TTC after miscarriage Thread 11 🤞🏼✨

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@AwayWeGo22 @bunnykins123 @calimc83 @FfayeN @Chellooo @LuckyMoonstone @Luna57 @Margo34 @MrscristianoX @Pancake92 @TheBirdintheCave @theblueflowers @mummatara @ChloeN @Luna57 @everythingzrosie

New thread ladies!! Wishing you all lots of luck 🤞🏼🤞🏼✨

please tag anyone I’ve missed it was just quick and rough xx

@MrsCristianoX thanks lovely it really truly sucks we were talking about Christmas in the office this morning as our office closes and I realised it's not that far away and the first MC I had this year was due at Christmas 🙄 it's put me in a proper blurgh mood about it. No cramps just absolutely nada happening. Lol mine were not hidden but I just don't think he takes enough notice of them to think bloody hell how many she taking as just used to order with trusty Amazon when I wanted more so it prob always just looked like the same 1/2 boxes 😂

@mummatara i still have a few easy@home in my bathroom drawer but I’m really trying to resist 😂 oh same, this is exactly why we can’t have a joint bank account 😂

@MrsCristianoX yeah it’s 13 days away which still wouldn’t make me 7 weeks on paper if they say I’m only 3+6 today. They said it’s because I had a negative test they had to do it that I’d had another cycle with no bleeding. I hope from now til them I get some symptoms or this will be the longest 13 days of my life I haven’t even that much bloat either just every no and again I get some slight lightening crotch. I’m hoping my body knows the score and is just doing it’s thing cos it’s already been through it before

Btw I also used to follow a girl on Instagram who was going through ivf so done numerous frer a day and Amazon banned her from buying them cos they thought she was buying them cheap to sell on more expensive. So just be careful incase we all get bans for being poas addicts 😂

@Luna57 Omg I best stop now then or it’ll be me next 🤣

@Luna57 LOL 😂 Christ it's bad when Amazon are restricting you. I ordered clear blue yesterday to mix it up🤣

@Luna57 😂😂 Blimy Amazon staff that check these things are clearly not a female trying to get pregnant 🙈 don't they understand our needs 😳

Thanks @LuckyMoonstone just read through your posts. Its so frustrating to not know what's happening. I wish the tests could give a hcg reading instead of trying to analyse lines. 🤦🏻‍♀️ I will try hold out till Wednesday and do the cheapies then if they give a strong positive I'll ring the doctor if not I'll just test every few days to see if they're going down.

Sorry just one more pic of todays test (bottom). If it’s not darker than yesterday then it’s at least the same…
Gonna ring them in about half an hour. Still got that weird niggly pain but not as much as yesterday.

@LuckyMoonstone I would say that looks pretty much the same as yesterdays

@mummatara I didn’t eat the whole time I was in last time in case the fork I touched had been in some dead persons mouth🤣🤣 I just got so freaked out I couldn’t wait to leave 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

@Luna57 I do drink a lot so the afternoon wees are literally clear so I suppose that doesn’t help! But I guess if I wait till after missed period I should get a definite result! Omg I know the feeling what about if it’s all somehow not real even though you know it defo is! Before my early scan I thought what if they can’t find anything at all🤣

@ChloeN 🤣🤣 oh god I'm super fussy with what I eat I sent DH to m&s for tasty food but they asked me what I wanted to eat after and I went with safest option of toast 😂 when I was in after labour with DS I had breakfast and lunch and no option of getting anything else as was lockdown I really had to force myself to eat it plus I was starving 🤣

@Luna57 I'm still laughing over the black market FRERs like really🤣

@LuckyMoonstone this is why epu exists so don't feel bad/guilty. Those lines are very steady and not dropping at all

@LuckyMoonstone i think that looks darker there’s a skinnier darker but at the beginning of the line. Phone them and see if they’ll do your bloods again. Your hcg should def be tailing off by now surely if there wasn’t nothing there? I’m probably just feeding to your already anxious confusion sorry.

@ChloeN try and not drink anything past 6 tonight and do a concentrated pee before bed and see what you get.

