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WHAT DO WE WANT??...BFPs WHEN DO WE WANT THEM??...NOW!!!! symptom spotters and 2wwaiters brand spanking new thread [grin]

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EiWishFor3MoreWishes · 22/02/2008 16:25

so here is our new LUCK-STUFFED thread
anyone got symptoms (or not which is a sympotm) get sharing!!
i have set up a table of cakes, biscuits, sweets and chocolate with the kettle on the boil for our teapot!! some comfy chairs and footstools get comfy and get chatting good luck is in the pot on the table do as you please with it (eat it, put it in your pockets, stir it in your tea) lets all do a concerted effort to get our BFPs
xx ei xx

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hattyyellow · 12/03/2008 09:47

ps fairy we flew to NZ and back with our twins when they were nearly 1 and then nearly 2. .

Agree lots of snacks, particulary raisins in little boxes that take longer to extract by little hands! New solid books, have you seen "busy railway"? Has lots of dials to turn and pop up bits and is very chunkily made in solid cardboard.

And little bag full of random tat. Our girls got flight bags on board with little toys and colouring books in and they loved them.

People will appreciate that you are trying to occupy them and strangers can be lovely. One lady played peekaboo with my girls from the seat behind for hours!

pinkgirl30 · 12/03/2008 09:50

morning jb and hy - thanks for good luck

mibbes · 12/03/2008 11:10

Hello ladies ! Am back from holidays now. Looks like you have been busy on here. Sorry for those who TEW got - grrr she is soo evil .
So much to catch up with - was hoping to see lots of BFPs, but maybe this weekend... fingers crossed ladies ! JB missed you too and all you other lovely ladies !
I'll do a proper catch-up post tomorrow when have more time as still off work and about to go out.
Quick update here is that have been bd'ing lots but temp still hasn't risen and on day 20 ! Ov'd on cd 17 last cycle so keep thinking "excellent another BD in the bag temp will rise tomorrow" then it doesn't . DP will be away from tomorrow so I need the rise to happen ! Had a small rise today but don't think it is enough for ov... how frustrating but thank goodness for temping as would have stopped BD'ing at the weekend without it

'speak' properly tomorrow.

JollyBear · 12/03/2008 12:46

Hello hatty, I'm 8DPO at the moment and am not going to test before Sunday but would like to hold out for longer to avoid a dreaded BFN and then the 'oh I must have tested too early' senario! Great sounding symptoms there, are you going to hold out or give into the temptation of testing?

Great to see you back mibbes . Mmm, travelling might have set your ov back a few days or messed your temps up a bit. My temp rose slightly the day before ov this cycle and then shot up the next day so fingers crossed you'll get a rise tomorrow. Set your DP's alarm extra early tomorrow for a sneaky bd before he goes away .

pinkgirl30 · 12/03/2008 13:33

welcome back m hope that you had a great time? where did you go?

beaniesteve · 12/03/2008 13:38

Thanks Jollybear

I am trying to relax

JollyBear · 12/03/2008 14:49

beanie Stress about TTC, symptom spotting (or not), and the dragging nature of the 2WW as much as you like . That is what the symptom spotting thread is for .

I just mean relax about the opks because they don't work for everyone and you might be worrying unnecessarily because you ov a few days ago but missed the surge. Maybe the surge is shorter on a short cycle? I have no scientific basis for that!! It just occured to me!

beaniesteve · 12/03/2008 14:58

lol - thank you

I figure if I am ovulating I would have by now (CD17 now) so am hoping that all the practice has paid off.

EiWishFor3MoreWishes · 12/03/2008 15:12

afternoon ladies
i havent been able to get online for a few days as the stupid wind had messed our internet connection up somehow its fixed now obviously so hopefully that will be the last of the problems
hi to JB and the high temp sounds promising
and a big hello to pink TF MOB hatty tantiK emmsy scary and mibbes nice to see you back we have missed you lady
well i was supposed to be starting temping this mornin and forgot so i will have to start tomorrow now silly me!!
hope everyone is well and hi to anyone i missed
xx ei xx

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EiWishFor3MoreWishes · 12/03/2008 15:14

sorry i missed beanie and bucky GG and PnM a big HELLO to you girls too
xx ei xx

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Treats · 12/03/2008 16:05

Hi everyone. Hope you had a good holiday mibbes (former cycle buddy, although I seem to be two days ahead now). My ov'ing signs have been all over the shop this month as well.

Trying and failing not to obsess, even though it's at least a week and a half until AF is due. I WILL NOT do a test this month until I'm at least on Day 35......

pinkgirl30 · 12/03/2008 16:26

hi ei the wind is a pain isnt it!!

EiWishFor3MoreWishes · 12/03/2008 18:59

hi pink the wind is really gettin up here now MILs rooftiles have been flying around the street all day so she isnt too impressed up to now we havent been too badly affected like some on the news so fingers crossed it goes away soon
xx ei xx

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mibbes · 12/03/2008 19:50

Thanks for the welcome back ladies - went to Madeira and had a lovely time relaxing in the sun, hill walking and of course BD'ing

ScaryHairy · 12/03/2008 20:37

Welcome back Mibbes - glad you had a good holiday. It sounds very healthy going on holiday and hill walking. When I go away my exercise regime consists of walking to the sun lounger and picking up a book!

Ei the wind has been evil. Last night I thought my windows might blow in (overactive imagination) but it was far worse here last night than it was on Sunday.

Have you had any more dreams Ei?

Treats and JB you are both very good holding out to test. I cracked and did one today even though I am 9dpo at most. I thought there might be a line, then there didn't seem to be one any more after a while, so who knows. Moral of the story - don't test until at least 10dpo and use FMU! I hav cramps too, but sort of fleeting, so who knows what gives.

