TTC after miscarriage Thread 11 🤞🏼✨

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@AwayWeGo22 @bunnykins123 @calimc83 @FfayeN @Chellooo @LuckyMoonstone @Luna57 @Margo34 @MrscristianoX @Pancake92 @TheBirdintheCave @theblueflowers @mummatara @ChloeN @Luna57 @everythingzrosie

New thread ladies!! Wishing you all lots of luck 🤞🏼🤞🏼✨

please tag anyone I’ve missed it was just quick and rough xx

@Luna57 I think it's about the same providing you're doing it enough. I did it only 1 month and it was when I had a hysteroscopy so I think our odds were low that cycle anyway!

@FfayeN if that's working then you probably don't need to consider the cup method 😂. I don't think there is any right or wrong way of approaching it when you're in this situation. I think if we had more time, I'd take some time out but we are not getting any younger so every missed month really counts!

@FfayeN whatever works at this point🤣 what CD are you on?

@bunnykins123 same here lovely.
@MrsCristianoX I am CD15, +OPK yesterday, so we've done -5, -2, 0 (hence the desperate times lol), might go for another this eve or tomorrow morning if he's got it in him 🫣. I might just lie and say that it won't count lol x

@FfayeN maybe that's the way to tackle it - say that you are defo not fertile and see if that helps relax him 😂

@MrsCristianoX how are you feeling? Any symptoms yet?

@FfayeN yes!! Have been eyeing that one up after the latest season of 'trying'

@bunnykins123 nope. I slept really well last night. Slightly achy boobs and sensitive nipples but very sore boobs scare me because it normally means a bleed is on the way 🙁

Honestly DH is in SUCH a mood I wouldn't even be saying anything to him right now. Money this money that. And he's tired from travel. Im just letting him leave on Monday and will test. No cramping or anything I dunno whether that's good or bad at this stage 🤷‍♀️

@FfayeN O-2 is a good one!

Im only 5dpo and the urge to test is too much 🤦🏼‍♀️ @MrsCristianoX have you tested this morning?

We dtd last night and now I’m worrying its not safe to do in the two week wait, is that even a thing? Hope everyone is okay.

Im getting my memorial tattoo on Tuesday, its all the birth flowers from the due dates of the babies we have lost, my daughters birthflower too. Gonna have a frigging bouquet at this rate 😳🤣

@MrsCristianoX what did you end up watching in the end? I finished Dahmer yesterday...it's a weird one!!!
@Cindy974 you can absolutely do it and be safe, or so they say lol x

Hcg is up again so I have to go back to hospital to discuss my options 😕 fml

@Cindy974 I'm certain it's safe. I really really wouldn't worry about that. What a lovely idea 💕 let's hope it doesn't become a bouquet 🤞

@LuckyMoonstone oh hun I'm so so sorry. Are you ok? How much did it go up by?

@LuckyMoonstone what!!😫 so annoying for you, hope you’re okay! Xxx

@Cindy974 i worry about doing lots of things in the tww but I’m sure it’s fine, if not surely no one would ever have babies! Xx

Just trying to catch up with the convo! This thread moves fast!!

@LuckyMoonstone really sorry to hear that, I hope you get sorted soon it's really unfair on you that they have left it for so long 💕

@FfayeN I'm like 3 episodes into Dahmer, it's so awful to watch isn't it! I have to watch comedy shows in between each episode lol

@Cindy974 your tattoo idea is so lovely, I have a birthstone ring for the baby we lost that I always wear.

@MrsCristianoX how're you doing? Have you tested since the faint clear blue? Tut ignore grumpy dh.

@emhope I noticed a different amount coming out dependent on my time of the month!

Also not sure who asked but I just lay down still for 5-10 mins, was doing legs in the air at one point but half of it came out when I was trying to prop myself up high etc haha, I have been told I have a tilted cervix though so that may be why 🤷‍♀️

Also, hope you're all having a good weekend!

I did a digital yesterday to confirm 😬!!

