know how long it will last.
I know right its funny how you get all these symptoms and a bfn but when you don’t have any symptoms you don’t know what to expect because last month I had implantation cramps nusea bloating the full shabang and still no bfp.

I havnt stressed and thought about this month so that's maybe why I've had no symptoms lol

@Bex4567 Hey how you doing???
im currently 9dpo but no symptoms at all i did a early pg but bfn. Im chilled actually so not that fussed about the result just got to wait and see..

Hi af came unfortunately a day early ..just finishing period now in a day or to thwn onto month 5 😪good luck to you

@Bex4567 Oh nooooo… Better luck for next cycle….