@mummatara hospital food is my fave, who doesn’t love sponge and custard after your lunch! I was raging when they told me I could finally go home after DS I spent 4 days in total in hospital 2 days before he arrived and 2 days after and I genuinely enjoyed every meal 😂 but thanks for highlighting that I probably ate off the same fork as a dead person 😥😂

@MrsCristianoX hahaha I know, she was American and had a big following it was during lockdowns too so a lot of people ordered her some and sent them to her. So if that happens to you, I’ve got you covered 😂

Rang them, nurse initially gave me the usual ‘hcg will stay in your system blah blah’ line but I explained that I’d already bled and effectively miscarried yet am continuing to have increased symptoms and dark tests and she’s gone away to look at my notes and will ring me back. Better not fob me off

@Luna57 omg someone else who loves hospital food, I thought it was just me 😂 it’s just so shit but that makes it taste so good 🤣 love the soggy chewy toast you get there for breakfast as well

@Luna57 @LuckyMoonstone youre all crazy liking hospital food I can’t think of anything worse🤣 I’m not even fussy just can’t use those utensils 🤮🤣

@mummatara I do hear good things about the post labour tea and toast, I might have to make an exception for that 🤣

@LuckyMoonstone don’t let them fob you off explain your tests are getting darker and not tailing off and your pain in your side. I don’t know about you but any time I phone epu which had been 3 times in total my voice shakes and I nearly cry and I don’t know why so maybe say how upset you are and ask for bloods.

@MrsCristianoX yes! And the grey tea 😂 I think it tastes so good cos you haven’t had to make it or do the dishes after 😂

@MrsCristianoX sorry I read it was you that liked hospital food hahaha. @LuckyMoonstone was def you!

@LuckyMoonstone gosh I hope they don't. If I were you though without being rude to them if they do try and fob you off I would kindly say you don't feel like they are taking you seriously and are feeling fobbed off you know your body and know something isn't right it's impacting your mental health and would like some proper investigations done . Youre entitled to be heard and get some tests done they do random blood tests all the time so it won't hurt for them to do some for you. I'm still shocked they didn't do any before 🙄

@Luna57 haha I couldn't think of anything worse thank sponge and custard where the custard goes all icky with skin 🤢 ewwwww

@Luna57 and always a tub of ice cream for pudding that’s half melted by the time to you come to eat it so it’s more like mousse because it goes all frothy for some reason 😅 ah when we were in having DS, me and DH just asked for cups of boiled water and made our own tea with our own teabags! But I’m sure I did get a hospital grade cuppa once or twice lol. Definitely helps that there’s no cooking or cleaning involved

@mummatara I will definitely fight my corner! Hope she rings back soon

@ChloeN I'm ngl my post labour tea and toast was a huge disappointment 😂 but maybe because it just wasn't hot so the butter didn't melt 🤷🏼‍♀️ told you I'm fussy 😂 you could pack some disposable utensils for your next visit 🤣

@LuckyMoonstone hope she rings back soon too. It’s diff to hcg hanging around and slowly getting lighter. Not doing the opposite which is what yours is doing. Fingers crossed they ring back an agree to some bloods. Easiest to know and be safe isn’t it then worrying if it’s nothing

Hello again, sorry for my random post this morning, I wanted to join but didn't have enough time to actually do a proper post 🤦🏼‍♀️ lunch break now so have a bit of time.
So we are currently TTC baby no 2, our DD is 3. We originally started TTC back in July ish last year, had a chemical in September and we decided to take a break cause we were still in two minds about having another because of the traumatic birth of our DD. We left it a few months and started again early this year. Back in June, AF arrived bang on time so I didn't think much of it except the bleed was different to usual, a few days later I started with cramping so decided to test (the most random time I've ever tested!) And it was positive. That night I had really bad cramping all night and into the next day so that's when I assumed it was a miscarriage, had to go through the whole doctors rigmarole to get an appointment with epu a few days later to find that they couldn't find anything, not even a trace they said. I've since had a couple of strange length cycles, and started doing OPK for the first time and got a better idea of when I ovulate (which seems to be later than I thought).
Now my current dilemma is, we've just moved house (like a week ago) which it's costing us more, my DH decided to tell me that he is now worried about TTC because of money, which I totally get but I don't really know what to do or say about it if I'm honest. That was just as we were moving and we've not spoke about it since. I've also not tracked my cycle this time because we've been so busy so checked premom today and I'm CD17 I think which means ovulation will likely be today/tomorrow. I think we would have DTD last night had we not been so tired so hoping for tonight 🤞 I know he wants another baby but the money has always bothered him.

@Luna57 jaysus!! A big fat no to hospital food from me 😂 now send to The Portland London I might change my opinion 🤣