I must not obsess, I must not obsess.

Has anyone seen 07MTW? I was wondering how things are going for her...

Hello to everyone else who is here tonight.

EiWishFor3MoreWishes · 12/03/2008 21:05

oooooh scary sounds promisin wit your almost BFP im keepin my fingers crossed for you hunny and i have had more weird dreams but none MN or preg related unfortunately the weirdest by far is the one where i was sat laughing in my MILs because my FIL was dancing giving it loads in the middle of the room it was even wierder cos my FIL is so quiet and reserved ahh well il try and dream of you and your BFP tonight lol
xx ei xx

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ScaryHairy · 12/03/2008 21:08

Don't get too excited Ei. Really after the last few months I am certainly not going to...

pinkgirl30 · 13/03/2008 08:19

morning ladies

mibbes · 13/03/2008 09:45

hatty all the best with your examination and finding out what is happening. FWIW I had an internal exam when I went to see GP 2 weeks ago and it was way less uncomfortable than a smear, nothing to worry about atall. Anyway hopefully you won't need the exam if your mood swings are PG hormone related

Bucky how are you missus ? You still lurking out there ?

Ei managed to conjure up an dreams then ? Is all still going smoothly with the house exchange ?

pinkgirl how are you this morning ? Am I right in saying this is your first cycle since you came off the pill ? If so are you still BD'ing just in case ? My friend had several very long cycles when she came off the pill so just in case this is why your are so late it'd be a shame if you missed the egg - keep at it hun sorry if I have the wrong end of the stick though

ScaryHairy did you test again today...? I have everything crossed for you . If you get BFP we'll all be meditating hummmmmm......

Treats hi former CB. do you think you have ov'd now, any symptoms ?

JB yes maybe flying has delayed ov or maybe just a longer cycle as they can be unpredictable. I can't wait until you test on Sunday - I'd love to see you get a BFP hun xx

beaniesteve when did you start opks ? maybe with such a short cycle you ov'd before you started testing ? hope you caught the egg anyway, as opks don't work for everyone.

Hi stroppy Fairy !!! how are you my dear ? any symptoms today ? Lucky you being taken on holiday !

MOB any news from you ? do you think reflexology has helped then ?

GG have you managed to get to the bottom of DH's results ? Have ladies on other threads been able to shed any light or give you advice ?

pinkgirl30 · 13/03/2008 11:09

morning mibbes
i am great thanks no sign of af or of it coming as not moody and no cramps just wet clear cm. yep we are bding every 3 days
yep is my 1st cycle since pill!!
hope that you are well 2
good luck with temperature

JollyBear · 13/03/2008 11:13

Morning all,

mibbes I'd say you have ov. 36.46 is high for 6am if your temps are usually below 36.45 and taken an hour and 15 mins later. The temp corrector on the VIP membership used to add on about .3 for every 15 mins earlier than usual temp and remove .3 for being over. That is v approximate and I only worked that out myself so don't take it as gospel!! Your holiday sounds blissful .

SH An almost kind of line is great news, are you retesting today? Oooh do let us know.

ei Have you started temping today? I had an odd dream last night I was looking for a maternity unit because I wanted to see a midwife! When I found them they were smoking and wearing old fashioned uniforms . Very odd!

treats Good luck with holding out! What CD or DPO are you?

hatty How are you feeling? There are a few of us biting our nails at the moment aren't there?!

Nothing much in the way of symptoms over here apart from feeling tired and hungry but I'm often like that .

Hello to bucky, GG, PnM, fairy, MOB, pink and anyone else, lurkers or otherwise.

pinkgirl30 · 13/03/2008 11:25

morning jb
hope that u r having a gd one
no af cd 47 and no sign of her coming not moody and no cramps just lots of clear cm

twinklingfairy · 13/03/2008 13:06

I lol at Stroppy Fairy mibbes

There was a lady on th etemping thread who had the same with her post ov temps being low for a whil, but FF still kept her ov date as was. I wouldn't worry mibbes. The EWCM is surley a good sign. And, as you say, either temp is above your cover line.
I am really messing up my temps over the past few days. Keep waking too early and then dozing. So I get low temps when I first wake and better ones after my doze.
I am at the end of my LP now, so I am putting the higher temps in, so that I can kid myself that AF is not on her way
Silly, huh?

Ooh, scary my CB! Are you testing again today? I am 11dpo today norm LP is 11, so I am going to give AF a couple more days to make her appearance then test on Saturday.
Ei dream of me!!! 8 months of trying, I have had enough!

madoldbird · 13/03/2008 13:20

Hello ladies

mibbes lovely to see you back. Sounds like you had a lovely holiday. Sounds like you have ov'd (although i'm no expert on temping) here's hoping for a holiday bean for you!! Thank you for asking about the relexology. It is definitely making me feel far less stressed and anxious about ttc. I had a session this morning, and she said that the area that corresponds to my uterus is "hot". Apparently thats a good thing! She seemed very positive.

EI sorry to hear about the problems you have had with the terrible wind. I think that it is definitely a symptom - farting so badly the broadband goes down

pinkgirl It does sound like you may be ov now. I always get white cm followed by lots of clear. A good indication is (according to what i've read) a round, very damp patch in underwear! Any other wetness / discharge won't be so obviously round. It may be that when you got EWCM at CD14, that your body tried to ov, but didn't.

hattyyellow hope your DH is right and you are PG!!!

scaryhairy have you done another test? i'm on tenterhooks!!!

I'm afraid work is calling, but a big hello to everyone i haven't mentioned (including fairy )

pinkgirl30 · 13/03/2008 13:25

thanks bird that is hopeful