However had some yellow/peachy coloured discharge when whipping so convinced myself it was the start of AF. All clear again today so hopefully it was nothing... 🙏🏻 today is the day AF was predicted on Flo so we will see. Hate how pessimistic having a mc makes you feel about future pregnancies.

If it continues to be a sticky bean me and dh have just decided to tell people as it comes up, we were so secretive about it before but then ended up telling people about the mc anyway!

@Mariabombia glad your digital has come back positive, it’s the best when you see the actual word! Congratulations lovely xx

@LuckyMoonstone thats crazy! Do they think it’s a pregnancy in an unknown location then? When are you back to the hospital? I can’t believe how long this is going on for. Hope you’re ok.

@Mariabombia yay! Does it feel a bit more real now? I can’t even tell you about the crazy amounts and colours of cm I’ve had the last few weeks. That’s good you’re gonna tell people, there’s such a stigma around telling people early. I haven’t told anyone except my bitch hygienist and I told work yesterday, I’ve 2 rowdy flights today and tomorrow and I just thought it’s not worth it anymore my pay won’t change anyway so not risking it. So that’s me grounded for hopefully a year 😬

I’m supposed to be going on later today (as I’m coming back from london, I told them I wouldn’t be able to get in til like 3/4pm earliest) or in the morning. Someone should have called me back to tell me which option is best but they haven’t so I’m gonna have to ring them in a bit. To be honest I’m going to ask if the doctor can just ring me, I don’t see why I’ve got to go all the way over there again just for a conversation which is exactly what happened on Friday

@Cindy974 that’s lovely, I’ve been thinking about getting a tattoo as well

@Mariabombia congratulations that’s so lovely! I’ll keep everything crossed for a sticky bean!

@Luna57 just out of curiosity, as you can’t fly what do they have you doing? Hope you’re feeling a bit better after telling them! 🥰

@FfayeN I had started dahmer then had a vested interest in hoping the man got out of the flat in one piece..so I kept on with it once he was arrested.

I had pms rage last night like everything DH did irked me so I went to bed with a 'headache'. Woke up this morning with aching boobs and shivery so I'm awaiting AF now 😕 absolutely can't take a negative today

@Mariabombia wonderful that it's confirmed and really hope it's sticky for you.

@LuckyMoonstone oh lovely 😣 this is just not what you need at all. I guess the only silver lining is you know you're not going mad and you know your body! I really
Hope you get to the bottom of it very soon.

@MrsCristianoX I hope you manage to hold off if that's what you think is best for you today. It's such a horrible journey isn't it. Please keep us posted.

So I'm now officially in the TWW. I've got a feeling it's going to take a while to get pregnant. I've told myself to be in it for the long haul. Especially as we seem to miss the best days and that's when we're lucky to actually get the time together during my fertile period. I can't keep working myself up so much each month.
Watch this space though...this sensible level headedness won't last long I'm sure 🤓

@Mariabombia big congratulations!!

@FfayeN good luck with the TWW xx

@FfayeN I'm 2dpo so we're about the same this cycle :)

@Mariabombia Congrats again!

@LuckyMoonstone Gosh I really hope they get to the bottom of why your HCG is still rising :(

I remember seeing a while ago on this thread about people using the ferti-lily cup, is it easy to use? I’ve bought it for this cycle after hearing good things!

@TheBirdintheCave Yay cycle buddy ✋🏼

@ChloeN I've been using mine. It's relatively easy to get in. Just follow the instructions then I try and keep the edges pushed up as you pull the 'tail' to flip it the right way again. Removing it is harder believe it or not. It gets quite the suction up there so a couple of times I've had to man handle it a little 🤣

@HalWin2221 ill be working on the ground at the gate checking boarding cards and passports as were not self handling otherwise I’d be at check in like our other bases. I’ll actually be working more days a week on the ground than I would flying.

@MrsCristianoX I hope af isn’t on the way. Would you find af coming easier than a bfn?