TTC after miscarriage Thread 11 🤞🏼✨

[Indianna2006]

@AwayWeGo22 @bunnykins123 @calimc83 @FfayeN @Chellooo @LuckyMoonstone @Luna57 @Margo34 @MrscristianoX @Pancake92 @TheBirdintheCave @theblueflowers @mummatara @ChloeN @Luna57 @everythingzrosie

New thread ladies!! Wishing you all lots of luck 🤞🏼🤞🏼✨

please tag anyone I’ve missed it was just quick and rough xx

[TheBirdintheCave]

@LuckyMoonstone Sorry for your loss as well :(

@Indianna2006 I can't believe you're 11 weeks already! Feels fast to me but probably doesn't for you at all. Only a little bit of time left until your scan now. You've done the longest part of the wait between scans. You can 100% do the rest :)

[ChloeN]

@Cindy974 @LuckyMoonstone sorry to hear about both of your results😔 I totally get the feeling of wanting something to be wrong so you have a reason! Sending lots of love xxx

[Cindy974]

@LuckyMoonstone Im so so sorry you have been through the same. It is truly awful. I think it makes you question your bodies ability, I just keep thinking what have i done why did my body do this 😢I feel the same I always try to be a good person just dont know why this is happening to us. I hope you find strength and im sending you all the love in the world you are not alone 💕

[Cindy974]

I was getting my memorial tattoo when my DH told me we had received the letter about our baby boy how coincidental is that 😢

Four birth flowers, three for our lost babies and one for our DD (hers is the one with the butterfly on)

[HalWin2221]

@Cindy974 so sorry 🙁 I know there isn’t anything any of us could say to make it better. But know we’re all here giving you all the virtual hugs we can!!

[LuckyMoonstone]

@Cindy974 thank you so much, love to you too x your tattoo is so beautiful as well!

[ChloeN]

@Cindy974 the tattoo looks lovely!! I got a little heart for mine and although no one knows what it is I like it! Xxx

[MrsCristianoX]

And AF has arrived..bring on cycle 6 😭 I just knew it was coming

@LuckyMoonstone @Cindy974 I'm so so sorry for your little baby sons. There really aren't any words I can say to help you grieve. Just heartbreaking 💔 and you are in my thoughts Xx

[MrsOnions0]

@LuckyMoonstone @Cindy974 you’re such strong women. Thinking of you as both conversations much have been extremely difficult.

The thread moved quickly!! @Indianna2006 i know you’re right re:6m not being “long” in the grand scheme. First world problems but the age gap is growing. Hope that doesn’t come across as insensitive to anyone and I know it’s silly to get hung up on that.

Whoever mentioned the Fetillliy Cup/contraption.
It gets some getting used, I even slept with it in last month! It does make the whole TTC quite methodical and as I’m sure you’re all feeling it draining and pressurised.

@MrsCristianoX sorry she’s appeared…..

[ROZRAX]

Name change fail- I’m also Mrs Onions!

[Indianna2006]

@LuckyMoonstone 💙

@MrsCristianoX ugh sorry 😩 I had high hopes. well done you for not keep testing every day and torturing yourself.

[MrsCristianoX]

@ROZRAX or @MrsOnions0 I feel like panic buying a fertiilily now. Can't hurt.

[LuckyMoonstone]

@MrsCristianoX thank you lovely x grrrr damn you AF! Hope you’re ok, treat yourself to something nice to ease the pain of the first few AF days. Food, wine and retail therapy! 😆

[MrsCristianoX]

@Indianna2006 I thought I got my timings right too🤷‍♀️ just not meant to be. Xx.

@LuckyMoonstone wine and retail therapy await. Thanks lovely xx

[ROZRAX]

@MrsCristianoX honestly feel like I’m throwing everything up there (literally) in some hope 😂 whilst I have a thermometer hanging out my mouth and rattling from the tablets….

[Cindy974]

Thank you all everyone it truly means alot 💕💕

sorry AF got you @MrsCristianoX hope youre okay and sending you luck for your next cycle x

[bunnykins123]

@Cindy974 I'm so sorry about your results. It's is absolutely nothing you did, you have absolutely no control of how a baby develops. Your tattoo is beautiful 💕

@LuckyMoonstone goodness me, you really deserve some good news coming your way soon. I hope you're ok following your results. I'm really really hoping that your HCG starts going doing 🤞 when is your next test?

@MrsCristianoX oh hun I'm sorry. It's totally crap isn't it. Totally indulge in the good stuff tonight 🍷 I totally feel your pain especially when timing was good.

@Indianna2006 11 weeks! That's gone so quickly!! Do you think it'll feel more real after the next scan?

[ChloeN]

@MrsCristianoX join the trying the ferti lily club, hopefully it’ll give us good luck🤣

[lovenaps]

@Indianna2006 so sorry about your dad 🌸
@Cindy974 heartbreaking, sending you a hug 💐
Struggling to conceive sucks. With other things in life, you can set goals, you can work hard to achieve those goals but conception is one thing that is so hard to have any control in!
It just sucks!

[LuckyMoonstone]

@bunnykins123 Sunday morning for the next one

[MrsCristianoX]

@ChloeN I feel like DH will be like 'what the f**k' 😂😂

[emhope]

@Cindy974 sorry to hear about your results that must be so difficult to hear ❤️

@MrsCristianoX ah sorry AF has turned up 🙁 hope you are feeling ok.

I had awful day yesterday after my BFN, spent the day in absolute tears and hating life and my body. Feeling better today though and more positive. I have said to myself that I am binning the OPK’s for next cycle and absolutely no early testing 😆 no more FRER’s in the house anyway and I will not be ordering anymore!!! I may look at getting this fertilily thing you are all talking about though 😂

[MrsCristianoX]

@emhope yea I kinda knew by Saturday with the pms rage but I'm seriously considering this. @Indianna2006 put the advantages across very clearly x god only knows what I will order tonight 😂

[Mariabombia]

Thanks for the advice ladies, i really appreciate all your support and words of wisdom.
I haven't called again today, to be honest I've avoided it as I don't want the stress and upset of them just pieing me off again. & after sleeping on it & talking to dh Ive been thinking to myself surely if it was low progesterone a dr would have said & I never had any spotting before so that probably wasn't the issue. I was just more mad about not even being listened to generally, as someone rightly said it shows a lack of care.

@Indianna2006 so sorry about your dad , I know exactly what you mean about that feeling💔

@MrsCristianoX ooo I have everything crossed for next month for you, treat yourself tonight to something nice 🍷🍸hope you're okay.

@LuckyMoonstone & @Cindy974 so sorry to hear about your boys :( I completely understand where you're both coming from about your results. Your tattoo is beautiful Cindy.

[lovenaps]

Those of you who do not have children, how do you keep yourselves busy?

I would love to do another degree at Open Uni (part-time) but just can't afford it as anything we can save, we want to use for over-paying mortgage while on lower fixed interest rate!
Definitely happiest when I am busy and don't have any time for intrusive thoughts - can anyone relate??