EMMSY1'S WAITING ROOM (WAITING FOR HER FRIENDS TO GET THEIR BFP) STAY AS LONG AS YOU LIKE!

[Emmsy1]

Right girls told you I was going to create my own waiting room. feel free to come and go as you like, I will be staying put until loads of you get your BFP especially,mibbes Ei Sparkly piper molliemooma fruity cricri treats

Emmsy1 BFP 13th Feb 08 (due end of October)

mibbes know what you mean about the knicker thread, it can be quite scary to see what can happen, I only lurk now and again to see how some of the graduates from the M/C thread are getting on! Glad your mum will be around to help you, it can be quite hard work at first, just getting into a routine of feeding etc... I couldn't breast feed because I had a reduction so had to bottle feed in the end, you seem to be making bottles everytime your awake! I didn't get much sleep for the first 3 months as DS woke every couple of hours for a feed, and when he was asleep I was poking him to see if he was still alive! it got easier after 1st, this baby will have to have a good pair of lungs on him/her to wake me for his/her feeds! at least you can have a practise on a 'real' baby, my first practise was on a doll, the midwife brought it in for our antenatal group, not quite the same somehow! didn't mean to upset you before just thrilled for youXXXXXXX

Oh girls, I'm not sure I'm cut out for all this. I feel completely useless. I see 3 really good friends everyday (through work) who are all preg. It's one after the other. One of them showed me her scan pic today and all I could do was smile, I was screaming inside I just dont know what to do. I know there's nothing anyone can say or do to make me feel better but I thought if I just write it all down it might help. DP is useless, doesnt wanna talk about it. Maybe I'm miserable cos AF is coming, I effing hope so. I just cant joke about it anymore.
It sounds really heartless and selfish because I know that there are people a lot worse off than me but I cant understand why the only health problems I have are to do with fertility when the only thing I've ever wanted out of life is lots of babies. I just cant get my head around it. DP says I should be grateful we already have a DS and I should stop going on about TTC and focus on what we've already got. How the hell do I do that? when I've got friends thrusting their pregnancy in my face constantly. It's the only thing I hear about so how can I forget about it?

I'm done moaning now. Still feel like poop Oh please let this be AF hormones!

Fruity vent away love, that is what we are here for hun. It is completely understandable that you need to explode once in a while given your horrendous cycles . There is nothing I can say or do to make it any better, just know that we are all here rooting for you hun {{{{hugs}}}} xx

ah thanks mibbes. I'm completely raining on your parade now sorry. I remember that feeling when I 1st saw my BFP with DS and I will never ever forget it. It's truly amazing . I was looking at DS this evening and thinking, my god, your so gorgeous, how can I possibly be upset when I'm so lucky to have you.

Don't be silly Fruity we all love you and want you to get BFP more than anything. We all have our down days, you have far less than most and you have more cause than most. How sweet about your DS - can't believe I'll be lookikng at my own DC by the tijme santa comes !
Did anyone see that ScaryHairy just got BFP (even though she had AF last week !!!)

I know! I saw that! crazy! imagining think it's all over for that cycle then discovering a bean playing peek-a-boo behind AF!

hi girls
please look here i could do with a bit of a cuddle thanx girls
xx ei xx

Ei that is rotten luck . Have you investigated the martin lewis idea or any of the other lenders ?
{{{{{big hugs}}}}}

Ei I saw this being talked about on TV the other night, possibly The One Show or Tonight with Trevor Mcdonald or similar. Apparently it's happening to quite a lot of people at the moment. Did you go directly to Northern Rock or through a broker? I'd recommend getting a good mortgage adviser (most don't charge you), a decent mortgage person should be able to come up with a sollution. When I was buying my house a couple of mortgage advisors told me that I couldn't get a mortgage due to my situation at the time, then I saw somebody else who managed to sort it out for me, so I'm sure if you try the right people they'll be able to sort something out for you.
So please don't give up yet. Really hope you manage to get it sorted xx

Ei {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{BIGHUGS}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
sorry your going through this crap, its bloody terrible,I would love to move to a bigger house, but wouldn't entertain the idea purely because I wouldn't want to go through the stress of it all, some of the girls have come up with a few possible solutions, are you thinking about trying any of them???

mibbes any time you want to ask any Q's but dont really want to post them on here you can contact me at [email protected] XXXX

Jollybear ??.??CD 8 (LP 15?) Cycle 5 TTC1
Ei ??.??° CD20 (LP12) 7DPO!!!Cycle 5 TTC#2
Sparkly ??.??° CD22 (LP12/13) Cycle 5 TTC#2
mibbes ??.??° CD35 (LP13/14) 16dpo cycle 4 TTC#1
Fruitloop ??.??° CD95 Cycle 3,7 months TTC#2
xxhunnyxx ??.?° CD19 7dpo cycle 5 TTC#1

