TTC after miscarriage thread 10

[mummatara]

@AwayWeGo22 @bunnykins123 @calimc83 @FfayeN @Chellooo @Indianna2006 @LuckyMoonstone @Luna57 @Margo34 @MIW01 @MrsCristiano @Pancake92 @pangolin84 @TheBirdintheCave @theblueflowers

Sorry if I forgot anyone ❤️ also hope I've done this right 😂

@ChloeN it's absolutely easier to blame yourself than just say it's up to chance, we're humans...we need a reason. It's such a tough thing to put yourself through each month but hopefully we will all get there 🥰

@bunnykins123 48 hours so Friday I hope 🤞🏼

Bloods done. Just basic ones, I'm worried I'm peri menopausal and ovarian cancer. Pity she butchered my arm 🙄

@MrsCristianoX OUCH! With my thyroid symptoms I got told I was possibly peri menopausal, I had a bit of a break down. All is fine though so try not to worry.
CD1 over here 👋🏼

@MrsCristianoX good god, what did they do to you!! Do you often bruise this much? That's a hella bruise from having bloods taken!

@bunnykins123 @FfayeN god no. I think she was a student I didn't recognise her so she fiddled about with that arm then said I'm having a bit of trouble here. Eh no shit Sherlock. She got the blood from the other arm no problems 👍🏼

I have a friend who's a nurse and she told me there's a day in September they call 'black something' can't remember the day. That's the day all the student drs and nurses are let loose. And never go to a hospital on that day. I think now it's black Wednesday 😂

@MrsCristianoX we probably live closer than we think 😂 we’ll maybe be in the same hospital in labour together if I ever get out of this cycle 😂

@LuckyMoonstone im so sorry for your CP. its so unfair. Virtual hug!

@Everythingzrosie it could be implanting twinges but I def got these cramps too I’ll be 7 weeks post mc bleed tomorrow and I had bad cramps around that time and the following week when AF would be due and then nothing since. Give it a few days and test if you were trying. Fingers crossed

Did a FRER this morning and it’s as light as it was a few days ago so I’m relieved it’s not likely to be ectopic or anything like that. Just time to move on, a positive I can take from this is that despite ovulating late, my eggs can still get fertilised and DHs sperm is probably fine too. Personally I think my 7-10 day luteal phase was the reason things went wrong, and I really hope my doctor takes that seriously at my appointment in a couple of weeks

@Luna57 thank you for your comment, yes we did try this month so fingers crossed 🤞🏻 I’ve not felt it since x

@MrsCristianoX holy crap 😧

@MrsCristianoX bloody hell was she just repeatedly stabbing your arm 😳😳

I'm having such a low day today I just have this horrible feeling it's over and we're going to have to go through another MC so soon after the previous one and then start TTC all over again. I know I shouldn't worry until we get any conclusive evidence but I just have this feeling in my belly and bloody hell I really can't be bothered to POAS all the time again 🙄

@Everythingzrosie dont be disheartened if it doesn’t happen straight away you’ve gone through a lot and your hormones are all over the place. I was taking tests up to 18dpo cos I had major pregnancy symptoms because of the fluctuating hormones but cd48 here still and BFN 😂

@MrsCristianoX you were butchered, get some arnica on it.

@mummatara sorry you’re feeling this way I have everything crossed for you.

@Luna57 if I ever get a positive and actually make it to 12 weeks I'll be eyeing everyone up thinking 'are you luna57' 😂

@mummatara I'm so sorry you are feeling low today. I'm thinking of you xx

@mummatara you probably have a bit of scan-xiety there too. You've done so well to get this far, you should be really proud in keeping it together. I know how hard it is. Keep the positive thoughts - your not bleeding, this is good! What day is your scan? Big hugs from me 💕

@Luna57 @MrsCristianoX @bunnykins123 thank you ❤️ def have scan xiety still no bleeding or pain but I did wake up with a horrific headache this morning of which I had quite a few the week before the MMC so I'm probably going into a symptom tailspin and wondering if this is how my body starts rejecting what's not progressed in there. Scan is Tuesday at 10am so I'll drop DS at childminders then go straight there it's not too long to wait on the day at least.

Do you think it’s possible for me to ovulate even though I haven’t had AF since MC. I’m starting to get EWCM I don’t want to start using OPKs but my sex drive is def coming back again too. What is going on with my body 😭

@Luna57 from what I've read I think yes you can although I didn't. I tracked straight after the MC. I did get ewcm after but no temp rise or high opk

@Luna57 is this the first lot of EWCM you’ve seen since miscarriage? I had some too after the mc but don’t think I properly ovulated! Got af about 10ish days later I think it was

@Luna57 I think you can..I have zero sex drive like I literally never want to DTD again or even look near him. Just done an OPK and it's barely there. He thinks I've been bleeding for days I had a 3 day bleed which stopped on Sunday. I think I have ptsd

@Luna57 yes it is, the MC can count as day 1 of a new cycle, so once you stop bleeding you can then ovulate like you would in a normal cycle (I did)

I'm lounging around trying to look as unappealing as possible at the mo 🤣

@LuckyMoonstone how are you? Is the bleeding heavy? Xx

@MrsCristianoX yeah really heavy today, but not as painful as yesterday, so hopefully it gets better from here

@mummatara i got positive OPK cd15 I think last month along with EWCM.

@ChloeN no, this would be second. I would technically be in my fertile window if I was in a new cycle I’m cd48 😂

@MrsCristianoX ttc is hard, especially when you’ve to pretend you want a bit during fertile window and acting all spontaneous with DH but in reality you’ve it all planned and shaved to an inch of your life 😂

@LuckyMoonstone my MC bleed was 7 weeks ago and I had a fertile period couple weeks after it though?

*correction cd49 and should be 1dpo next cycle 😥