TTC after miscarriage Thread 11 🤞🏼✨

[Indianna2006]

@AwayWeGo22 @bunnykins123 @calimc83 @FfayeN @Chellooo @LuckyMoonstone @Luna57 @Margo34 @MrscristianoX @Pancake92 @TheBirdintheCave @theblueflowers @mummatara @ChloeN @Luna57 @everythingzrosie

New thread ladies!! Wishing you all lots of luck 🤞🏼🤞🏼✨

please tag anyone I’ve missed it was just quick and rough xx

@MrsCristianoX I should be getting commission shouldnt I 🤣🤣
10% for everyone who purchased a fertilily after I bang on about it ha

@MrsCristianoX so sorry that bitch AF turned up! Go for the fertilily, DH won't even know. You pop it in whilst they're 'cleaning up' and the best bit is you can walk around without any spillage. Even after we're done TTC I might just use it to stop that 😂.

Sending hugs and virtual support to all you ladies that have had shit news in the last 24 hours 😔

3DPO and counting....

@MrsCristianoX mine definitely thinks that but who cares🤣🤣

@lovenaps i totally get you, I don’t have any children and if I get time by myself it’s the worst! I’m self employed so I try and work a lot and if I have a day off on my own I try and do something! I feel like when you’ve got nothing to do is when you see a million pregnancy announcements and you feel so much worse!

@Mariabombia glad you’re feeling a bit better, must be so fustrating to be fobbed off tho! Xxx

@ChloeN thank you lovely ♥️ I've actually come off of sm because all the pregnancy announcements and baby updates were making me feel worse 🤦🏼‍♀️

@lovenaps same , I'd love to do more uni courses haha, if I could afford it I would have stayed in education forever 🤣
I tend to try to see my friends who don't have kids more and spoil my cat haha. We're getting a dog soon too which will keep us both busy. I usually go to the gym quite a bit too but I'm nervy about exercise at the moment.
What course are you thinking of doing?

@FfayeN ooh I like this idea! Cleaner equals better imo 😂 I'll look into it later @ChloeN did you watch a video on this?

There's really no good part in a cycle. I'm thinking @FfayeN oh god 3dpo bloody nightmare but I'm thinking this isn't much better..joy 😭

@lovenaps i tend to put a structure to my week because I find if I’m just sat at home for countless days and OH is at work my mind goes overtime! We also have 2 dogs to just long walks and training keeps my mind busy 😊

im waiting for my ovulation, honestly I’m overthinking DTD. I worry that if I’m not predicting my O day right then I’m going to waste the OH sperm 🫣😂 he sometimes struggles to go 2/3 days in a row, then feels bad about the performance issue. I’d pay good mood to be someone that just has sex once and got pregnant 🙈

@HalWin2221 see no good part! Are you doing OPKs or giving them a wide berth? I can't not do them just have to line them up to DH routine now..why am I thinking about this today of all days 🤯

@MrsCristianoX a video about ferti lily?? If so I saw a couple on YouTube mention it who’d ttc for 2 years but got pregnant first month of using it!

@Mariabombia I feel like doing that honestly, I watch YouTube a lot and a girl from there is due the same day I was meant to be and I just can’t watch her videos anymore 😫

I make you right there @MrsCristianoX

@MrsCristianoX we do the SMEP method, although we was doing this by accident I then stumbled across that it actually had a name haha. But we use the clear blue ovulation sticks, I couldn’t do the temp/charting stuff I think I would drive myself (more) crazy! Hope you’re ok - the start of AF is always the worst time :(

@HalWin2221 not gonna lie SMEP would kill me. Fair play for doing it 😊 I tried it once couldn't even look at each other by the end 😂

@HalWin2221 yea it is pretty shit. Ordered the fertilily. Feel like I should be planning something different but I don't know what 🤷‍♀️

@MrsCristianoX ive fallen pregnant both times we’ve done it, however it does become a task by the end. ‘Do you want the good good stuff or just the stuff’ is usually what the OH asks me 🫣😂

I know it’s frustrating when you can’t control it isn’t it. From what everyone says the Fertilily sounds like a good step to take!

@HalWin2221 haha my answer...just the stuff as quick as you cann🤣

@HalWin2221 🤣🤣🤣 you can bet most of us would answer just the stuff please 😂 love that hilarious

@MrsCristianoX @mummatara you girls know! 😂 I have joked a couple of time of the cup method, it’s getting to that point now! 🫣😂

@MrsCristianoX fk AF. Was really rooting for you. Hope u are ok? @bunnykins123 hey 👋 how u getting on? I'm ok - yep coming up to 17 weeks now. Had my midwife appointment today - so nervous going in. MC seems to sap the joy out of pregnancy.
Also to those debating the 'cup method'. It defo works 🙈..we've resorted to this quite a bit as DH works shifts and sometimes it was a case of needs must! Xx

@HalWin2221 @mummatara it's all fun and games till the pressure hits DH and he does not play ball so to speak. He goes silent, I get pissed off, cups are mentioned then he gets pissed off. And I have to do this again 😭😭 at least it's an unmistakable AF so CD1 !

@calimc83 tell my DH!!! I felt by Saturday it hadn't worked I had actual pms anger so I have loads of tests still. I know so annoying my timings were perfect. Here we go again 🙄

@calimc83 17 weeks!! My god congratulations I can still see your wee pregnancy test when I first joined 😊

@MrsCristianoX thank you! It's sort of dragging now..we still haven't told my family! Waiting for the 20 week scan I think 🙈. You'll get there. I know it. Just get as many 'sessions' in as possible and if that includes the 'cup' then so be it 😆. I have a good friend whose a consultant in IVF. She's not a fan of opks at all. Reckons just regular sex is the way forward..but easier said than done sometimes! X

@calimc83 thank u! I know I swear anytime I've fallen pregnant successfully I've never used them. But I'm a bit wary because of my age now. I can't do them in work so let's see where this cycle takes us..DH in same country would be a start 😂

@calimc83 has nobody noticed? I balloon out before a period. But I'd be exactly the same. Wouldn't tell a soul until after the big scan xx

@MrsCristianoX yeah I get that. They do have there uses. But I'm the same, the times I've fallen haven been when I haven't used them. I'm no spring chicken either 😆. A few people know, couldn't hide the not drinking with my sister and a couple of friends. My parents have been in Greece since early sept. Not seen them face to face in ages and I just want to get that big scan out the way before I tell them anything. My kids just think I've eaten too much 😆🙈, they're only 5 and 3 though! X