TTC after miscarriage thread 10

[mummatara]

@AwayWeGo22 @bunnykins123 @calimc83 @FfayeN @Chellooo @Indianna2006 @LuckyMoonstone @Luna57 @Margo34 @MIW01 @MrsCristiano @Pancake92 @pangolin84 @TheBirdintheCave @theblueflowers

Sorry if I forgot anyone ❤️ also hope I've done this right 😂

@emhope I had some private and some via the GP, but I am a rather impatient person! It did give me peace of mind though and the bonus is you then get the fertility related advice, rather than generic GP. I guess you need to balance how quickly you want answers vs what else the money would be spent on, or how long it would take to save it up again. Good luck whatever you decide 🥰

@MrsCristiano I don't know how you've resisted! Are you testing tomorrow or is DH insisting you wait until you're home? @TheBirdintheCave and @LuckyMoonstone both fantastic suggestions...I'm on the bandwagon!

@mummatara welcome back! Hope you had a lovely honeymoon despite the little rest xxx

@mummatara welcome back :) how was your honeymoon? And @MrsCristiano I was also checking in for an update I have my fingers and toes crossed for you. Excited for you!

My AF has come back I am so thankful because that usually is problematic sometimes, but it came back exactly 6 weeks! So I start TTC again once it finishes, I have bought my ovulation kit, I am taking my vitamins and I have avoided alcohol as much as I can. We had some on our anniversary but won’t do it again, I am trying to eat healthy but due to AF I eat some chocolate 😅I finish my period I think today or tomorrow. I am starting to feel really positive about everything! So grateful for this group always keeps me going and hopeful!

Ahh thank you...yeah I was using the pink ones before and they seemed spot on, but I couldn't be ovulating this early... think I'm gonna bin the purples and stick to the pinks! Don't wanna be dtd unless absolutely necessary 😂😂

@Margo34 I'm so tired all my symptoms went for a few days by some miracle then I woke up one morning and it was like the electric plug had been pulled out of me and the gagging and nausea one had plugged in 🤦🏼‍♀️ going for an early scan on Saturday

@MrsCristiano im so excited for you can't wait for your update 😍 I hope you're having a lovely time away I loved Barcelona

@Daisy155 thanks was so lovely the weather was perfect temp and only one rainy day I really ate far too much and had way too many mocktails 😂 DH kept telling me how wonderful all the wine was I was not impressed 😂

@Daisy155 how long did you bleed for this period? The heavy period stopped after a couple of days but I kept randomly getting brown discharge and it’s so annoying 😫

Just fell down a bit of a rabbit hole looking at photos of DS when he was a tiny baby, I would love to do it all over again and appreciate every moment 😭

@LuckyMoonstone i feel you, it’s so tough isn’t it. I was thinking earlier about how lucky I am to have my two (they are 8 and 10) but it seems a lifetime ago they were babies and how I wish I had appreciated it more at the time. I was so looking forward to experiencing that all again in November. Lets just hope we will get another chance soon ❤️

No spotting here this morning (though to be fair I have no idea when I ovulated so could be anything from 11-13dpo). I've asked husband to get me a FRER to do tomorrow if there's still no spotting by then.

I've had some cramping over the past few days, my boobs are sore, I'm hot and feel sick. I am 90% sure it's nothing and my AF will arrive as usual... but I so hope I'm wrong :/ 🙏

@mummatara aww that sounds so lovely and glad you enjoyed yourself! 😄

@ChloeN Sorry TMI - I started on Sunday it was a little bit and all of a sudden on Monday it was just so heavy until yesterday and it’s still going today but it’s calmed down! This has been the heaviest AF I have ever had tbh so it’s still going on 5 days today.

@FfayeN All pregnancy tests were completely negative after I had MC bleed. Crazy what we’ve all had to go through. I keep having niggles like AF is imminent and then it goes again. Its coming up to what would of been the 12 week scan here so I think it’s making me more emotional than normal.

@MrsCristiano any updates this morning?

@LuckyMoonstone I have photos of DS as a baby all over the house and it’s painful to look at sometimes but we just have to be hopeful we will be holding our babies one day! It will happen again

@MrsCristiano Did you manage to sneak a test in this morning? :D

@Daisy155 awww I really hope so

@Daisy155 same as me, I never get heavy periods so a bit of a shock really but at least feels like everything is gone from the mc now! Xx

Super faint. Ugh. Got ANOTHER Spanish test for tomorrow

Due AF today but all I've have is lotiony type CM. 🤷‍♀️ but a faint line today isn't making me hopeful

@MrsCristiano do you want to send us a pic? What is your CM usually like before AF?

@LuckyMoonstone looking through baby pics of DD is both lovely and heartbreaking. I totally understand how you feel. I so want to be able to have that experience with another 💕

@TheBirdintheCave that sounds promising keep us updated!

@bunnykins123 yellowy??

I will be DH on red alert 'who u texting' fuck off

@MrsCristiano shall we have a look at a pic for you?

I'll text later just had row

Oh dear :( Sorry if we've caused an upset!

@MrsCristiano sorry it's causing some tension. I also get accused of 'being obsessed' with this forum, but I kindly remind DH that you girls understand stuff he never will. It's easy to talk about all the things they either have no interest in or we don't want to clog them up with (for fear it will further cause DTD anxiety). I hope he will learn to understand, it's a feeling of not being involved I'm sure that they get defensive over. Just tell him you text us about your CM, I'm sure he'd rather not know all the details 🤣

Don't be daft xx he's a control freak which is why I changed my username xx and I'm having to share his hot spot