BFP's!!! Emmsy1 BFP 13th Feb 08 (due end of October or early November)
Neveronamonday BFP 19th Feb 08 (Due end Oct)
Furtively BFP 24th Feb 08 (due early Nov)
Scully BFP 28th Feb 08 (due 5 November)
Cricri BFP 1 March 08 (due end Oct/early Nov)
TwinklingFairy BFP 15th March (due 23rd Nov)
Piper1984 BFP 18th March
mibbes BFP 26th March

temp 36.7 again this morning

Ei So sorry to hear about your mortgage hassles I agree with xxhunny, a mortgage broker or financial adviser may be able to help as they will have access to all mortgages on the market. Fingers crossed for you and hope it works out.
Fruitloop Hope you're feeling a bit better this morning. Any sign of AF yet?
Mibbes I'm also going to be a first-time Mum and I'm nervous around babies too so I understand exactly what you're saying I guess it's different when it's you're own though (at least I hope so!). Emmsy - perhaps you should start offering email support on baby issues for us newbies
Hope everybody else is OK.

Hi Ladies.
Sending huge hugs to ei and fruity this morning. Will have a chat with you later. xxxxx
I finally got my ovulation lines with the help of a bottle of wine and a trip downstairs in the middle of the night for a drink (a soft one). Might have to remove that temp in a few days!

Jollybear ??.??CD 8 (LP 15?) Cycle 5 TTC1
Ei ??.??° CD20 (LP12) 7DPO!!!Cycle 5 TTC#2
Sparkly 37.05° CD22 (LP12/13)5dpo Cycle 5 TTC#2
mibbes ??.??° CD35 (LP13/14) 16dpo cycle 4 TTC#1
Fruitloop ??.??° CD95 Cycle 3,7 months TTC#2
xxhunnyxx 36.7° CD19 7dpo cycle 5 TTC#1

BFP's!!!*Emmsy1 BFP 13th Feb 08 (due end of October or early November)
Neveronamonday BFP 19th Feb 08 (Due end Oct)
Furtively BFP 24th Feb 08 (due early Nov)
Scully BFP 28th Feb 08 (due 5 November)
Cricri BFP 1 March 08 (due end Oct/early Nov)
TwinklingFairy BFP 15th March (due 23rd Nov)
Piper1984 BFP 18th March
mibbes BFP 26th March

OOh Emmsy you are such a sweetie had a tear in my eye at your offer of advice (these bl00dy hormones !). Oh and you didn't upset me last night you made me cry happy tears !This is wierd as I am not the crying type atall usually ! I will probably take you up on the offer actually as have so many questions that I can't ask anyone in RL yet ! Thanks hun xx
Anyway did a CBD this morning and the sight of that word 'pregnant' was fantatsic ! DP is convinced now ! His first question was 'can we get a camper van and go on holidays in it ?' [bewildered emoticon] - what a strange thing to ask ! men really are wired up differenty to us ! I told him yes but we'd need a pram first ! Anyway he is really excited/scared, so that makes two of us !
cricri it is so reassuring to hear am not the only one who feels like this - we can hold each other's hands !
Ei have you investigated any of the options suggested ? {{{hugs}}} You are 7dpo, any symptoms yet ...?
Fruity have you had a visit from the old cow yet ?
Right down to business, Sparkly what's your tmep today missus ? Do you have those big red lines ?

Jollybear ??.??CD 8 (LP 15?) Cycle 5 TTC1
Ei ??.??° CD20 (LP12) 7DPO!!!Cycle 5 TTC#2
Sparkly ??.??° CD22 (LP12/13) Cycle 5 TTC#2
mibbes 37.02° CD35 (LP13/14) 16dpo cycle 4 TTC#1
Fruitloop ??.??° CD95 Cycle 3,7 months TTC#2
xxhunnyxx 36.7° CD19 7dpo cycle 5 TTC#1

BFP's!!!*Emmsy1 BFP 13th Feb 08 (due end of October or early November)
Neveronamonday BFP 19th Feb 08 (Due end Oct)
Furtively BFP 24th Feb 08 (due early Nov)
Scully BFP 28th Feb 08 (due 5 November)
Cricri BFP 1 March 08 (due end Oct/early Nov)
TwinklingFairy BFP 15th March (due 23rd Nov)
Piper1984 BFP 18th March
mibbes BFP 26th March

OOh Emmsy you are such a sweetie had a tear in my eye at your offer of advice (these bl00dy hormones !). Oh and you didn't upset me last night you made me cry happy tears !This is wierd as I am not the crying type atall usually ! I will probably take you up on the offer actually as have so many questions that I can't ask anyone in RL yet ! Thanks hun xx
Anyway did a CBD this morning and the sight of that word 'pregnant' was fantatsic ! DP is convinced now ! His first question was 'can we get a camper van and go on holidays in it ?' [bewildered emoticon] - what a strange thing to ask ! men really are wired up differenty to us ! I told him yes but we'd need a pram first ! Anyway he is really excited/scared, so that makes two of us !
cricri it is so reassuring to hear am not the only one who feels like this - we can hold each other's hands !
Ei have you investigated any of the options suggested ? {{{hugs}}} You are 7dpo, any symptoms yet ...?
Fruity have you had a visit from the old cow yet ?
Right down to business, Sparkly what's your temp today missus ? Do you have those big red lines ? Am teetering on the edge of my seat !

