TTC NOVEMBER 2021

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Well… AF came and got me in a big way today so on to the next cycle anyone else TTC November 2021?

Morning everyone!

Sorry to everyone who’s out.. hopefully next month you’ll all get the best Christmas present! ✨

@HA22 congratulations! What a strong BFP!

3dpo now… luckily I’ve got such a busy week ahead and we’re away over the weekend, so hopefully that will take my mind off of it all!

I can’t wait to see some more BFPs on here this week ☺️

@SantiagoSister I ordered some different brand of early response tests, they had good reviews so we will see! DPO12 today, not testing today. I have not decided yet if I will test again tomorrow or just wait for AF.. found out my high temperatures were actually a fever and I have been sick last night, found some swollen Lymph nodes and been having joint pain so I assume it is a cold or flu or something. This really has been the worst TWW.

Morning @ajayelbee! I’m glad to hear you have lots planned for this week/weekend to help keep your mind off things. I’m hoping to be able to keep busy enough to pass the time this week too. Me and @Essexnewbie are 5DPO now, thinking positive and imagining implantation happening in the next few days, a bit of manifestation can’t hurt 🤞🏼

@CrumchyLeafs great, glad you have some different ones on order now, at least you have them handy if you do decide to test. Sorry to hear you’ve come down with something, that’s not nice. Hope you feel better soon. Take it with a pinch of salt but two other ladies on a different forum I am on got really sick a few days after conception, the rationale being that your body lowers your immune system to accept a new pregnancy which in turn means you’re more likely to come down with something at the same time. Let’s hope that’s the case for you too 🤞🏼

Af due tomorrow and last night had the worst pains that took my breath away and was certain I would be on this morning but nothing. I’ve got one last test so will do it later, I feel like if I do it, it will probably encourage my af to hurry up so we can get on to next month of ttc. Hope you girlies in the 2ww it goes quick for you and congrats to anyone with bfps. Xxx

Good luck for your last test later @Billymay🤞🏼

Morning everyone, DH and I had a good chat last night and I ended up getting a little upset. We had already agreed to try for DC2 but I’m definitely more excited than he is about it all. Anyway, we DTD a few times before O but not on the day of O or the day after. Also, I’m not entirely sure I O’d on that day and feel it might have been a day later. I know there is still a chance but our chat has definitely helped and if it hasn’t worked this month, I feel like I have his support going forward. Since starting to TTC last month we haven’t spoken about it, we both just knew why I was all of a sudden jumping on him more than usual. Prime example of why communicating is so important 🤦🏼‍♀️ So, I’m either 2DPO or 3DPO.
Looking forward to seeing some BFP’s this week!

Thanks @SantiagoSister it’s a bfn here. Roll on af so we can start again. Xx

@SantiagoSister Haha, DH said the exact same thing! That I must be pregnant and my immune system lower, especially since he didn't catch it. He is forever an optimist, which really makes me feel better.

@Billymay How many DPO are you? Sorry about the negative test, hun.

@Curlywurly3 Well the days before O are most important! I'm sure it will be fine, crossing fingers for you! Glad you had a nice chat with DH, it is important that he helps you and supports you in this!

@CrumchyLeafs I’m 13dpo so due tomorrow and I’m generally always regular.. what the bets i won’t be now I’m ttc 🙄

Thanks for the welcome, @Essexnewbie and @SantiagoSister - I think I may be possibly only one day ahead of you both! I had a static smiley last mon 15th, so presume O-day was on Tues 16th, which would put me at 6dpo today. BD Mon and Tues, fingers crossed that was enough!

So exciting to see the BFPs popping up on the group. Congrats, @HA22 - what a strong positive! I'm sorry for anybody who is disappointed. It is so hard. I always find it's a day or two after AF arrives which I find very upsetting. I'm a junior school teacher, so find things like morning drop off and pick ups so sad in those days after AF appears!

Nature really is so cruel that PMS and early pregnancy symptoms are so similar. I already think I'm out for this month, as the back ache and cramps have persisted, although AF not due for another 8days. I also have CM which always appears for me before AF!

Evening everyone, so cd 26 today, my average day for AF to appear, I tested yesterday and still negative, my cycle can vary by a couple of days, I’m just waiting to see if it appears before I test again but no cramping which I usually get beforehand,

Congratulations @HA22 xxx

@Billymay yeah it really sucks waiting for your period, even with BFN it is hard to give up hope until AF shows up properly. I am 12DPO and caved and did my last FRER because hadn't had a lot of water and my crazy brain was like "can't let this highly concentrated pee go untested! This must be it!" but BFN of course and instantly sad again. Also more brown spotting and cramping today so I think AF will rear her head soon. Really don't want to do this another month, I don't know how people who have been trying longer are doing it without going insane.

@CrumchyLeafs it’s hard isn’t it… have you been trying for long? This is only my first cycle of trying so trying to keep positive. I’m cramping as I type so fingers crossed period comes now so I can start tracking. Will you join a December ttc thread? Xx

Hi all,

New to the posting! I'm 7dpo after IUI treatment.
Had a progesterone CD21 today it came back at 48 which they said was positive.

Struggling with the TWW- patience of a flea!

Hopefully will get the Christmas present we have been waiting for!

@Billymay It is also my first cycle, but I am already tired of it and dreading to go through it again... I will definitely join the December thread once AF arrives!

@CrumchyLeafs I’ll look out for you, hopefully we will be on the same thread and have a positive. I certainly know that I won’t be as crazy symptom spotting next month. Xx

Af came this morning bang on schedule. Day 1 now for me. Good luck to everyone in their 2ww xx

Sorry to hear @Billymay think I’m out too, negative test and AF due anytime now xxx

Welcome @mrsmw132! Totally understand the struggle, I have zero patience too and the TWW is so hard. Do you plan on testing soon or will you wait to see if AF is late first? I’m 6DPO today, feeling impatient but going to wait until Friday before I start to test.

Sorry to hear you’re out @Billymay 😔 wishing you lots of luck for the next cycle! @WorriedD93 hoping AF stays away and there might be a late bfp for you 🤞🏼

How’s it going @Essexnewbie? Hope the TWW is still going quickly for you! Only a few more days until we can start testing 🤞🏼

@SantiagoSister I think it’s me out ❤️

Good luck ladies and congratulations to everyone with their BFP ❤️❤️

Congrats to all the BFP 🥰😍🥳
I'm out and will be in the Dec TTC thread (if there is one). Who's with me? X

Sorry to hear @WorriedD93 and @Cmacq32 😔 good luck for your next cycles ✨ will maybe see you in a December thread if I’m unlucky this month.

Sorry to everyone who’s out this month. Hoping that you all get your BFPs for Christmas! Might see you on a December thread in a couple of weeks if it doesn’t happen this cycle.

@SantiagoSister how are you getting on with the wait?

I’m 10DPO and did a FRER this morning (I don’t know why I couldn’t wait) but it was a BFN.

I’m going to try to hold off until the weekend now. Feel a bit deflated as I was sure this was our month.

@SantiagoSister I was just coming on here to message you! Luckily work is absolutely crazy this week so I’m keeping very busy and distracted which is a lifesaver. DH is going away for two days today though so worried about being alone in the evenings and the overthinking and googling! How are you feeling and how’s the wait passing for you?

Sorry to everyone who’s out this month, fingers crossed for a lovely Christmas surprise instead! X