TTC after miscarriage thread 10

[mummatara]

@AwayWeGo22 @bunnykins123 @calimc83 @FfayeN @Chellooo @Indianna2006 @LuckyMoonstone @Luna57 @Margo34 @MIW01 @MrsCristiano @Pancake92 @pangolin84 @TheBirdintheCave @theblueflowers

Sorry if I forgot anyone ❤️ also hope I've done this right 😂

@Cindy974 ah that explains the high progesterone then - that shows you ovulated so that's good. I think from a fertility perspective, you might want to get them redone on day 3 as I think that's when they are most accurate. Other than that, I'm just as baffled as you are!!

@bunnykins123 thats brill thank you I felt so worried but when i saw them I was baffled lol! Still abit annoying I still dont have answers but glad everything is normal its a catch 22 x

@LuckyMoonstone do get the access, as if it is thyroid each time you get tested you can keep an eye on your results, it's worth the phone call or mention it when you go in. A number of times they've said mines fine but I've pushed for a change in dosage 🥰 xx

@FfayeN yeah I’ll ask eventually, might ask at reception when I next go get my bloods done

Hi everyone, sorry if this has been asked a million times already. After my MC I had a lighter period at 30days. My cycle before was a v regular 28 days. Used OPKS and thought I'd got a positive CD15 this time but now CD31 and no period yet 😔 had a bit of spotting a few days ago which i thought was AF starting but nothing since. Did anyone else take a while to get back on track? Finding it all a bit depressing tbh.

Hey lovelies hope everyone is ok! We're back from honeymoon and I managed to leave my phone at home which was nice if a little weird to not catch up on stuff. Not that I had much time as DS did not sit still the whole time 🙈

@MrsCristiano that easy@home line looks good!!! Def a positive and not an indent. Let us know the FRER result. I’ve everything crossed for you!

@ChloeN how long did it take for AF to appear after MC?

I’ve been a bit quiet on here, there’s been no TTC here I’m currently cd41 no AF in sight. MC bleed was 29th July. My hormones are so over the place I’ve been so distant with DH haven’t even been able to kiss him. We finally DTD last night after a couple weeks and I ended up crying after 🤷🏼‍♀️ please tell me why cos I haven’t a clue 😂 please if someone can tell me a hack to bring on AF I will be forever in your debt.

@mummatara Welcome back! Did you have a good time? :)

@TheBirdintheCave thank you I did DS kept us on our toes the whole time so probably not your average honeymoon but we had a great time if very little sleep or relaxing 😂

Haha yes, that rings a bell 😂We're taking our nearly two year old to Spain next Thursday and he has definitely hit his terrible twos early so that is going to be a delightful plane journey 😬 He is more interested in vehicles since we last went abroad though (thanks 'Grace's Amazing Machines' 🙄) so hopefully he'll just be fascinated by watching all of the planes.

@Chellooo I have been using clear blue purple last 3 months and it’s been different everytime. 1st month 1 day flashing CD11 and then went to static, 2nd month went straight from empty circle to static at CD12, then this month started flashing from CD7 for 5 days (really early for me). Also first 2 months the static matched up with my easy@home tests whereas this month didn’t get positive on easy@home until a day after static 😆 I did speak to someone at clearblue and they said that the test slowly adapt to your body as it measures and then remembers your baseline level for next month..not entirely sure how! so maybe if you new to using them it’s something to do with that?

DH isn't letting me be test mad today. I'm due on tomorrow and back home Friday my poor wee Spanish test will have to wait til then. Honestly with him next to me all the time I'm doing my best to act normal. I do not feel normal. I feel CRAZY!! No spotting or anything yet and boobs aren't that sore 🤷‍♀️

I also a tiny bit scared to use it🙈

Tell your husband he just made a random group of internet ladies really frustrated 😂

@TheBirdintheCave here here! Can you not sneak into the bathroom with it when he's not looking?!

@TheBirdintheCave I got over excited then and forgot to tag @MrsCristiano too!

@Luna57 hey, mine came back 30 days after the bleeding first started, but didn’t pass the baby until 4 days after the first bleeding so 26 days from then xx

@TheBirdintheCave he HATES that I use this 😂 I'll try and POAS when he goes for a smoke later. Hes hungover today too which isn't helping

We are on our way to see big cathedral 🙄

@Luna57 Every MC for me has been different in terms of how long before AF returned. It was about 6w after my most recent spontaneous MC started for my AF to return. The MC before that was about 3w for AF and for that pregnancy I was further along too 🤷 After my first MC it was about 10 days to wait for AF then I had a 3 day AF followed by a 15-day cycle and another 7-day AF. I have no idea why they have all been so different. Hope you get your cycles back soon and sorry for your loss 🤞

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@mummatara glad you had a good honeymoon 💕 how are you feeling stm? I'm exhausted 😩

Ooh I've heard that's spectacular :D

@MrsCristiano sounds like a good plan! Been checking back here regularly hoping for an update from you 😆

My best friend just got her BFP today after a couple of months TTC. We were imagining being pregnant at the same time as both TTC so it’s hit a little hard after my BFN this week but I am happy for her.

Today I also spoke to a private clinic and the lady was lovely and they do couples testing MOT for £580 🥴 but can do as soon as in 2 weeks time. My doctors appointment isn’t until 26th September and I guess even then I won’t know the waiting time for testing etc after that…so now debating what to do!
I do have a small amount of savings I could dip into to have it done privately (was saving for a car but who needs that 😆) but obviously it is quite a lot of money for potentially the same NHS tests…what do you all think?? I just feel like time really isn’t on mine or OH’s side but is it jumping the gun a little before I’ve seen GP or tried 1 more cycle to get to 6 month mark 🤔

@Luna57 bless you 😔. I can't help with bringing on AF, have you done a PT to see how much HCG you still have in your system? This can be triggering though so be careful. I can relate to your sex situation though, I too cried (secretly from DH) as the whole thing just bought back thoughts of what could have been. It is much better now though so have faith that things will get easier. It's so traumatic it's just how our bodies respond different to one another. You will be ok 😘 xx

@MrsCristiano I don’t know how you’re resisting!!! Just do it and tell DH that we peer pressured you