Jollybear ??.??CD 8 (LP 15?) Cycle 5 TTC1
Ei ??.??° CD20 (LP12) 7DPO!!!Cycle 5 TTC#2
Sparkly ??.??° CD22 (LP12/13) Cycle 5 TTC#2
mibbes 37.02° CD35 (LP13/14) 16dpo cycle 4 TTC#1
Fruitloop ??.??° CD95 Cycle 3,7 months TTC#2
xxhunnyxx 36.7° CD19 7dpo cycle 5 TTC#1

BFP's!!!*Emmsy1 BFP 13th Feb 08 (due end of October or early November)
Neveronamonday BFP 19th Feb 08 (Due end Oct)
Furtively BFP 24th Feb 08 (due early Nov)
Scully BFP 28th Feb 08 (due 5 November)
Cricri BFP 1 March 08 (due end Oct/early Nov)
TwinklingFairy BFP 15th March (due 23rd Nov)
Piper1984 BFP 18th March
mibbes BFP 26th March

Mibs (hehhe) YOU ARE PREGNANT!! How long would your cycle have been this month? (When do you ov and what is your luteal phase?) LOL at you teetering!!

x-posts so have updated list with my stats. xx

Jollybear ??.??CD 8 (LP 15?) Cycle 5 TTC1
Ei ??.??° CD20 (LP12) 7DPO!!!Cycle 5 TTC#2
Sparkly 37.05° CD22 (LP12/13) Cycle 5 TTC#2
mibbes 37.02° CD35 (LP13/14) 16dpo cycle 4 TTC#1
Fruitloop ??.??° CD95 Cycle 3,7 months TTC#2
xxhunnyxx 36.7° CD19 7dpo cycle 5 TTC#1

BFP's!!!
Emmsy1 BFP 13th Feb 08 (due end of October or early November)
Neveronamonday BFP 19th Feb 08 (Due end Oct)
Furtively BFP 24th Feb 08 (due early Nov)
Scully BFP 28th Feb 08 (due 5 November)
Cricri BFP 1 March 08 (due end Oct/early Nov)
TwinklingFairy BFP 15th March (due 23rd Nov)
Piper1984 BFP 18th March
mibbes BFP 26th March

Oops, cross-post and double post - I'll blame hormones for that too !

HURRAY !!! Sparkly's egg has been confirmed, she has lines - woohoooo ! So does that make you 5dpo ? It is going to get exciting soon ! That is a very high temp !

Forgot to add my dpo..sorry I haven't made list bold - couldnt face doing it for a 3rd time.

Jollybear ??.??CD 8 (LP 15?) Cycle 5 TTC1
Ei ??.??° CD20 (LP12) 7DPO!!!Cycle 5 TTC#2
Sparkly 37.05° CD22 (LP12/13)5dpo Cycle 5 TTC#2
mibbes 37.02° CD35 (LP13/14) 16dpo cycle 4 TTC#1
Fruitloop ??.??° CD95 Cycle 3,7 months TTC#2
xxhunnyxx 36.7° CD19 7dpo cycle 5 TTC#1

BFP's!!!
Emmsy1 BFP 13th Feb 08 (due end of October or early November)
Neveronamonday BFP 19th Feb 08 (Due end Oct)
Furtively BFP 24th Feb 08 (due early Nov)
Scully BFP 28th Feb 08 (due 5 November)
Cricri BFP 1 March 08 (due end Oct/early Nov)
TwinklingFairy BFP 15th March (due 23rd Nov)
Piper1984 BFP 18th March
mibbes BFP 26th March

ha ha Sparkly, thanks for updating. My cycle would have been 33/34 days as was due either Tue/Wed, my LP has been either 13/14 days. that is why Imp was relatively late (10dpo is lateish for implantation which is also why I got BFN on 13dpo)

I'm expecting a temp crash tomorrow. Do you think I should temp when i'm away ladies?

YES of course, you can't just stop !! How will we know when you're PG ? This will be the most crucial time for temps. My imp dip and then rise were a big clue that there was something happening in there.... Is it tomorrow you leave ? I'll be on tenterhooks waiting for your temps when you get back !

sparkly was it a bottle of red wine that helped your temp?? X have you a little hangOVERRR TOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOODDDAAAAAAAAAAY!?

cricri I didn't realise that you are going to be a newbie mummy, thats brilliant, any Q's you have just throw them at me and I will try and help! My youngest is nearly 3 and a half so probably a little rusty, but will do my best! XX Same goes to mibbes Ei how are you feeling this morning hun?

sparkly if you dont pack your thermometer I will be very upset!