TTC after miscarriage thread 12 🌈✨💛💕

[FfayeN]

New thread ladies sorry if I've missed anyone feel free to add 💗
@MrsCristianoX @Indianna2006 @TheBirdintheCave @mummatara @LuckyMoonstone @Luna57 @HalWin2221 @bunnykins123 @calimc83 @everythingzrosie @ChloeN @ChickenT2b @Chellooo @theblueflowers @RaliaMusca @Margo34 @Mariabombia @emhope @lovenaps @

@MrsCristianoX I second what @FfayeN says - can he not wrap it up whilst you're on the meds?!

@bunnykins123 11dpo today. I'll still test tomorrow I just feel a lot less hopeful now 😂Oh well, at least it stopped me testing early. This is the furthest I've ever got without caving.

@bunnykins123 good luck today, I hope they have some answers for you 😊, keep us posted x

@bunnykins123 Oh and good luck for your appointment! I hope you get some useful information and a plan for going forward :)

@TheBirdintheCave that's still quite early. Don't loose hope even though I do know that's easier said than done 💕

@TheBirdintheCave @FfayeN thanks ladies! I'll keep you updated anyway just in case anyone is interested or has something similarly funky going on with their immune system le sigh 😂

@bunnykins123 good luck today! Hoping for lots of answers. Keep us updated ❤️

@bunnykins123 good luck lovely 🤞🏼 I hope you get some good answers and a plan ❤️

@TheBirdintheCave could be implantation drop at 11dpo probably only tomorrows temp will tell you the answer 🤞🏼

@mummatara I won't get to temp tomorrow as I'll most likely have to get up to pee around 6am and will then be testing as I don't want to waste the good stuff 😅

@TheBirdintheCave 😂 no def don't waste the good stuff

@TheBirdintheCave good luck with testing tomorrow🤞🏻

@MrsCristianoX I can imagine you just feel like crap😔 sending lots of love! Xxx

think I’ve made it to ovulation day! We’ve dtd 6 days in a row so gonna just go for tonight and tomorrow as well, why not 🤣 I might possibly get one day off and then we’re off on holiday lol

@ChloeN Impressive stuff! 😂Where are you off to on holiday?

@TheBirdintheCave tenerife! Hopefully it’ll be a nice distraction for the tww🤣

@ChloeN wow you trooper 💪🏼 you'll be recovering all holiday then 🤣 have a lovely time

@ChickenT2b my last 2 cycles I’ve had a MC 😑 so this is my first cycle after them two! If I am pregnant this time I’ll be in shock, can’t imagine it will happen 3 times in a row. What about you?

@ChloeN you are my new hero 😂 that is some good going, you deserve a holiday!!

Sounds lovely :) I hope you have a splendid time!

@mummatara @HalWin2221 he’ll be wanting it on holiday too I imagine😅 I’ll be broken🤣🤣 thank you both!

@TheBirdintheCave thank you!☺️

@ChloeN 😂 least you can rest up by the pool to recharge your batteries 🙊

Bleeding has decided to start again 🙄 it had stopped yesterday and it's more than spotting ffs so fustrating. Maybe I should have gone for surgery in out done 🤦🏼‍♀️ doesn't help I'm very impatient

@bunnykins123 good luck! Really hope you get some well deserved answered and a plan moving forward.

@MrsCristianoX I don't blame you for feeling that way! He definitely needs to be doing his part- I hope he at least cleaned you up!

@ChloeN well done! That is an achievement. We did 4 times in a row one cycle and I couldn't go near him for a week. I was actually sore!

@TheBirdintheCave there is definitely still hope whilst AF stays away. I'm on a Facebook group for women who temp using ovusense, and there are so many BFP charts with dips.

@HalWin2221 oh goodness, so sorry to hear that. Were you a similar stage along each time? Well, I think we are possibly more fertile after a mc. I had a chemical straight after my mc which was in March. So this cycle is no. 5 since my chemical. It took me about 9 months to conceive when I mc’d at 13 weeks (missed mc at 8.5w) Xx

@ChloeN you young lady are quite the champion!! Steely effort there well done!!

@mummatara having been through both the natural way I recovered so much quicker. Hopefully it's just a little residual and it'll clear up again in no time. My surgical it felt like I was bleeding for ages and took a while to feel comfortable again. You will get there 😘 xx

@mummatara it's probably completely normal. If you think about what your body is going through, it's a huge task so it probably is normal for it to be a bit stop start. I think if you're worried, could you ring the epu?

Thanks ladies! Been to the clinic, not much to report on but getting DH dna fragmentation test done and a hyfosy done for me then we will decide next steps. I was surprised that he didn't throw meds at me (clomid, prednisolone for my NK cells) and actually advised against all this for now. He just said keep doing what we are doing, don't do it every other day and we will see what those tests come up with. So there we are! Nothing entirely new or unsurprising 🤷‍♀️

@bunnykins123 im not worried just annoyed 😂 can you tell I like instant gratification so the TTC journey is 🙄 eurgh. Glad there's some further steps for you. How many days has he recommended between sessions? Or is that just for the sperm testing?

@FfayeN my surgical wasn't too bad I bled for 2 days after and felt ok after about a week. It just took a while for everything drop to zero. Im just sulking like a spoiled child really 🙊😳 want to stomp my feet all over the office 😂

@mummatara my bleeding seemed to stop and start it was so fustrating 😡

@theblueflowers @FfayeN thanks ladies I’m quite proud of myself🤣🤣

Anyone that gets ovulation pain is it really low down?? I’ve got a bit of an ache low on my right side so not sure if the egg is coming from there this cycle?

@ChloeN Mine comes in two forms. It's either stabbing pains (usually on the left side and yes quite low down) or like a bruise in my insides that hurts if I sit down